Man, you need to ask yourself first if there was a problem. Find out what actually resulted to this sudden change, was there something you did and she hasn't forgiven you?
Did you involve in an arguement that made you angry and you said some harsh words? or

Just call her and ask why and know what the exact problem is before you jump into conclusion. Be yourself man and dont give up your love.

i also need to welcome you bros,av been going through this for a while now.do your thing now,get involved in what u like most,its not going to be easy though.sleepless nites,loneliness,i just hope it wont take u too long to get over it.

If ur girl friend wants to leave you is not something strange. I go advice you make u beging to look for another one bo.

Omo she kicked u to the kerb, be a man and fashy - move on jo, woman don finish for Naija?

Guy be a man
She is just testing you to know ur capability
pretend as if she has not told u anything
she will come back to u
And if she didn't then go in search of another
Cos there are so many fishes in the river don't die for one

@topic

Call her and tell her the relatioship is over

Dear Cherish

I welcome you with OPEN arms to the realm of Vitastraka.
Here you will eat of the bread of rejection and disappointment.

However all is not lost, there is a way out. That way is called NAIRA

Enough Naira will wipe that nonsense talk from her mouth one time!

Otherwise I suspect you will be the guest of Vitastraka for a long while

Hi Bros, pls weda u r wrong or right pls keep ur head up ladies behave any how d mistake from u is that u love wit ur heart but d real place shlould be d head . Pls move on, dont think u cant love another woman, there are many opening their hands to u pls reach out 2 them.

Maybe you are doing something that is annoying her. And she is kind of just warning you indirectly

Truly there is no problem that is not common to all men. Some of us are in the same shoe with you.
However life goes on. I always believe all things work together for good for those that love the Lord.
Hi Bro, remember Paul in one of his epistles, do not worry over the past. Life for sure continues with or without the girl.
Personally, I advise you to call her and get her reasons for quitting for the purpose of learning points if at all she has any.
You know most ladies are always myopic in their decisions.
My brother, no beg her if u no wan make I fight you.

That girl is too nice to give you notice, so before the D day quickly pump her very well so that even if she goes you would have lost nothing, remember soldier go soldier come

@ poster

Ask her if she is dying!

Remember she said: "i'll love u forever!"

yoruba use to say(ogun asotele ko kin pa aro) but the wise one, u should v preperd when she first told u, because i dont see how anyone that still love u will tell such thing, bobo she doesn,t luv u anymore and if u start begging her u will iritate her thr more. let her go, if she later realise she may comes back and thats if it wont be too late by then.

my guy, just gather urself and move on. life will not be the same but life must continue. know this tomorrow is another day that is better than yesterday.

will soon be over, geez! thats weird, did u two(2) sign a contract? u better ask for contract extention, never heard of this kind of break off notice before, weird,stupid and strange


will soon be over? , ma guy , its already over,

@ Poster,
Sorry for the laughter but your post is absolutely hilarious! "soon be over"? Haven't heard that one before.

Anyways, let me break it down for you: Your girl has met someone else that she has a strong fancy for and is willing to leave you for. As soon as it materializes, you are toast and out of the picture. She's warning you in advance to make the transition smoother. Sorry to put it this blunt but it is usually best to know the truth

She gave you enough lead time and you didn't use it for anything. You baffle me.

Oboy forget the Babe, because another strong man has taken Over her,men there are Many Things you need to learn, I DONT JUMP TO A WOMAN any how, because too many are heart breakers, anyway just try and get the best in anything you are doing, and make your way to the TOP. she will realize.

@ wa-do-mi get all the sex u can before the soon comes.

isnt it enuf dat on wateva thread ure found, u neva v any sensible thing to contribute? stop making a fool of urself evrywia, ure a disgrace to dose who know d meaning of ur freakin username aight.

its enuf dat d username u gave urself shows how derained u are and also ur [b][/b]poor self esteem.

if u dont v reasonable things to say, u need not talk, if u so much dont respect urself, respect pple aight, m sure u were tot dat, talkin of ur tribe, animanu.

its because of silly gals like u, some guys think ladies are sex objects ok. d impression is not done wit yet and some pple r puttin hardwork to c dat women r respected, dont give them a reason not too.

shame on u

GUY I ABEG NO PUT AM FOR MIND BECOS WOMEN NO FIT PREDITH THEM AND MY BROTHER DEY ALWAY TALK SAY ONCE YOUR GIRLS DEY YOUR HOUSE YOU FIT CALL HER ANY NAME SWEETING, MY LIFE ANY NAME BUT THE MOMENT SHE STEP OUT SIDE FROM YOUR HOUSE SHE IS YOUR FRIEND NOT YOUR LOVER AGAIN BECOS GIRL AFTER DEVIL NA GIRLS BE THE DEVIL SO NO PUT AM FOR MIND. IF GOD SAY NA YOU GET AM SHE GO STILL COME BACK TO YOU. SEGUN FROM FESTAC TOWN. CHELSEA FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When a girl decides to dump a guy, there is nothing wrong with it.
She has only lost interest or her heart had drifted to another guy so you should just
accept that and be happy. BUT WHEN A GUY DOES SAME! HA! WAHALA! THE GUY IS WICKED
AND HEARTLESS.

And they say its the man's world. Na wah o

So she acatually signed a contract with yuo and the contract has expired!! man pick yourself up there so many Girls outhere go into the world and catch them!!!

lol

This one 18 months mobile contract

@poster what is your iQ level? since you want an answer she means your time is over.

Here is my advice, "No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.
And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE!".

If a woman makes up her mind - there is nothing you can do about it, it will be hard but DUDE! - MOVE ON! If she wants to leave, make she waka. You haven't had your diploma in life until your heart gets broken by a woman. So, be proud to call yourself a man soon. .

I like ur advise. You were spot-on.

guy help urself, Seriously all this whining is not helping at all get urself a life besides a relationship.


Some guys are just sooooo Relationship-Dependent

Will soon be over? Even if there's a reason behind the disclosure, must she be so crude about it?

I think you should accelerate the process for her and break it off before she does.
It's bound to happen, right? Why wait impatiently in sweats, nervously anticipating the day your heart will be broken?

What rubbish.

Was it like an ultimatum? i.e. "will soon be over unless _____?" It's very strange and a little disrespectful to say that with no explanation and with no other context (unless you're not telling the whole story here).If it's over she should say it's over and stop leaving you hanging like this or else she should tell you what you did.

I think you guys should get together and discuss things, it's not a conversation to have in passing or on the phone. It seems you are actually serious about the relationship and not just there for the "intimacy" so I think you need to actively find out what's up with the girl.

Defintely she's got her mind made up already man.Its better you take it in good faith and move on like a moving train.

rejoice cos it is going to the happest day of ya life