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Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tiemo(m): 5:24pm On Jan 11, 2011
A lot of relationships break up and come to an end, not because the offence that led to the breakup was unpardonable or unforgivable. But, relationships come to a dead end simply because you don't know exactly what to do to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back in love with you.

Many times when you look into the internet in search for information on what to do to get an ex back into a relationshi p, you often come across ideas that are either misleading, incapable or insufficient from folks online who have posted such articles.

Alot of these ideas if applied will make your ex pull further and futher away from you. Now, i know you don't want that to happen.

There are relationship experts known in the USA who have been successful in helping men and women all over the world return back into a relationship with their exes. I'll provide a link to one of these experts who have had tremendous success in reconciling relationships. If you are ready to take huge steps to getting your ex back I suggest you get the solution from one of these experts. Here's the link again; http://www.BreakupCare.com

At the subsequent part of this write-up, I posted information from my little personal knowledge on some basic things that might be of help in relating to your ex. But if you want assurance on the best strategies to get your ex back I suggest you visit the link I provided above.

What if you had been able to attract your ex again and build a new relationship with him or her, instead of letting them go forever. What if, you had taken this opportunity that’s in front of you; an opportunity to receive forgiveness for anything you feel you may have done wrong. Another chance to make your ex fall in love with you again. You feel it within yourself that if your ex should give you another chance, you will never let go again. Surely, you wouldn’t throw an opportunity away like this, to get your ex to love you again.

How to get your ex back – More than 90% of everyone who has been ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once. If this is your first breakup experience, my heart goes to you. If you do whatever it takes, I believe you will get your ex back just like many others were successful. I once got my ex back, so I’m rooting for you. Just in a moment I will show you the exact same strategies and where I got all the information I used in getting my ex back. But, I want you to be aware of certain reality that will prepare your mind before you start using any of the strategies.

1. Be Determined And Courageous
Just like I mentioned earlier “More than 90% of everyone who was ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once”, what if you aren’t one of those that chicken out easily? You want your ex back in love with you. And you are searching for the right words to say to your ex, wanting to know the right steps to take and exactly what to do to win him or her back even if he or she has a new found boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes, I don’t want you ignorant of the fact that your ex may already be dating another lover. That’s exactly what happened to me. That’s why I’m taking my time to encourage you, so you wouldn’t be discouraged along as you make move to getting your ex back.

2. Avoid the Temptation
Take no interest in side attractions or momentarily satisfaction. As you try to get your ex back you might be tempted to have sex with him or her. I have seen this happen several times – particularly when your ex says he or she can accept to be a friend for the moment (friends with benefits) or especially when you get to the point where you have established communication with your ex – which you will also learn to do at the program organized by the relationship coach that helped me when I had breakup issues. I’m just trying to prepare your mind so you wouldn’t end up making the same mistakes many ladies make that could blow-up your chances of getting back together. Remember that your aim is to get your ex back in love with you, back into your home if you were married, back into commitment (because no relationship is real without commitment), the aim is to establish him or her as your soul mate again.

3. Never Try To Make Your Ex Jealous
Decide – You’re not going to Flirt with guys your Ex knows, hoping that he or she will get jealous when they hear about it. Trying to make your ex jealous with an aim to make him or her desire you is one of the worst moves or action you can take. Lots of ladies tell me they already make this mistake in about 2 months after break up. By making them jealous you are actually showing them that you have moved on and he or she should do the same.

Right now, I am about to show you how to contact your ex and establish communication with him or her. If your ex has been very stubborn and has been unwilling to respond positively or have any form of communication with you, you need to take the steps listed at a few paragraphs below with the title; “What To Do When Your Ex Will Not Communicate”.



4. Demonstrate Humility
Your change starts here, I mean change of your attitude. If the breakup was instigated by a conflict, most probably you always viewed things and spoke from your own perspective. It’s time to view things from your ex’s point of view. It’s time to agree with your ex. This is where you begin to agree with your ex concerning everything he or she previously said about you. Doubtless, it’s time to send your ex a message conveying the understanding that you agree to see things from his or her own point of view. Let your ex know that you trust in his or her wisdom, that you trust them, that you belief in their future, that you belief he or she is going to have a great future. They your ex what you value in their personality.

5. Time to Agree
Agreement is the first quality of humility. When you agree with someone, you’re not arguing with that person. Let the other person have his or her way first. Agree now, then discuss or negotiate later. It’s a patient way of avoiding conflict but settling the issue at hand at a later and favorable time.

