Most times I've heard that women test men why?

to see if the man is worth their time, esp. if he is a perspective husband.

@poster
life itself is full of tests bro, men test women, life tests humans, and so forth.
would you buy/get anything without knowing if its right for the intended purpose?

if you have the right mindset then you have nothing to fear about whatever test some woman may throw at you.

cos they cant make up their damn minds

comparisons and influences forever and ever is all they do.

to affirm if the guys truly love them

To assert if he's her Mr Right!

we test men? No, we just wanna check you out like men check us out. We want to get to know you. Some women do "test" men. I guess you need to clarify what you mean by "test".

^^^

Test - find out if he really loves you.

Like lie to him that you are pregnant to see his reaction 

_{My life . .babes don show me o!! too many white lies from y'all. why dont you just straight up ask} 

To see if he is TRUSTEDGUY

The only problem I have with it is sometimes they come at the most inapropriate times. Other than dat I say if u don't like me lemme know this relationship is not a trap.

kokoye:

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Test - find out if he really loves you.

Like lie to him that you are pregnant to see his reaction 

_{My life . .babes don show me o!! too many white lies from y'all. why dont you just straight up ask} 

Ooohhh I see kokoye! Women are hormonal.  I think some men tend to forget that and think we are just being "crazy" or "childish".  But the fact is when we sometimes feel "unloved" or not getting enough "attention" then some may test your love/feelings for them.  But let me say, those who feel they have to lie about being pregnant is someone immature and playing mind games. 

When you are in a relationship, I think both women and men run that "test" of faith and love. Even if it's jokenly just like what you said to see what reaction we get.  And if you are with the wrong person, it can back fire on us.  So that is why real men need to find real women who don't play games and vice versa.

I hear you.

Two separate girls lied to me about being pregnant several years ago.

I shed crocodile tears but did not suggest abortion - cos I knew that's what they were hunting for

kokoye:

I hear you.

Two separate girls lied to me about being pregnant several years ago.

I shed crocodile tears but did not suggest abortion - cos I knew that's what they were hunting for

Woooww, they did that. That explains why you made the right decision and not with them.

but of course

but men do

Test men? Y should i waste my time doing that? He will definitely show his true colour and very soon. Men are easier to read than women ^IMO

Wumine:

Test men? Y should i waste my time doing that? He will definitely show his true colour and very soon. Men are easier to read than women ^IMO

Really?