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But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
This is my true story! I love this gel die (Blessing), i always feel un-top whenever she's by my side, we started dating 2years back(August, 2008), even when i got admission that year, she still occupies large space in my heart, i never demote her even when the presure was much from my friends, Mostly when i call her, her mom pick my calls but i didn't alter any word, her mom notice the same number always call, but she later opened up to her mom (I’m i not too small for this at 23yrs, just through with my OND), . Even when i was refusing that invitation she frustrated me to come and talk with her mom if truly i love her. Now, she promise to come to my place a day b4 yesterday at 2pm, i was at home expecting her ariver till 20min pass 2pm before went out to see my friends, she called exactly 2:35pm that she at my place, but i was unable to reach home not until 4:45pm, and my sister said she left by 3:45pm, immediately i called her to please come back but she repliedthat she was busy and she promise to come back by 8:30pm that day, but she didn’t come, i went to her place at night that same day, so when we were discussing i discovered she was agree because she didn't meet me when she came and try to apologize, but she keep on getting agree more and more, she left me seating and went inside, i waited hoping she will come out,and when she came out i was calling her and she refused to answer. But why should a ladies work out of is guys? Well, I left with shame and was highly. Should i say she as found another guy? or if i should go back to her place will i not be stupid? And is she Ego because I’ve shown her excess love? please i'm really confuse, but I’m not at false, then why would i go back to her?(i know if i should go back to her she will accept, but she stays two days confortable and without seeing me, can't she too come or call me) I'm really really confuse, she shown me love at the begging but I’m now in love (She brought me out of play boy life style). Please no insult, but this a true story of what happened to me! |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by kmoneyE(m): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
Hmm I dey laugh |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by GB102(m): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
guy go read ur book to improve ur english, how old are u? |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by iyatrustee(f): 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
gabriel4u: but na small pikin dey worry you. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by kmoneyE(m): 4:57pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
iyatrustee: Iya Na one of your pikin naww |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by yme1(f): 4:59pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
are you sure you gat OND? oh my world |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by HappyChick(f): 5:01pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
gabriel4u: Is this in Gaelic? |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by iyatrustee(f): 5:01pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
K-money, for where? if na iya pikin e for resemble iya now BTW, where you don hide again? banned again? |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by kmoneyE(m): 5:05pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
y me: Why do you doubt the poster certificate naww~~ abi you mean say na toronto cerbuticate iyatrustee: Na me you dey give tongue Hmm~~ i forgive you~~ the OP na olodo wey suppose dey serious with him studies na girl and Womanliness be em primary aim
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Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 5:11pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
But this not the advice I’m expecting from u! |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by livedit(f): 5:13pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
I can definitely understand and feel your pain. From what I just read, it's possible she could be still upset that you stood her up. If you agreed to me at 2:00PM, (I'm assuming she called to let you know that she was going to be late) and after 20 minutes have past you just up and leave then she could be upset about that. Last thing you want to do to a respectful loving woman is to stand her up. That shows you have no respect for us and to some, that you don't care. But at the same time, it's also her responsibility to let you know that she is running late too. That way she is being considerate of your feelings and time. Unless you'll leaving something out of this story, I don't see a reason for her to take this "silent treatment" to this extreme. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Without it, I doubt this relationship will last. If you've tried talking to her and she won't listen or respond It's only so much you can do. You can't force your apology on her. It could be a number of reasons why she isn't talking to you. It could be she is busy, she is being vindictive meaning paying you back for standing her up, she could have someone else or she just wasn't invested in this relationship as you thought she was. I'm going to tell you, no relationship is perfect. There will come a time when you may disagree or "feud" or if your partner do something that offend you. But if it's not something life threatening or morally wrong, and also granted you genuinely love and care about this person. Then you should be able to confront your partner and tell them how you feel. My recommendation, just back off and give her sometime to get herself together. If she is invested in this relationship like you, then let her come back on her terms. Because if you keep on her trying to get her to talk to you, you may cause her to resent you and/or run. If you haven't already, your last attempt should be via e-mail expressing to her how you feel and asking for her forgiveness and for reconciliation. Then leave it alone. Don't harrass her. Go on with your life. I know you're hurting and you truly care about this woman. I know it's hard and easier said than done. But you don't want to come off desperate or "crazy". Just give her sometime, and if she don't come back. Then you know exactly where you stood in her life. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 5:52pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
