MY FIANCEE IS  A MANAGER IS ACCESS BANK, P.H
WHEN HE ADVISED ME NOT TO VISIT HIM ON MY MENSEZ PERIOD, I SUSPECTED HIM BUT CANT BE SURE
NOW I ASK, DOES MENSEZ AFFECT MEN OR WHAT
BUT I NEVA ASKED HIM WHY I SHOULD NOT VISIT BUT FRIENDS TELL  ME THAT MENSEX PERIOD AFFECTS JUJU/CHARM
PLZ HELP ME
I M WAITING

@OP

are you male or female ( Engr.ben)

Benita? Benedicta?

Maybe he's a muslim? I think islam views it as impure or something.

So, is he going to throw you out of the house during your PMS when you two get married?

wow poster nice pic in your profile me likey

anyway seems like your man is just not interested in being around you when you are on your period maybe because you get crazy pms or he is just a jerk who feels like if he can't hit it why have you around.

U said he is in p.h n guess u in abj,dont blame him na mayb u c once in a month

The thing is poster that right now you guys aren't husbands and wives yet, HOWEVER, ONCE YOU GUYS GET MARRIED, he will have to deal with the BLEEDING,

My husband WAS ALL ASSURING THAT he can deal with my periods and DOESN'T WANT TO SEE IT because he trying to get me BAREFOOTED AND PREGNANT!!!

It is a normal thing and HE NEED TO GET OVER IT,

So u mean ur fiance is usin juju? U bera run 4 ya beautiful lyf

Engr.ben:

MY FIANCEE IS A MANAGER IS ACCESS BANK, P.H
WHEN HE ADVISED ME NOT TO VISIT HIM ON MY MENSEZ PERIOD, I SUSPECTED HIM BUT CANT BE SURE
NOW I ASK, DOES MENSEZ AFFECT MEN OR WHAT
BUT I NEVA ASKED HIM WHY I SHOULD NOT VISIT BUT FRIENDS TELL ME THAT MENSEX PERIOD AFFECTS JUJU/CHARM
PLZ HELP ME

Huh!? My first impression is that he would want to do it with you but with your menstruation, he couldnt so best not to see you.

Than as I read further, I kinda feel strange.

Wh not ask him instead?

Ms. Potato:

Why not ask him instead?

she should do that.

then if the reason he gives her is fishy, then she should better run away o. maybe it's jazz o.

i wouldn't mind seeing her even on her period, if that's her in her profile. that's just me though.

WTF he is immature. supposedly you marry him, what would he do? I guess he will lock you up in a different room evey time you
are on you period.

girl this is pure nonsense and you better stop it. BTW you don't have to tell him you are on your period when you visit him you know.

Engr.ben:

ME. POTATO, I REALLY NEED TO HEAR FROM UNSEEN FRIENDS THAT CANT DECEIVE ME IST THEN I WILL DEFINITELY ASK HIM IN NO DISTANT TIME,
THANKZ Y'ALL
@ ROKIATU, HE WILL DEFINITELY FIND OUT

what got his work position got to do with your periods ?

your story is about periods we dont need to know of what he does for a living

show off i guess

hax:

she should do that.

then if the reason he gives her is fishy, then she should better run away o. maybe it's jazz o.

i wouldn't mind seeing her even on her period, if that's her in her profile. that's just me though.

LOL! See how you dey show your big eye. LOL!

Engr.ben:

ME. POTATO, I REALLY NEED TO HEAR FROM UNSEEN FRIENDS THAT CANT DECEIVE ME IST THEN I WILL DEFINITELY ASK HIM IN NO DISTANT TIME,
THANKZ Y'ALL

Hmm. . . But since you claim that you love him, why wont you communicate with him? if you dont trust him, than you shouldnt even get engage to him. In every relationships, communication is the key point.

I had alot of misunderstadnings with my guy many many times considering the big huge culture differences but me talking to him gets most of the matter resolve. The same things goes for him to me.

Besides, everyone else apart from the originator of this situation which is your fiance will have many different points of view and it might not be what he was thinking.

Just my honest point of view.

Engr.ben:

MY FIANCEE IS A MANAGER IS ACCESS BANK, P.H
WHEN HE ADVISED ME NOT TO VISIT HIM ON MY MENSEZ PERIOD, I SUSPECTED HIM BUT CANT BE SURE
NOW I ASK, DOES MENSEZ AFFECT MEN OR WHAT
BUT I NEVA ASKED HIM WHY I SHOULD NOT VISIT BUT FRIENDS TELL ME THAT MENSEX PERIOD AFFECTS JUJU/CHARM
PLZ HELP ME

back to your story

well it is very cleat dear from what you said it seems like you live apart and visiting him is gold i.e the company and sex

he wont have sex when pop around while you are on periods so it is better you dont pop around it will hurt miss sexually i.e you are there and he cant have it becoz of your periods . from a man's point of you it hurts especially when you have been missing it and then you are told that i am on my periods

Engr.ben:


@ ROKIATU, HE WILL DEFINITELY FIND OUT

How? Do you have sex with him when ever you go over

Engr.ben:

DRILL.
ITS NOT THAT, MY FRIENDS SAID THINGS LIKE THAT ARE NOT GOOD TO BE SHOWN OR COMES CLOSER TO SOME GUYZ

Why does it have to be about Your Friend's Said? What about his own honest Point of View?

