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| Plz Enlighten Me by Senay1(m): 10:44pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
There is dis girl,she is my friend we were so close so along the line i started having feelings 4 her.so i told her i want her 2be my girlfriend but she bluntly refuse,she said she has a boyfriend and also her mind is not leaving him 4 now b'cos there sometin she stil want to do in his life but i know she love me too. She said we should just be friends.but if she did not see me she wil come to my house day and night to visit me ,even my friends tot i was dating her b'cos d way she use to do things wit me, she comes to my hostel to cook 4 me. But am in love wit her but i dont know what to do pls help me out.[color=#000099][/color] |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dyt(f): 10:51pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
Kill er |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by kay177(m): 10:53pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
Sen-ay: Continue to maintain that frendship with her and dont put much pressure on her, I have passed thru such experience, mind you she is putting you on standby as her spare tyre should incase or unexpected happens, Dont rush her take it cool you will definately have her if you are cool and not too desperate about it,  |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dsense(m): 11:19pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
Dyt:HAHAHAH. . .  op. Let it go and be a good friend pls. . . . , . . . ABI WHAT IS OUR PPL TURNING TO.So since ur female friend sits on ur lap eating with u nd like u always to be around her means U should date her? |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Yorisb: 11:49pm On Nov 22, 2010 |
Sen-ay: Persistence, slow and steady will see u enter the place.  |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by vivaladiva(f): 12:00am On Nov 23, 2010 |
spare tyre haahahahahahah who wants to beaspare tire this spare tyreis it tubeless |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by iice(f): 5:38am On Nov 23, 2010 |
All these people who talk about 'friends' as if na stranger. . .'she says she has a bf', 'He says he can't leave his gf'. With these kinds of friends sef  vivaladiva: Viv, you don't know how many like being spare but will come and sound 'surprised' like say na alien abduction. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by deniyor: 6:05am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Dude, get your own girlfriend! dont mix friendship and relationship up, its not the same thing and leads to complications. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Specialist900(m): 6:59am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Dyt:internet misuse. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dyt(f): 8:39am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Specialist u myt b ryt it cld b boredom u know |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by amurx(m): 8:55am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Slow n steady win d race |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by kay177(m): 8:58am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Nice one |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Specialist900(m): 9:05am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Dyt:prolly, but try to cut down some of those words. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dyt(f): 9:11am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Bt dey sound so mild 2 me lyk kill dem strangle dem tie dem roast dere balls dose words u know dey r gd 4 d kids |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 23, 2010 |
@Topic,No commentzzz |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Specialist900(m): 9:38am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Those words are not harsh, could even be used to crack jokes but when used out of place they don't sound mild. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dyt(f): 9:56am On Nov 23, 2010 |
Mayb m jst lyk dat u know can i call u olodo? |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Specialist900(m): 2:12pm On Nov 23, 2010 |
No. Don't seem to get you no more. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by gabriel4u(m): 2:37pm On Nov 23, 2010 |
kay177: true talk. @TOPIC, just be calm like he said, be your self, take some time if just 20mins a day to xplain how much u love her, but never frustrate her from losing dat opportunity dat she always come around to cook and , I'm sure she feel like you do, u will be surprise if she definitely work up to you a day to xpress her feelings to you too. gud luck friend. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Dyt(f): 3:59pm On Nov 23, 2010 |
Ok den olodo winks |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Oxygenmayo(m): 4:30pm On Nov 23, 2010 |
Be on the STANDBY, if she's yours, you'll eventually get ha, she cannot love 2 people equally, WISE up!!! |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 24, 2010 |
@poster put yourself in her bf's shoes and ask yourself this simple question: how will you feel when she does the same thing while dating you?! telling some guy to hold on because she has some "unfinished business"(whatever that may be) with you?! you better look for a normal gal instead of a rat like that one. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by deniyor: 6:40pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
Poster is the backup option. By design, backup options dont kick in till the original plan fails. That is one reason, it is foolish to chase other peoples gfs. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 8:27pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
^^ I might have a G.f but mind u dat wont stop muah frm making an output move |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by deniyor: 8:59pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
^^^ wht do you mean by making an output move? |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 9:09pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
Getting interested in another guy's boo. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by degubi(m): 9:40pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
I would encourage you to desist from the relationship for your own good. It is demeaning for any person male or female to be used as a substitute partner because you are not and may never be the real thing. Stop wishing for what you may never have and continue to give yourself heartaches. Love is not the exclusive right of one person, there are a lot of ladies whom you can love and have it returned to you instead of wasting time with a girl who only thinks of you when it suits her. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 9:48pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
Thanks for the preach anyway |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by deniyor: 9:49pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
@El Guapo I believe relationships are crazy and stressful enough as it is, and you should focus on one at a time. Of course, there will be the occasional one that catches one's fancy but it is the ability to focus on what you hv that shows maturity. |
| Re: Plz Enlighten Me by Nobody: 9:55pm On Nov 24, 2010 |
Good words pal |
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