The first thing you should say to your ex is “words of agreement”. Agree with your ex concerning every issue or conflict you’ve ever had. Right about now, you might be all worried and scared that you may never be able to get him or her back to you. Although, the reality is that couples break up and later get back together almost always time after they have been able to set the course right. Each day all over the world lovers decide to get back together even if one partner cheated or really screwed up. We see it all over the media these days, amongst Hollywood Celebrities, I mean all over. This is what I call receiving instant forgiveness for your wrongs plus it’s a relevant part of love that existed in a relationship. Also, there should be no doubt that your ex still has some element of love for you. However, you will have to act maturely and speak wisely in order for an ex to forgive you for the wrongs you do or for cheating.

6. Act Maturely And Speak With Wisdom

A little reality – Anyone who has been wronged by a lover has the tendency to be offended. But, if he or she is wise and mature, he or she would realize that he or she needs to forgive you when you come up with a reasonable plea. Listen to this – Nobody Ever Screws Up, Right? – Reminiscence back and attempt to remember if your ex ever slip-up or did something that actually offended you. Has he or she ever been on the guilty side of this equation? Did he or she ever slip-up and say things that really upset you? You can remember instances if you reminisce more, when your ex got you offended, he or she asked for your forgiveness and you forgave him or her. The relationship went on and you began to trust him or her again, love him or her again and feel those loving thoughts for him or her again in spite of what he or she put you through. Both of you totally forgot about the issue, got over it, stopped focusing on what took place and you simply loved each other for better.

Tell him or her you wake up every morning remembering the mistakes you did that led to the breakup, that you are sorry you hurt him or her, that you can’t believe you actually did that to someone (him or her) whom you loved so much. Tell him or her you love him or her so much that’s why you can never forget your wrong mistakes. Tell him or her that he or she’s forgiving you will be the best and greatest favor you have ever received and possibly receive for the next 20 years. Let him or her know that the future of the relationship you two had has a promising joy. Tell him or her you can do more for him or her than you have ever done.

Agree with you ex
Act maturely and speak with wisdom
Speak in support of his future
7. Support His or Her Future
Men are visionaries; we want to accomplish something with our lives. That’s why we are not lazy when we’ve got some job to do. A man would love you, keep you as one close to his heart if you are interested in his personal progress and success. When he or she sees how you speak of his establishment and progress in life, he or she will be utterly amazed.

Tell him or her you believe in him or her. Tell him or her you believe he or she is going to have a great future. Tell him or her you are going to stand by his side. Tell him or her you’re going to support him or her all through to his success.

8. Draw Him Or Her Into Getting Involved In Your Life Again
By getting him or her involved in your life, I don’t mean you should date him or her yet. This strategic step aims at getting him or her into communicating with you again. You can start out by reminding him or her of a pleasant moment you two shared together.

Analysis by psychologists on getting couples back together had been made providing psychological methods to get an ex back. A well known issue shows that couples break up because they develop lack of interest for one or the other. Now, how do they get back together? Also the analysis have shown that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again. In this article I have written ideas from me on what to do about reconciling with your ex, but you can use better Psychological and Expert Tips from Relationship Experts to get your ex boyfriend back – you can find them on this link: http://BreakupCare.com


For a long time, even centuries relationships between males and females have been examined by relationship experts and psychologists to understand actual issues in the relationship and proffer solutions from there. Surely relationships is a natural phenomenon, we cannot do without it, everyone enters a relationship every now and then accompanied with break-ups and make-ups. Yet a main issue in a relationship is when couples get separated, which mostly goes together with a heart break. Ex girlfriend does not want is to happen, but ex boyfriend does.




Did this happened to you that your boyfriend became your ex boyfriend or just a friend? Do you miss him and do not know what to do? The break-up may or may not be your fault, but you want to get back together and do not want to spend anymore lonely days by yourself. Whenever you think about your ex boyfriend and you wish the break-up never happened it sure hurts. I want you to be assured that you will get back your ex as soon as you begin to apply these proven psychological tricks.


Do not forget that you have to stay on track and keep focus on doing things you need to do to help you get your ex boyfriend back.


First you are going to start by finding out the information (psychological methods) which you will apply and will be extremely useful to get your ex boyfriend back. These psychological methods will teach and show you how to act and react in situations where it is impossible to win back the love of your ex; you will succeed and come out on top the game.


Getting your Ex requires effort on your side. Sometimes the problem why we are not able to get our ex back actually lie within us.


