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I asked him who the girl was,though i know the girl very well,she happen to be my friend but she comes from a wealthy family,when i asked him, he said the girl was the one throwing herself on him and that he told her that he already has someone who he loves.He said he just said love u on the phone so that she'll think he loves her and be happy,but i told him that it's not good to play with someone's emotion/feeling but he said she was stubborn and wouldnt let him be.She even want to vist him,but he refuse.I'm just confuse,that something might go wrong someday.

hey model all what u'v said means *therez fire on the mountain*

@chillin:true oooo

Model:

Iwhen i asked him, he said the girl was the one throwing herself on him and that he told her that he already has someone who he loves.He said he just said love u on the phone so that she'll think he loves her and be happy,

so she's happy? such guts he's got!!! whatever happend to your own happiness?what ails a boyfriend who would say such a thing? like c'mon now! Model, girl, he's trying to decive himself apparently coz we both know that all that stuff he said is BS! Clearly he's really inconsiderate and dosen't love u. All that said and done, girl, you know what to do! He's not worth your worries.

Model:

.He said he just said love u on the phone so that she'll think he loves her and be happy,

I LAUGH IN CHINESE!!!! Like chillin said, THERE'S FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

hahaha... no on a serious note. That dude is playin games with you. WHAT THE FXCK! he actually sucks at his game. He told her he loves her, just so she'll be happy. Hunnie please. Tell ur man.. u don't roll like that. he needs not tell her he loves her if he doesn't.

Is it just me, or do y'all sense that this dude is cheating on her?

HA spell all what u'v just typed out o-n-e  a-t  a t-y-m-e aight!

heee sense it?? i ain't sensin nothin i can seee it ! plain blank! girl all u'v gatt do right now is turn that shiet off the mountain! NYFD!! whoa!

what are you saying?

u mean when i said dis "o-n-e a-t a t-y-m-e "? What i meant waz for u to tell her so she gets wat the deal really is! got it?

yeah, i get it now. Im slow like that. Thanks for explaining.

@ hot angel...no prob!

one word

cheating!!!

you boyfriend is in love with another girl
deal with it. thats why he said "I love you" to her
also know that they have been some where together
before they start saying those stuff to each other

Well,u've got to watch out cos there's fire on the mountain.

WHY CANT WE JUST TRY AND SAY IT AS IT IS?
MY DEAR..why the HECK why the FLIPPING f&*k should your boyfriend say i love you to ANOTHER girl ?is it his sister?or cousin?or mother?and besides did he ever say i love you to this female relations of his?my dear....grill his Bottom..i will tell you from my own persoanl experience...i saw documentary evidence with my STEWPID Bottom ex..yes...we went away for a romantic weekend..and while he was in teh shower..i did what any SMART naija chick will do...i checked his phone..and what did i see?4..FOUR..MERIN..text messages..to 4 different girls...saying i love you..one girl was in thailand..(a thai)another in nigeria,another in london from senegal...and the last a russian(i dont know who made him koffi annan un sec general)... my dears it was a posh hotel...but i said..no way...i refuse to be posh....so i went into the bathroom opened the door and told him to STEP out immediately....he was still posing..by the time i started to YELL the whole country down,he ran out Unclad in fact...and I BEAT him up..yes..he is 6 feet 2 and i am 5 feet 6...but i whacked his Bottom til he confessed...(dont mess with an angry babe)..BUT..there was still more to come..by this time hotel staff had started knocking on the door..for where..i told them to call police i just didnt care... looking further into his phone what did i find?54 xrated pictures of Unclad girls with the most irritating names..blessing..cocoma..sweetpea..CAN YOU IMAGINE..then the WORST.....looking further...i discovered..4 recordings on his phone of WOMEN pleasuring him in every way imaginable...AND one of the girls sucking his RICE D&*k was a girl he had sent an I LOVE YOU TEXT to.
beleive me....he left the hospital with 16 stitches.... a smashed car (which he just bought 3 days before)..and he hasnt been able to show his face in some social circles again...and of course i dumped his sorry butt
dont take anything for granted.. find out why he is saying i love..and KICK his Bottom if its for the wrong reason..
and i am not violent i swear...

OMG!!! Papermoon, did you really do all that? You must have really trusted him. And prior to that, did u suspect anything? Did u see it coming?

of course i did all that..i would have done more in fact...trus??...i cant really say i trusted him 100%..but i mean he was a businessman always travelling..and i had my life to deal with in london and i couldnt go on all his trips with him......this is a guy with about 5 phones....i dont know the spirit that told me to check that one phone......
of course i went back another day to smash his car.

