Hi, my boss and I have been dating for the past two years and it’s been all good for us because we are like best of friends. We gist for hours on the phone and also get down like once in a week on an average level. We love each other so much but suddenly we started having problems and I have been pleading with him to take me back.

I have sent him over 1000 sms and 10000 calls but he won’t take my call. I love him so much, I can't concentrate anymore.

Mean while, we are both married. I love him so much because he's the best thing to happen to me.

He had a meeting with my younger sister and told her that I’m too stubborn for him and he would think about taking me back.

How do I get him off my mind? Its crazy I know!

AISHHA:

Hi, my boss and I have been dating for the past two years and it’s been all good for us because we are like best of friends. We gist for hours on the phone and also get down like once in a week on an average level. We love each other so much but suddenly we started having problems and I have been pleading with him to take me back.

I have sent him over 1000 sms and 10000 calls but he won’t take my call. I love him so much, I can't concentrate anymore.

Mean while, we are both married. I love him so much because he's the best thing to happen to me.

He had a meeting with my younger sister and told her that I’m too stubborn for him and he would think about taking me back.

How do I get him off my mind? Its crazy I know!

so do you still see this guy at work?

why can't you talk to him yourself if he is your boss

@r231, we see daily and talk officially only!!! He won't even allow be in his office alone.

Let him go! He was never yours . . . Wake up!

At poster u r stpidly fulish.

Don't even know where to start with this one.
One thing is for sure though, you were just a spermatozoa bank (no offence) and dude has moved on to the next prey.
Now get your head examined and stick with your husband.
However, if that's not feasible then divorce your husband and get a real man that loves you and wanna be with you alone.

AISHHA:

@r231, we see daily and talk officially only!!! He won't even allow be in his office alone.

if i may ask, where is you husband?

what happened to your husband?

My husband is cool, handsome and self employed too and loves me.

Imagine the issue is how to get your illicit affair off your mind, rather than why you are busy messing around with someone elses husband.

AISHHA:

My husband is cool, handsome and self employed too and loves me.

coolio

like how old are u? late 20s, 30s or wht?

u have kids?

Mean while, we are both married. I love him so much because he's the best thing to happen to me.

Na wa oooooooooooo, women, so ur boss is better than ur husband,,,,,,,,, instead of u to thank ur stars that ur illicit runs has finally crashed, u are still feeling dejected about it. Wait, tell me how u go home and face ur husband after ur boss don tidy u well. Where u dey when dem dey sell SHAME. So if u get belle now, na ur husband get am abi,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ^{shaking head}

One thing is for sure though, you were just a spermatozoa bank (no offence) and dude has moved on to the next pray.

  , ^{see ur life} U know even get good advicer. If na me be ur husband, u know wetin I go do,,,,,,,,

what a pity , ur husband for hin mind now _{(my wife is the best thing that could ever happened to me)}

[b]Poster:
You must be sick and don't even have any morals at all; you are a disgrace to womanhood.
You are married for good or for bad and you never mentioned that your husband is impotent or treats you badly. Even at that you have no respect for your family. Not to forget your sister also, she's a slowpoke and i think it runs in your family.[/b]

One rule you should adhere to:Dont date your boss. If you feel there's a chemistry,resign and visit like a big gal.

bfire:

[b]Poster:
You must be sick and don't even have any morals at all; you are a disgrace to womanhood.
You are married for good or for bad and you never mentioned that your husband is impotent or treats you badly. Even at that you have no respect for your family. Not to forget your sister also, she's a slowpoke and i think it runs in your family.[/b]

im sure you dont sin.

take your curses away abeg. The babe needs help. we are tryin to figure out how some of us can come handy and bail her out of this ish

siddon there dey curse like Abija

tkb417:

im sure you dont sin.

take your curses away abeg. The babe needs help. we are tryin to figure out how some of us can come handy and bail her out of this ish

siddon there dey curse like Abija

AISHHA:

My husband is cool, handsome and self employed too and loves me.

and yet you are cheating on him

poor guy

Bfire, abeg coolu temper

tkb417:

im sure you dont sin.

take your curses away abeg. The babe needs help. we are tryin to figure out how some of us can come handy and bail her out of this ish

siddon there dey curse like Abija

And how do you want to help her?  Do you plan on sending a delegate to beg her boss to take her back?
A married woman should stick to her husband or quit the marriage.  

@OP
Concentrate on your husband since you claim he is 'cool, handsome and self-employed' and loves you.
You should be grateful your boss has decided to move on; you should do the same too.

hbabe:

And how do you want to help her? Do you plan on sending a delegate to beg her boss to take her back?
A married woman should stick to her husband or quit the marriage.

one on one consultations

ill sit her down and show her the way of righteousness. Can you remember how Jesus used to embrace sinners with open arms?

I wanna be christ-like and offer my warm embrace and good counselling. Im sure after the whole counselling, she'll become a totally changed woman.

@TKB
Hallelujah * 5  

hbabe:

And how do you want to help her?  Do you plan on sending a delegate to beg her boss to take her back?
A married woman should stick to her husband or quit the marriage.  

ok. so married men should stick to their wives or quit the marriages too?

then 95% of 9ja men would leave their wifes

bfire:

Ok, i hear una ooo.This how dem dey start oo. I rest my case

how den dey start wetin?

u don open church? cos i wan dey attend ur church

jay bee:

@TKB
Hallelujah * 5

Ogo Ogo Ogo Ogo Ogo fun Olodumare

u wan sing hymn?

I just dey watch/learn from u master

tkb417:

one on one consultations

ill sit her down and show her the way of righteousness. Can you remember how Jesus used to embrace sinners with open arms?

I wanna be christ-like and offer my warm embrace and good counselling. Im sure after the whole counselling, she'll become a[b] totally changed woman[/b].

Oghene meh!
<<Clears throat noisily>>

I can imagine what will happen after/during that warm embrace.  I hope she changes for the better and not drop her boss and pick you.  I just dey think o.

tkb417:

ok. so married men should stick to their wives or quit the marriages too?

then 95% of 9ja men would leave their wifes

Every married person should stick to his/her partner or quit.
Are you saying you will tolerate your wife dating her boss?

The husband fit even dey N/L oh and him no go no say na him wife dey talk so, LOL

jay bee:

I just dey watch/learn from u master

mshew

u people go just dey miscontrue small small things

just dey look jare

Thank you guys! I pray God forgives me,