a girl i truly loved with my heart recently called it quits, honestly i thought i would get over her in no time, but that has so far been difficult. i must confess that i was adviced here on nairaland to quit the relationship when i noticed some traits and discussed it, but this thing called love wont let me. i cant hurt her, i don't want her back either and don't know why she left. if i ever did something wrong to her, it would be that 1) i don't have money to meet her demands (which of course she never communicated directly, but through complaints and wishes). 2) i told her at any point in time how i felt about her, or her actions. 3) i was always there whenever and wherever she wanted to see me because i was in love and thought i was loved too. i really want to make her even if secretly wished she never left advise me please, i promise to follow the advises i get here from now on.

just rent a car and drive down to her house with lots of goodies in it. she go regret die~

lol, lady i got no cash n moreover i like being original. borrowing, renting to impress, not for me certainly

Remove ur damn mind 4rm her for God sake.Though,is not easy.Try another gal,for it will help u relax ur mind back.
U know,i have once been in ur shoes. & thats exactly wat i did.

You sef!!!  You no get money you dey find woman, This is 21st Century, No pride nor arrogance but broke-a ss dudes are turn-offs,

The only good thing you can do to make her regret leaving you is for you to work harder and be a better person, In future she might regret to have left you, but for now, You are on your own! Go find money first, pssssssssssttttt

guy go make money first, then look your back, no be only she go dey there dey pursue u but hundreds on them, including some on nairaland, i wonder why all of us nowadays no dey reason well, make money first then any other things follow,

roymary:

You sef!!!  You no get money you dey find woman, This is 21st Century, No pride nor arrogance but broke-a ss dudes are turn-offs,

The only good thing you can do to make her regret leaving you is for you to work harder and be a better person, In future she might regret to have left you, but for now, You are on your own! Go find money first, pssssssssssttttt

Gbam

Omolola1:

just rent a car and drive down to her house with lots of goodies in it. she go regret die~

LMAO

@ Poster

You are obviously too good for her and someday she'll realize it. Just try as much as you can to forget her and move on with your life. Put in extra efforts into becoming a better man, richer and more confident. And believe me, one day she'll come crawling back!

poster,

This life too short o, better move on with your life o.

go make some doe dude and she'll regret 4 the rest of her days, u'll be suprised she might even (shamelesslyas they can be) come back begging 4 4givness

Can you post the link of where you were advised by Nairalanders to call it quits so that we know exactly what this girl did for you to get such advise.
On the alternative, if you think you love her this much, why then did you not do as your heart tells you instead of blaming Nairalanders.

My frnd, luv witout money is meaningles.

They've said it already. Scratch that cash.

like other nairalanders have told you, take your mind of her and if you really want to get even with her, make a lot of money (legally ooo!). nothing succeeds like success

heya, its so sad that hearts dont break even. just make that doe

I see we have a rock buff in the house.

^^ lol. . . I see you're a rock buff too

all these 'no money, no girl' talk is driving me crazy!

Yeah. That makes us 2.

I ve learnt over the years not to be toooooo attached to ladies else they ll break ur heart , wouldnt want to have a second experience , however i feel u should just forget about the issues of ladies for now and forge ahead with life ,frankly they r not worth all the troubles .

So u no hold cash u wan phuck?

Omolola1:

MONEY is not EVERYTHING

money is everything!

You don't want her back but you want her to regret leaving you? Check your ego op. That's why she left you. Ego Ego Ego!!!! You don't need ego if you have confidence. Your ego is why you want her to regret leaving and no wonder she left!! Let it go!!! If you treated her well, she'll certainly remember you.

@poster, You no need am. Step up your games, make d dough, money makes d world go round. If woman leave you, na wahala leave you so. Stop being a looser about a lady.they ain't worth it. Move ahead. They are like shadows, run after them and they run from u, run from them, and they run after you. They make u think big, but prevent you from achieving it. Be wise.

at poster, believe me. I have been there before and the same thing happened to me.
She did not me though but her attitude showed that I meant nothing to her. It is so unfortunate for we men that when we love, we do it with all our heart and this make it even hard for us to control. My ex was still with me and the little I had I will share with her. I will send money from Benin to PH, she would complain of lack of money and I will send to her.

I did not even know that she had giving her virginity to another guy. And when she started with this guy, I was more of a maggot to her. I irritated her in every way. In fact at that time she wanted me to leave her but did not know how to tell me and i being someone that can read body language, I knew. My problem then was because I always focus on anything I want in life and so I thought that if I could try harder, she would change. But I was dead wrong.

After trying with no good result, I asked her to forget about me. I have since focus on my self. To all this guys who say get the money first and she will regret , I will say build a good life for yourself. My brother, if you dont know this, read it now. THERE ARE A LOT OF GIRLS OUT THERE THAT WILL WANT TO SPEND MONEY ON A GUY. GO LOOK FOR ONE AND NEVER TAKE HER FOR GRANTED.PLAY YOUR PART WELL AND ALL WILL BE WELL.

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winks @ inkerd nerd~

From your post, you say you don't want her back, and she was also trying to collect your money, and yet you're still sad she's gone?

Woman full ground for 9ja jor. It'll hurt for a while. Then you'll find someone else to occupy your time.