Waow, i almost pity the poor guy... but again, he probably deserved it. So what's ur decision about guys now? Are you dating another guy or you're totally off guys now?

HEADS UP!!!!!! Papermoon! datz the gurl right there! whoa! see wat i mean?? i'm speechless!! sooo speechless!! gurlz like u make a sista proud! dang! that waz a job well well well done!!

ICON...off guys ke?who died and made me mother teresa?my dear..life is too short..(very cliche but true)i have moved on...i try not to judge a whole nation by one bad character.but at the same time i dont take little things for granted.

CHILLIN....thanks girl..i got your mail but for some reason my darned system is taking forever to post a reply back to you,but will do so a.s.a.p..i just like to keep it real....glad you think on my wavelength..

papermoon:

and i am not violent i swear...   

after all that said, why does ur last statement amuse me? lol lol but chai!! the Guy talk true that day oooo!

ocho:

but chai!! the Guy talk true that day oooo!

heyy Ochorious! "talk true"?? after enjoyin thoze whoopsssesessess c'mon gurl he haz to!!

@chillin i'm also sure he confessed that GOD IS ABLE that day too

hahahahahaahahahahaa right!!

Model, for the most part, I usually keep my comments on other people's relationships to myself but since you asked what people would do, I wouldn't trust him after that. In fact, I'd probably break up with him. If he truly loved and respected you, he would not have said that to your face, and if he wanted to make it clear to the other girl that he only loves you, he wouldn't have told her that he loves her. How is misleading her going to make her leave him alone? She'd only chase him more. There's no logic in the story he told you. For him to say it in front of you, do you think that's the first time he's said it to her? And how do you even know if there are other girls in the picture when you're not around? You cannot protect him from other girls because he's not helpless. He knows what he's doing, and you deserve better than that. It's not easy to just break up with someone and find someone else you like, but don't waste your loyalty on someone who's not doing the same for you.
And that girl is not truly your friend if she's openly chasing after your boyfriend.

hahahahaha funny one. @paper moon , funny but thoughtful. U r just like me.

i suggest u break up wit him if u av da heart cuz he doesnt look lk a very serious person 2 me
i mean wht guy wld actually say i love u 2 another gal right in front of his galfriend n den give da fuckin excuse dat he only jst said it 2 shut her up i mean it obvious da guy aint worth it!!!!
n since u say he's sooooo good- looking im sure he's bn checking out other gals ope ur good-looking 2

nawa for you ladies; I LOVE YOU is now a crime eh.

If my guy is the type that says that to friends on the phone no problem but if that was first time of saying that to her while I was there and I could recollect that even the conversation sounds too lovely, then another babe is there for him to start going out with. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage like my colleague will always say.

@solomom: _{answering your question} we're talking I LOVE YOU said from a guy to some random girl, in the very presence of his own girlfriend (such nerves!)......................well, i'll let you answer your question your self.

I am good looking.Many guys come to me for friendship,but i hate double dating that's why i dont cheat on him but i think he doesnt appreciate i,he doesnt even trust me.But i know one day he will know,cos i believe in this saying"U wont value what u have until u lose it".It is so.
Faithfulness counts,so that any accusation against,u'll not be shaky,ur mind will be clear and that's exactly what i am doing.Quite alright,he loves me and he cares for me,but not happy with the way he talks to girls on the phone and end it with,'I Love u' or 'I Miss u'.
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In her first post on the 20th of January post, Model tell us say she hear her boyfriend say sumthing, and [i][/i]she sabi the girl, yet you people dey holler say she no give the full detail, blah,blah,blah, you lot come dey yarn complete utter tosh say e fit be hin sister, mother, etc  haba, you people no sabi read again?

@big_bumer: i refuse to be offened by your coment about our opinons being "utter tosh", though it sure does sound offensive. so let's get one thing clear about Model's first post, it was originally devoid of the fact that she knew who this girl was and it was after some of us asked  that she gave all that detail.If you read through, you'll see her relpy underneath chillin's post. My point is( and i know i'm not the only person who noticed) that she modified her very first post probably to avoid being asked the same questions over and over again and i refuse to believe  that she modified that post just to make those who asked that same question earlier look silly,so contrary to what you think, we were not just talking gibberish here. and yes my sister, we sabi read...but na only writings we fit read and not minds!

If you reread the last paragraph (paragraph 4) of her first post on the 20th of January 2006, you will realise that it is self explanatory enough. Abi ocho, you no fit count too?