There's notin wrong wt that and u dnt hv to suspect hm coz as a man and since u dnt live together,there's evry possibility that he wld demand for sex and he cnt do it in that ur condition.
BTW u shuldn't be visiting ur man most expecially if u dnt see eachother regularly during ur period. There's a gap btw dat and wen ur living 2geda.

.,,

jerk:

There's notin wrong wt that and u dnt hv to suspect hm coz as a man and since u dnt live together,there's evry possibility that he wld demand for sex and he cnt do it in that your condition.
BTW u shuldn't be visiting your man most expecially if u dnt see eachother regularly during your period. There's a gap btw dat and wen your living 2geda.

Isn't that bad?

Take example, my bf and I . Due to my boss sending me to travel constantly, I hardly see my bf for 2 months now or so. There was a time I have my period and I told him and that  its on the same day I was going to go home and see him.

He said so what if Mr Red comes? Mr. Red is my best friend! And Im like Huh? WHAT? And he was like Well, I can slow talk to Mr, Red to stop for awhile and we can do it. And I was like Baby, thats not possible. And than he was like I was just joking. Listen, I dont care what are your reasons, if we cannot have sex, its not a big deal. I just wanna spend time with you cause I miss you and thats more than enough. Sex can be done another time! So u better get your butt here sharp sharp or else!

So if a guy only wants her there for sex, isnt that bad? Like say he only use her for sex?  

Ms. Potato:

Isn't that bad?

Take example, my bf and I . Due to my boss sending me to travel constantly, I hardly see my bf for 2 months now or so. There was a time I have my period and I told him and that  its on the same day I was going to go home and see him.

He said so what if Mr Red comes? Mr. Red is my best friend! And Im like Huh? WHAT? And he was like Well, I can slow talk to Mr, Red to stop for awhile and we can do it. And I was like Baby, thats not possible. And than he was like I was just joking. Listen, I dont care what are your reasons, if we cannot have intimacy, its not a big deal. I just wanna spend time with you cause I miss you and thats more than enough. Sex can be done another time! So u better get your butt here sharp sharp or else!

So if a guy only wants her there for sex, isnt that bad? Like say he only use her for sex?  

i cnt tolerate dat unles u actualy wnt me to be cheatn on u, then i wl welcome u wt smiles on your messy days even if u deliberately schedule your visits during your mr red.

jerk:

i cnt tolerate dat unles u actualy wnt me to be cheatn on u, then i wl welcome u wt smiles on your messy days even  if u deliberately schedule your visits during your mr red.

So u mean to say your main intention of having a gf is just for sex?So that means when you are married to your wife and she has her period, does that mean you will cheat on her as well?

Hmm Op, nice picture on your profile and what a nice backside btw you said u love sex on there hmm me too .

@topic simple signal the dude know he ain't doing the sexo part doing your mess-period and for the fact he know how much you love sex just as you said he is only tryna avoid your coming @ all.

The occupation part wasn't necessary tho.

Ms. Potato:

So u mean to say your main intention of having a gf is just for sex?So that means when you are married to your wife and she has her period, does that mean you will cheat on her as well?

Sweetie lets wait until marriage,

Poster, how can you as a guy be having MENSEZZ PERIODS?

Ms. Potato:

So u mean to say your main intention of having a gf is just for sex?So that means when you are married to your wife and she has her period, does that mean you will cheat on her as well?

i didn't said so, read my first post well. A woman u're livin wt as a wife is there 24/7 for u and sex nt a regular activity for both of u. U cn abstain frm it during those days bt u cnt compare that wt a gf dat visits once in 2mnths.

REALITY101:

Hmm Op, nice picture on your profile and what a nice backside btw you said u love sex on there hmm me too .

@topic simple signal the dude know he ain't doing the sexo part doing your mess-period and for the fact he know how much you love sex just as you said he is only tryna avoid your coming @ all.

The occupation part wasn't necessary tho.

THIS SHOLE DONT SOUND LIKE A MAN WHO WAS IN LOVE AND FOUND HIS LOVE FIVE HOURS AGO,

BOY I TELL YOU AZZ MAKE A MAN LOSE HIS MIND!