Shortly I will tell you a quick story about my friend Kelly. Kelly had trouble with a lot of men nearly all the time, for some reasons her relationships ended in a break-up. I mean that men left Kelly all the time, for some reason. Every people ever involved in a relationship failure have their respective reasons that led to the break-up and so is Kelly. Kelly isn't ugly looking, as a matter of  fact she is a pretty lady with admirers everywhere. She is very attractive woman, Kelly started to believe that she must have been bewitched with a spell. Whenever Kelly dated a man, he would leave her, but she did not respond by seeking relationship advice on it. Kelly was always in search for a new love mate. The more Kelly got hooked up with a guy, the more it happened with her - another break-up. Then she found a book which was referred to her by her friend on how to get an ex boyfriend back titled "The Ex Factor Guide" By Brad Browning (a prolific relationship expert) . Here is a link to Brad's website. Kelly's problem was not solved until till she read the book, understood what was in it and applied the steps to getting an ex back and also how to keep him in love.


The information (psychological methods) on getting an ex boyfriend back is incredible, because Kelly got her guy back and kept him for good. Kelly's problem was not in guys that Kelly was dating, the problem was in Kelly because she didn't go for knowledge that would help her get her ex back. The action and reaction methods  in the book thought Kelly to get her ex boyfriend back and also not to make the same mistakes she was making earlier on.


Do not be Kelly or anything like her "before". Remember that the longer the time couples spend separated, they are most likely they will never get back together as soul mates again.


At this point in time you could get your life under control and get your ex back. You could get your ex boyfriend back, as well as help out your girlfriends get their ex boyfriend back by giving them pointers about their relationships from the book, just like I'm doing. As you help your girlfriends  by giving them advice from the book, you will be glad you did.


First of all your ex boyfriend will beg and plead to get back to you and never leave you again, and Secondly, your girlfriends will surely be relieved and thankful to you for your suggestions from the book.


All you have to do is to get the psychological tricks, learn them and use them to get your ex boyfriend back. Learn to push what TW Jackson calls "psychological hot-buttons" to gain psychological control over your ex boyfriend. He will literally beg you to come back.


If this is the man for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to make him love you like never before. This website has answers for you: http://www.BreakupCare.com


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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by rebeccajon: 11:15am On Mar 12, 2011
Keep yourself busy in full of activity because it’s really wretched to spend all the time in mourning about the loss of unsuccessful relationship because doing so is unhelpful for you and for your beautiful future.  Your life should be going to lead onward whether you get your love back or not. If you can concentrate on other things then surely he will find you as a lively, tough and emotionally stable woman, not the one who is distressed and aimless. Show him that you are independent and your future is not going to suffer without him.

Incredible look can turn the game on your side, because every guy wants to see his girlfriend beautiful and stunning. Put effort on your overall appearance, like eat better, exercise well, make around of salon and take complete care about yourself. It will not only leave a great impact on him when he will see you again but you too feel better about yourself and also helps a lot to get ex boyfriend back.
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by dbabylove: 9:41am On May 31, 2013
Getting my Ex back
my name is Ja'Nyah. I've known Lameik for years, When we finally got together things were kind of weird so we broke up which was in February of 2011 In June of 2012 he and I recently got back together and we were together until march of 2013 which he told me he was not interested in relationship again During that time I changed completely, I wasn't eating,I was sleeping a lot, I wasn't talking to anybody, I cried a lot,I'm so depressed and stressed out that I'm scared I'm going to end up in the hospital because of all the stress and depression until one day i search online on getting love tips because I Love & care about him deeply and I just want us to be together as a couple again and I want us to last forever Google recommend me DR LOVE drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com drlovespellcastersolution@yahoo.com +2348038096203 that he will solve my relationship problem then Dr Love told me he will come back to me between 48hrs after he cast spell on him never believe it until my fiance called me on the phone and told me he want us to come back and live happy together forever , Am so happy now that DR LOVE help me bring Lameik back to me. Thanks so much Dr Love
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by emperorchedda(m): 10:45am On May 31, 2013
dbabylove: Getting my Ex back
my name is Ja'Nyah. I've known Lameik for years, When we finally got together things were kind of weird so we broke up which was in February of 2011 In June of 2012 he and I recently got back together and we were together until march of 2013 which he told me he was not interested in relationship again During that time I changed completely, I wasn't eating,I was sleeping a lot, I wasn't talking to anybody, I cried a lot,I'm so depressed and stressed out that I'm scared I'm going to end up in the hospital because of all the stress and depression until one day i search online on getting love tips because I Love & care about him deeply and I just want us to be together as a couple again and I want us to last forever Google recommend me DR LOVE drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com drlovespellcastersolution@yahoo.com +2348038096203 that he will solve my relationship problem then Dr Love told me he will come back to me between 48hrs after he cast spell on him never believe it until my fiance called me on the phone and told me he want us to come back and live happy together forever , Am so happy now that DR LOVE help me bring Lameik back to me. Thanks so much Dr Love
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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by BlackPeni5: 11:08am On May 31, 2013
dbabylove: Getting my Ex back
my name is Ja'Nyah. I've known Lameik for years, When we finally got together things were kind of weird so we broke up which was in February of 2011 In June of 2012 he and I recently got back together and we were together until march of 2013 which he told me he was not interested in relationship again During that time I changed completely, I wasn't eating,I was sleeping a lot, I wasn't talking to anybody, I cried a lot,I'm so depressed and stressed out that I'm scared I'm going to end up in the hospital because of all the stress and depression until one day i search online on getting love tips because I Love & care about him deeply and I just want us to be together as a couple again and I want us to last forever Google recommend me DR LOVE drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com drlovespellcastersolution@yahoo.com +2348038096203 that he will solve my relationship problem then Dr Love told me he will come back to me between 48hrs after he cast spell on him never believe it until my fiance called me on the phone and told me he want us to come back and live happy together forever , Am so happy now that DR LOVE help me bring Lameik back to me. Thanks so much Dr Love

