How do you all feel about "Open Relationships" which are when a couple occasionally let the other person "see other people" or invite a third party from time to time to "engage" in acts? I just watched a documentary about it and supposedly it spices s3x lives and prove to lead to more successful relationships.

Worth the try or is it a load of crocodile @#$%%?

What's relationship?

Its nt gd wen u love d oda party o

MzDarkSkin:

How do you all feel about "Open Relationships" which are when a couple occasionally let the other person "see other people" or invite a third party from time to time to "engage" in acts? I just watched a documentary about it and supposedly it spices s3x lives and prove to lead to more successful relationships.

Worth the try or is it a load of crocodile @#$%%?

open relationship is definately a "flippant relationship" and will lead nowhere. am suprised u blv so much in wat u see on TV. they are just make-believe ma broda.

D-sense:

What's relationship?

that's a crude question to ask. u can as well google it  

If a guy will let you screw other guys, he is probably only in it for the sex.

Open relationships are for couples that are not jealous and for people that can handle the consequences. They love and trust each other very much and they both know that going outside their relationship will not break them up.

They actually tend to be closer and more honest with each other.
Their relationships might be more successful due to the fact that the average guy cheats on his wife once or twice during their marriage.

They both make their own rules and agree on the terms of their relationship.  They both tell each other if they like someone else and narrate to each other their sexual experiences with other parties and this spices up their s3x lives.  

"Open relationships"?  Super bad idea! The worse idea anybody has ever came up with.  How is cheating on your spouse will make your marriage successful? You take a vow to love one another until death do you apart. And your solution is, honey, let's sleep with the neighbor next door? Umm, NOT! You inviting a whole lot of mess into your relationship willingly. So each party involved deserve any and everything bad that comes with it.  That is NOT how the bible intended to be, therefore it's WRONG! It ain't no if, but, and's, or maybe's about it.  God did not invent marriage for it to be shared with other people.  That is like a smack in his face.  Then wonder why your life is a mess and on your way to "haites". 

Marriage is suppose to be sacred.  It's sad that this world has gotten so off and corrupted that people don't even know right from wrong. That is until they be calling the Maury show trying to figure out who is the father of their baby.  Or maybe calling because they need to get a lie detector test done because their spouse is continuing to step out on them.  Or maybe they are wondering why their partner decided they no longer wanted to be married to them. Or, could be that ALL parties involved has spreaded diseases among each other and end up at the infectious disease clinic crying because the doctor told them that they caught something incurable and be told make the best of your life the remaining limited time you have left.  Then you see those kayaking down on a boat smiling saying they haven't had a breakout in 6 months.

It's so sad that so many people has gotten away or completely forgot about the sanctuary of marriage.  There is no way in heck livedit will ever be for it and be involved in it.  I pray my marriage stay sacred between the two of us only and always.  Cheating is not an option EVER! There are other ways you can "spice" up your sex life with your mate without stepping outside your marriage onto a world of sin.  I'd like to see all the people who step before God at judgement day and tell God he/she took a vow to be committed to your partner only but stepped outside the marriage to "spice" things up! Umm, yeah, And the bible says: "The wages of sin, is DEATH".

No thanks! NEXT!

why border?

How do you all feel about "Open Relationships" which are when a couple occasionally let the other person "see other people" or invite a third party from time to time to "engage" in acts? I just watched a documentary about it and supposedly it spices s3x lives and prove to lead to more successful relationships.

It is exstatic. . . . . but comes with a side effect

- plenty black eyes and bloodied lips.

I don't like sharing.

Humans generally speaking are jealous creatures, so I dont see how these open relationships can stand the test of time

Poster ur explanation of the term 'open relationship' sounds more complex than the way i understood it all along. now dat i know better, its off my check list.
But the idea of 'friends with benefit' where the both parties are in it solely for the s3x and some fringe benefits (no strings attached) aint that bad.

I support open relationships, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH OPEN RELATIONSHIPS,

^^^

Emmm can we start an open relationship ma'am?

umm @ MrsEve

Open relationships leave you open to all different kind of problems, even can of worms  

I would never be in one of those. I will never share a man knowingly with any other person, man or woman.  Open relationships are no different from the couples who swing. I know a couple who swings and right now they have the HIV and neither of them knows where it came from. They are not playing the blame game, but I guess they are saying "If I had known", as I am pretty much sure no one would ever set up themself to catch any form of disease, guess they were not careful enough.  I am always for, one man to one woman, nothing more and nothing less.

Open relationship my azz

OP.
If people don't like open relationship tell them to make it a close relationship . . .Means '''To always close the door when having intimacy''

D-sense:

OP.
If people don't like open relationship tell them to make it a close relationship . . .Means '''To always close the door when having intimacy''

not so amusing

Open wetin? I'll pass

I wudnt share my kitten with anyone lailai

Firearm:

^^^

Emmm can we start an open relationship ma'am?

Sure! See if your girl down for it, We can do the exchange on Sundays deal?

Mygoldie:

umm @ MrsEve

What you disagree with me?

D-sense:

OP.
If people don't like open relationship tell them to make it a close relationship . . .Means '''To always close the door when having intimacy''

Wanna join in?

no likey,no sharing, Mrseve u wanna eat ur cake and have it?

Well, I believe in spicing up the bedroom and open relationships can be fun, now the task would be GETTING MY HUSBAND TO JOIN on board,

Lol wee three some eh? don't try and lure your hubby oh,cos if he exprience it,he might not wanna stop.

Carolece:

Open relationships leave you open to all different kind of problems, even can of worms

I would never be in one of those. I will never share a man knowingly with any other person, man or woman. Open relationships are no different from the couples who swing. I know a couple who swings and right now they have the HIV and neither of them knows where it came from. They are not playing the blame game, but I guess they are saying "If I had known", as I am pretty much sure no one would ever set up themself to catch any form of disease, guess they were not careful enough. I am always for, one man to one woman, nothing more and nothing less.

Open relationship my azz

So nasty. they decided to swing but forgot to protect each other.
They should have known to wear bullet proof with other partners. SMH.

Mrs, Eve:

I support open relationships, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH OPEN RELATIONSHIPS,

You better not tell your Igbo husband! No Igbo man would support that. We are very possessive!

Ochi_Agha:

You better not tell your Igbo husband! No Igbo man would support that. We are very possessive!

You a damn lie! Igbo men are some freaks! They some Hot sommabishes and open relationships allow them to be FREE AS A BIRD, you know I ain't lying!

Mrs, Eve:

You a damn lie! Igbo men are some freaks! They some Hot sommabishes and open relationships allow them to be FREE AS A BIRD, you know I ain't lying!

The Devil is a LIAR! Yes, we are freaks. But we don't like sharing. An open relationship will only work, if the woman stays faithful. Let us men be fruitful. If you husband supports open relationship, then I call dibs on u. I never been with a married woman before.

Mygoldie:






not so amusing

Stop hating . . , I know you want me kissing you but i will never kiss that stinky lips

Mrs, Eve:

Sure! See if your girl down for it, We can do the exchange on Sundays deal?


What you disagree with me?
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