SA Goddess:

Did she start seeing the other guy after she discovered your other girl?

Kingsleyinfo:

1. you cant win her trust and loyalty backe
reasons are:

when you hurt someone, and say you are sorry things can not always get back to how they were
the best thing to do is simply stay clean or don't ever get caught.

secondly the distance will not help you much, now she has gotten reasons to cheat on you without feeling guilty

but on second thought try finding out when she started dating that other guy, if you can pin the timeline to before she caught you
then you've gotten yourself a bargaining chip,

words are useless to a girl of her class, actions means more,
so prove to her you are truely sorry,
even if you have to spend an entire week in Abuja. let her know how sorry you really are
take time out and do something you guys used to do when the relationship was sizzling hot in the beginning.

overall wether she truely forgives  you or not, time will tell,

thanks for being honest with her
that should also count for something
a lot of guys in your shoes would have looked for one silly excuse to give to her.

all the best,

Omolola1:

She was looking 4 an opportunity to dump u, she probably might have bn seein dat guy b4 the incidence happened

georgeiyke009:

young man u just dont get it do u? 4get bout d past and focus on whts happenin in d present.her "standing by" u when tns where tough wuz her own choice and she had her own personal, albeit "selfish" reasons 4 dt. she is gone and dts dt.give her some breathn space and if she still feels u, she will come back.4get bout d other guy. confrontin her bout him will mk u come across as jealous and dt gonna backfire, if u ask me, just let her be, kapish

ladygaga:

[size=14pt] pls can i ask u a question

can you give atleast one reason why u cheated knowing that she truely loved you


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Kayraph:

This could be a lame answer to your question but it's d truth

I was unable to resist the temptation when my body craves for s3x. I guess it's natural to men,

dazzle37:

some times when someone is hurt, the person acts according to emotions at the time instead of thinking things thru.
her reply may be based on what has happened and the betrayal in trust, but it does not mean that is the end
she may have told you now that she is no longer interested but i would say she is not sure of how she feels now because of the things that may have happened.
don't worry just give her time, when she clears her head and the person taking her attention no longer fascinates her she would come back to you.
what is meant for you, no matter how long, would surely always come back to you
unless you guys were not meant to be together.
buckle up, life still goes on.

This could be a lame answer to your question but it's d truth

I was unable to resist the temptation when my body craves for s3x. I guess it's natural to men, Lips sealed Embarrassed

afribeauty:

U said she makes most of d cals b4? Now u stat making d cals,cal her as often as u can. Talk 2sombody u know she loves,respect and listen to 2plead wit her. Find time 2 pay her a visit in abuja,talk,plead,kneel and Cry on her laps over there if u av 2,if u tink she is wot it. Tell her u misses her real old self,tel her amidst tears dat u want her true nd focused self bak.After all dis she didnt oblige,then i ll tel u dat when a woman is fed up and makes up her mind there is nothing u can d abt it,except give her time and hope she comes bak,dat is to say "on time". Gudluck