@ all, if you found any haplography with my thread well you, well you are increasing my knowledge and giving me intense but i will advice you to go on Intelsat. @ livedit, i highly appreciate and tax 4 ur advice. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by Dyt(f): 5:58pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
mtcheeewwwwwwww |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by kmoneyE(m): 6:00pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
gabriel4u: haplography@ poster you have multiple problems~~ why have you suddenly become a grammarian~ |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by angeltebo(f): 6:03pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
well, i understand what you are going through. let me leave your age aside as sometimes a 40 year old man do Bleep up. you were suppose to wait for her if you truly love her. she was just less than an hour late. please give her time to rethink herself out. you can wait or move on. MAY GOD help you. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by Dsense(m): 11:26pm On Dec 09, 2010 |
k-money £:@ Kay,leave this pikin alone nau . . . .U don change his life already . . . . ''haplography indeed'' . . . . can't laff gabriel4u:U get mouth . . .Don't worry they are haters . . . . . [size=20pt]Tell me who's that ''oloriburu'' that honored u OND?[/size] . . . , .[size=15pt]Pls return am back shap shap . . , Can't continue [/size]THIS GUY MUST BE A RELATIVE OF [size=30pt]MR COCK . , . , I CAN FEEL THEM [/size] |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by MMM2(m): 12:02am On Dec 10, 2010 |
go an make money(fast), she will start coming everyday, i no say u problem be say u never see her pant. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by eldee(m): 12:19am On Dec 10, 2010 |
@gabriel4u It's not going to be easy but you've tried your best in this situation. You could go back to her and demand a reason, put her in a tight corner but I'll say 'if you love sumn, let it go, if it comes back to you, it's yours'. GB102: y me: Come on guys, the matter here is his relationship and not his written English. At the end of the day, I still got his drift and I don't see any reason why you guys are swapping the topic's priorities. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 12:46pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
M M M: Who told you that? @eldee great one tax. @all I never expect this kind of consternation, while do you all ways divert from the thread but trying to prove your unrecognized capability in here when it comes to "English"? , No one is perfect but aiming higher and higher, are expecting me to use grammar before u can give me your unreasonable advice ? ;Doooohhh comon? |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by iyatrustee(f): 1:01pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
gabriel4u: ol boy easy oh. abeg |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by ferhyntorlah(f): 2:26pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
@Poster, pele pele. Take it easy with her. I kinda blame u sha. How can you leave ur lady standing when she already told you she was coming. It shows u aint patience @ all. U could have called her to know what was delaying her. I wouldnt like it if my guy did such to me. Still, ur communication channel is broken. Try to fix it. PS: @Poster, pls try as much as possible to improve ur English. I could barely understand ur write up. I got the gist from the comment of others. Reading ur write up almost gave me head ache. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
@poster FIRST you should accept that you are at fault. you shouldnt have left and if you really had to leave, you should have called and ask her whereabouts before leaving (although she should have told you that she was running late). SECOND she has all the rights to be angry as she waited 2hrs for you to come, which you didnt. if you knew you couldnt come back then you should have told her so she wouldnt have to waste her goddam time. THIRD you have absolutely nothing to be upset about and should ask/beg for her forgiveness! |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by Specialist900(m): 5:11pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
Poster Easy on your grammar, pidgin would be better. Back to the issue, give her time she'll come thru. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by karjard(m): 5:15pm On Dec 10, 2010 |
@poster, i think sha is still angry with you for not being around when she came to your place you have to take it easy with her she would surely come around if she really loves you if not make you find bone chop and without any ill feelings try and improve on your english, lol |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 11:58am On Dec 13, 2010 |
@karjard I just av to because, i was embarrassed by some lunatic things."Well i give much thank to you all",, I was at her place yesterday, trying to question her of what was the problem, or "have u found some1 else?", but she replied NO, NO, NO, and she said, but i new she's was coming and then why should i go out? and where actually did i went to? who knows if have gone around to search for some chicks? and she was angry because she new all i will say is, i went to a friend place,she doesn't trust me any more because, her friend had found me with two different gels, though have apologized for that, ever since then, she never trust me anymore, but am trying to let her feel and detect that I'm no longer searching, me while she's beautiful enough and who will i go to woo again? But to be truthful, she is sick now, just because she stood away from me for some days, which i could discovered my self, but why would some gels give them self or put them self in unnecessary pain?I can proudly say we've settled the casalar now. Hope God will keep every1 till date, am sure i would want many of you nairalanders to be 100% available on that Introduction day(Just hoping, not soon). I highly appreciate you all,[b] even those wey advice me to use pidgin , tax. [/b] |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by karjard(m): 4:49pm On Dec 13, 2010 |
thank God you two where able to resolve your differences,wish you two the best.cheers. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by slymm(f): 5:11pm On Dec 13, 2010 |
why are some of you going on and on about his english language? So not cool! @op i am happy you guys are ok now, please discharge those other babes, or be smart enough to not get caught. |
Re: But I've Doon All I Could! Or: ? by gabriel4u(m): 10:09am On Dec 14, 2010 |
@ slymm and karjard Wishing you guyz best in Big tax and very greatfull |
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