Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

Lalasticlala, this is an important subject don't you think so?

After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't

Kylekent59:
After he paid huge for traditional marriage, paid bride price, still did white wedding.

He even pays for his wife bills, he also sends money to the wife's father and mother. He also pays for his wife's brother school fees and his wife's sister is currently in his house living with them.

His wife's sister is currently in year two and she comes stay with them every vacation. He even pays for her school fees, house rent and still gives her some cash in case of miscellaneous expenses.

He even opened a supermarket for the wife and still gives her #50k everyweek.


And someone comes here to ask if they should or shouldn't

You're bringing another dimension to the subject matter. This is not about how much a husband spends on his wife and her family.

The question is should they stay in separate rooms? Pros and cons.

It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.

No

Big no

Most successful men don't share same room.Dont ask me why.You can decide if is right or wrong.

Different strokes for different folks. Whatever works for them.

If they want to

Their choice.... What will be will be

With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

I don't see anything wrong with it, depends on the understanding

Sometimes, a man needs to be alone. The principle of space also applies in marriages too.

Sometimes, untidyness can bring about an argument that will lead to a fight. This and other issues are factors circling why sometimes, they have separate rooms but can sleep together most often.

No.

YourCoffin:
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

My wife stays in her own room. My son sleeps with me in my room.
Doesn’t affect the love I have for my wife.

Let sleeping dogs lie, to avoid trouble, always assume the worst, so let them stay in different rooms, May God save us!!!

whatever works for husband and wife............staying in the same room is not what keeps a marriage

Damnnnnn niggarrr

As a real niggarrr

It is damnnnnn okay
Sometimes when the sisters or friends to the wife visit then there is a room for them to gossip all day and all night

Familiarity breeds contempt. They shouldn’t live in the same house actually.

attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

It depends on circumstances

Yaaaaaaasssss! Need you ask?

Been married for camel years and I can confidently say that having separate rooms is highly fundamental to the well being of any couple's mental state.

1030:
Most successful men don't share same room.Dont ask me why.You can decide if is right or wrong.

how many did you know ??

James289:
It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.

Lol... which one is bed wetting wife again bayi

Yes...
For a Snoring wife, dirty ,untidy, nagging and an unkept wife... I'll say yes a 100 times

attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

yes its important, no matter how i love my wife i would love to have a separate room(if i can afford) from my wife's which would double as my office and personal space.
She should have hers too.
It won't affect an inch of my love for her.

COHABITATION AS A WHOLE IS NOT COMPULSORY. Do what works for you.

yes they can stay in separate rooms that has only one bed

YourCoffin:
With the recent news on wives stabbing their husbands in their sleep, it is advisable couples stay in different rooms, if possible different buildings

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