afrobaby:

@poster, I will like to b sincere as I can
This is a virtual community where anybody can post anything. Most ladies that tells u dey do not ask money from dia bf are either dating a guy that are less financially stable or they are lying or they do not have a boyfriend , also most guys that will come here and b braging that they dont take poo usually do it, it is all a make believe. If she asks u for money, especially when u guys are really close, hope u undertsand, she sees it as your responsibility to meet her needs, even if her parents are wealthy, now she sees herself as a big lady who has a boyfriend and her ego will not want her to ask from her parents again.
Many ladies don't ask for money from their men because they have so many and know that at least one will voluntarily give without asking

Do I ask money from my fiance?Yes
How often? Whenever a pressing need arises
Does he give me money? Yes
How often? As soon as he sees I need something
Do I give him moneysex ? yes
How often,?whenever he is damn brokeHot and I dont want him to withdraw from his accountbleep oda gals

So my friend, it is a give and take affair, relationship is all about give and take, dat is why the lady is referred to as the help meet.mate
When next she ask u for money, be genuine, ask what she needs the money for, if it is not a pressing need, then tell her she shud hold on a bit cos u have someother things to do with the money u have, possibly tell her what u want to do with the money,
Ladies, we dont like our men keeping anything from us, ANYTHING I REPEAT, knowing everything about our man gives us a sense of ownership, like this is my man and I am his lady
Sit her down and iron things out, and let your love continues

Eiregirl:

I'm married & I HATE asking my husband for money. I work but we have kids & I'd rather spend all of my money on the kids if i have to rather than ask him. Obviously there are times when I just have to swallow my pride & ask him to help out but he knows I would rather borrow money from somewhere else than ask him!!!

phlame:


You are sick!!!

Eiregirl:

I'm married & I HATE asking my husband for money. I work but we have kids & I'd rather spend all of my money on the kids if i have to rather than ask him. Obviously there are times when I just have to swallow my pride & ask him to help out but he knows I would rather borrow money from somewhere else than ask him!!!

Yorisb:

Are u 4 real, seriously?

'U have 2 swallow your pride and ask him 2 help'? - Now that made me feel uneasy. . .

I am not even sure this is a subsisting marriage and embodied in love, however, I may be wrong.

Nonetheless, it is safe 2 say that summat is defo not right. . . 'WITHIN'!

Eiregirl:

Maybe the problem is mine. I've NEVER had to depend on a man for anything. I've always worked full time so everything that I own came out of my own pocket.

I understand you're not a Nigerian (having checked ya out. lol), ergo, you've been well forgiven as I can now see where you're coming from. . .

However, I still think some 'mutual concessions' (esp. since u're both married and/or have kids together) wouldn't hurt.

MsDarkSkin:

current boyfriend: NEVER!

Past reatiomship: once! and by that friday I paid him RIGHT back even though he didnt want me to.

I dont like to owe anyone especially friends, family, and lovers. Money is the quickest and most common reason/way to lose a loved one.

Mzdarskskin what of the $1000 which i lent to you last week
+ the samsung galaxy S 2 which i bought for your mom
the i-phone 4 S i bought for your elder sister

The brazillian Hair u are currently putting on
+ the $500's i gave u to get some xmas clothes

Yet u say uve never collected money from me

How dare u

SAFO:

I really like eiregirl 

Much respect,   

Haba Oga! You just dey like everybody today, which one u dey na?

190_@:

Mzdarskskin what of the $1000 which i lent to you last week
+ the samsung galaxy S 2 which i bought for your mom
the i-phone 4 S i bought for your elder sister

The brazillian Hair u are currently putting on
+ the $500's i gave u to get some xmas clothes

Yet u say uve never collected money from me 

How dare u 

Adaeze003:

hmm i think to some girls having a boyfriend is like having a job so they go every month for their salary! 

Yorisb:

I understand you're not a Nigerian (having checked ya out. lol), ergo, you've been well forgiven as I can now see where you're coming from. . .

However, I still think some 'mutual concessions' (esp. since u're both married and/or have kids together) wouldn't hurt.

Eiregirl:

You're correct after doing your check up  There are mutual concessions every so often, but I would never ask him for money every week or every month just because I can. I can only ask him if it's for something for the family or for the kids, not to go & do my hair or nails or anything like that!!! 

Ehen, now that's precisely what I was on about and I'm glad we finally reached a common ground. . .

Yea I share, albeit partially , ya view(s) on this topic. Well done, Eiresmart.

Yorisb:

Ehen, now that's what I was on bout and I'm glad we finally reached a common ground. . .

I'm glad too!

I share, albeit partially , ya view(s) on this topic. Well done, Eiresmart.

MsDarkSkin:

abeg Niaja dwarf goat  read the title.
it says "BOYFRIEND" not 'side mugu'. 

dont let me expose you

do u think ive forgotten how much i spent to supply all the women in kingston

related to you 7 wrappers each just to win your hand in marriage

Adaeze003:

@ yorisb, i'm not

190_@:


dont let me expose you

do u think ive forgotten how much i spent to supply all the women in kingston

related to you 7 wrappers each just to win your hand in marriage

MsDarkSkin:

current boyfriend: NEVER!

Past reatiomship: once! and by that friday I paid him RIGHT back even though he didnt want me to.

I dont like to owe anyone especially friends, family, and lovers. Money is the quickest and most common reason/way to lose a loved one.

Wislet: Hardly asked my own Dad for anything, not to talk of a stranger- boy or girl. Asking, begging, those things i detest. I'd rather make de money myself.