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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by marry303: 11:22am On Jun 08, 2013
My name is Mary and my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him..... he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you RE UNITING EX SPELL TEMPLE caster, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: Reunitingexspell@gmail.com All thanks to the source of my happiness{ DR. MAGBU}.
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by dbabylove: 11:43am On Jul 09, 2013
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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by jamessue: 3:57am On Jul 15, 2013
Every relationship has it ups and downs and for some people it gets to the boiling point where one party decides he or she has had enough and leaves. Breakup can be devastating, especially when a lot has gone into making the relationship. I found this 5 simple steps on How to Get Your Ex Back quite interesting and applicable
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Dovahkiin(m): 10:50am On Jul 15, 2013

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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by kimhilson001: 1:56am On Jul 16, 2013
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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Homguy(m): 11:37am On Jul 16, 2013
Why would you wana get bck with your Ex esp if they did the breaking up? Respect yourself and move on! Lifes to rich to try scooping spilt milk.

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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Homguy(m): 11:38am On Jul 16, 2013
Why would you wana get bck with your Ex esp if they did the breaking up? Respect yourself and move on! Lifes too rich to try scooping spilt milk.
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Tinkybabe(f): 12:56pm On Jul 16, 2013
Am I really on nairaland ? Cause I don't get all these posters o..What's with the testimonies?
*Checks again*
It's nairaland. .but but..I'm speechless

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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by kimhilson001: 11:46pm On Jul 17, 2013
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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by 190theclown: 7:14pm On Jul 23, 2013
what the hell is going on here shocked shocked

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Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by Judelar(m): 11:51pm On Jul 26, 2013
Life can be very displeasing especially when we loose the ones we love and cherish so much. in this kind of situation where one loses his/her soul mate there are several dangers engage in it. one may no longer be able to do the things he was doing before then success will be very scarce and happiness will be rare. that person was created to be with you for without him things may fall apart. That was my experience late last month. but thank god today i am happy with him again. all thanks to DR Paul, i was nearly loosing hope until i saw an article on how DR Paul could cast a love spell to make lovers come back. There is no harm in trying, i said to my self. i contacted him via email: altimatespelltemple@gmail.com. words are not be enough to express what he has done for me. i have promised to share the good news as long as i live........cyan
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by ladunsky(f): 12:52am On Jul 27, 2013
why would a sane person want an EX back? Why will a sane person wanna go back to his or her vomit? Abegi MOVE ON JOOR....
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by tunamost: 10:02am On Jul 27, 2013
rebeccajon: Keep yourself busy in full of activity because it’s really wretched to spend all the time in mourning about the loss of unsuccessful relationship because doing so is unhelpful for you and for your beautiful future.  Your life should be going to lead onward whether you get your love back or not. If you can concentrate on other things then surely he will find you as a lively, tough and emotionally stable woman, not the one who is distressed and aimless. Show him that you are independent and your future is not going to suffer without him.

Incredible look can turn the game on your side, because every guy wants to see his girlfriend beautiful and stunning. Put effort on your overall appearance, like eat better, exercise well, make around of salon and take complete care about yourself. It will not only leave a great impact on him when he will see you again but you too feel better about yourself and also helps a lot to get ex boyfriend back.
plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot
Re: Psychological Advice To Get An Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Back by jamessue: 4:52pm On Jul 27, 2013
Apart from trying to get him back, there is a reversal. Why not try to Make Him Desire You.

I read this book by Alex Carter How to Make Him Desire You and I think it's comprehensive enough for people who wants to get their ex back

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