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When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Orikinla(m): 9:11am On Feb 20, 2011
You can be bored of having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend. No, you are not tired of him or her, but just bored of having sex.

This is natural. There is nothing exciting in it anymore. You have used all the methods and done all the styles and the whole thing is now boring. The honest thing to do is SAY THE TRUTH to your  partner and take a break from sex. Engage in other non-intimate pleasures until your excitement to resume intimate intercourse is revived. Naturally, you would be tempted to sleep with another person when you are bored of sleeping with your boyfriend or girlfriend. But do not permit  such a temptation if you still love him or her.

To avoid cheating on each other, discuss your boredom and do whatever you can to overcome it peacefully.
The funny irony of relationships is the fact that you can prevent being accused of cheating by being honest! Just be bold to SAY THE TRUTH to him or her before you do it. But in most cases, lovers prefer to LIE.

In 2006, before I accepted the invitation of another girl, I told my girlfriend that I would oblige if the girl wanted sex. I went and had good sex and returned and told my girlfriend about it. We did not raise the roof over it.
"How was it?" She asked. I told her the babe was good.

Years ago, a girlfriend  told me that she wanted to have sex with one of my buddies and I did not stop her and  I did not stop loving her. In fact, we discussed his performance.

Honesty is a great thing.

When I was having a long distance relationship with a girl, I only had time to sleep with her once every year and I always told her to PLAY SAFE, but she always got annoyed and said I was looking for an excuse to dump her. Guess what? She preferred to sleep with others without telling me and that was wrong. If she simply told me I would have been cool and even loved to discuss her away matches without palaver. As I said in another topic, your boyfriend or girlfriend cannot claim your ownership until he or she has married you. Therefore, you have the freedom of expression and freedom of taking a break when you are bored of the monotony of the same routines of bearing an unexciting boyfriend or girlfriend when the sparks are no longer there.

Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:00am On Feb 20, 2011
Is everything about sex , must you have sex?. If you aren't sexually attracted to your lover then wait till when you become.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by sweeti14(f): 11:23am On Feb 20, 2011
IMO why should you even be sleeping with your boyfriend/girlfriend You should wait till you are married!!!! tongue
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by roymary: 11:45am On Feb 20, 2011
@Op

You know what to do; take a break, nack other girls. Whats the fuss?
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by ~Bluetooth: 11:46am On Feb 20, 2011
Why stick to only eba when there are other kinds of food.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by makeucumxx: 1:02pm On Feb 21, 2011
bored? take a vacation together
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by 190: 1:07pm On Feb 21, 2011
Orikinla:


Years ago, a girlfriend  told me that she wanted to have sex with one of my buddies and I did not stop her and  I did not stop loving her. In fact, we discussed his performance.

Honesty is a great thing.

When I was having a long distance relationship with a girl, I only had time to sleep with her once every year and I always told her to PLAY SAFE, but she always got annoyed and said I was looking for an excuse to dump her. Guess what? She preferred to sleep with others without telling me and that was wrong. If she simply told me I would have been cool and even loved to discuss her away matches without palaver. As I said in another topic, your boyfriend or girlfriend cannot claim your ownership until he or she has married you. Therefore, you have the freedom of expression and freedom of taking a break when you are bored of the monotony of the same routines of bearing an unexciting boyfriend or girlfriend when the sparks are no longer there.    


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Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Omolola1(f): 1:07pm On Feb 21, 2011
become a saint.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by 190: 1:09pm On Feb 21, 2011
Omolola1:

become a saint.
cry cry cry
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Orton1_0(m): 2:07pm On Feb 21, 2011
Nah, Nah, Nah!!! angry
Thats ok @OP, But I ain't down wif vat at all. I'm a jealous lover and can't share my baby with anybody. Flirt outside, yes but not vat, c'mon!
We do it ev'where till date, so till then. Each to his own.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Mitchelin(m): 2:24pm On Feb 21, 2011
190:

shocked shocked shocked lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed angry angry angry
Seems to me you happen to be the from ilk that differentiates sex from love making, the former is devoid of emotional sentiments while the later is laden with it (that happens to be the general ideology with people that espouse the view), hmmm,well, so does the fact that you do not love the one you are having sex with negate the fact that it isn't fair on your partner, or does the fact that you let her (your girlfriend) know that you are humpin' another girl with her approval also negate that notion of unchastity. Well,as they say different strokes for different folks, if it's OK by y'all hump away.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by 190: 2:27pm On Feb 21, 2011
undecided undecided
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Orikinla(m): 3:16pm On Feb 21, 2011
Even in marriage, one can become really bored of sleeping with the spouse.

A man has not slept with his wife for over 12 months now. And the wife is tempted to cheat on him.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Theophinio(m): 2:53pm On Apr 10
Don't u knw dat sex outside marriage is a sin against ur CREATOR
BE WISE
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 10
Op, i dnt knw about d intimacy part..,


But, i knw atimes r/ships can be very bored. And, am involved in one rite now.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by uokocha70(m): 4:41pm On Apr 10
nyere84: Op, i dnt knw about d intimacy part..,


But, i knw atimes r/ships can be very bored. And, am involved in one rite now.

I just want to respond to your comment about being in a boring relationship.
Once you guys have a great communication, the relationship will remain exciting. So if this is a relationship that you want to keep, you need to develop a better communication. Find topics to talk about. Find common ground, talk about work, discuss friends, discuss expectations, discuss the future and before you know it... time flies and you are happy. I was the very quiet type before I met my wife, but I had to learn to communicate with her in order to have something bonding us per second.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by sweetestguy(m): 5:18pm On Apr 10
Can be disastrous
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:36pm On Apr 10
uokocha70:

I just want to respond to your comment about being in a boring relationship.
Once you guys have a great communication, the relationship will remain exciting. So if this is a relationship that you want to keep, you need to develop a better communication. Find topics to talk about. Find common ground, talk about work, discuss friends, discuss expectations, discuss the future and before you know it... time flies and you are happy. I was the very quiet type before I met my wife, but I had to learn to communicate with her in order to have something bonding us per second.
Thanks, i appreciate.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by tpiia: 5:41pm On Apr 10
Lord have mercy.

Freaky things, some like it kinky.
Re: When You Are Bored Of Sleeping With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by EnlightenedSoul(f): 5:57pm On Apr 10
Wow lol.

Romance section is dark and full of terrors!

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