@op
I hope u r not d lady in question sha.lol
However what makes a REAL MAN is far more than his looks.

I almost said something.

speaking of Terry G, he is not handsome to me, HOWEVER his "swag" i hate that word, is def sexy, which makes him mucho sexy, plus i think he has a BIG, P, Personality

Let me bring this back to life. 

Odunnu:

What does she mean by 'ugly?'.

Since she talked about appearance- she means facially

fstranger3:

People like me,geddit


OP: try trimming your mustache, do that, you just might see changes, ok. I am serious

lol, this made me chuckle.


@OP, like Tpia wrote , Its a way of balancing the universe out. Atleast, if beauty marries ugly there will be less ugly people.

fine boi no too like stress.
Could be he took a look at her and is like, this one might be too into herself = too much stress.

But seriously, I dunno.

mostly ugly old perverts approach me too

lepasharon:

mostly ugly[b] old perverts[/b] approach me too

I get quite a few of them but I just look at those who look loaded.

Maybe its because most guys are scared of dating the extremely pretty ladies around except the bold. This I learned from "2 and a half man"

PLEASE tell the concerned to look deeply at the below;

'WHATS HER DEFINITION OF 'UGLY GUYS'
and you look into this;

[b]'WAT WAS YOUR BASIS OF RATING HER 8/10'[/b]i sbeauty not in the eyes of the beholder?? or is that your personal rating, i say this cos ugly ladies seldom attract ugly guys, though exceptions exist

did she do physics in skool

opposites attract

@OP me I understand your friends anguish. There is ugly and beautiful people in life as we may all know. Now if its only the ugly one's approaching me, I would  also be concerned, no one looks foward to dating an ugly person. Most people are attracted to the other by their looks firstly. But then again I have seen some of the hottest girls in the arms of the ugliest of ugly guys. So for now pick one with a f^*kn fabulous personality and enjoy the relationship.

You can just call him inner beauty. We dont call them ugly where I come from we call them inner beauty.

They say when life throws lemons at you, you make lemonade.   

Ugly guys, broke guys or ugly broke guys - which one? Cos i know you wouldn't be bordered if they were rich and butt ugly.

poster u re right i have such experince too the ugly guys re rich why the fine guys re poor is a matter of choice there is always a price to pay

@ Poster you can't find all the qualities you are looking for in a man sometimes you compromise if u find the basic ones that can make you happy. Most times handsome guys are full of themselves vise versa you might end up being a hero worshipper

You want a handsome guy? Get some clay and get to work....

Maybe the ones she called ugly are the ones that will last very long if she truly wants a relationship...


Maybe the handsome ones have seen that she is down to earth, good girl etc and they do not want to toy with her till they are ready to settle down..

maybe her dressing attracts ugly guys.. it's just like after building a nice house, u destroy it with an ugly paint... a poor man will be forced to ask how much was the house

there are so many maybe... . she should look for the one that applied to her.


But i will advise that she try and forget about superficial... it does not help any one

Op you are beautiful. Ugly guys love beautiful ladies. That's an established fact.

There is more to it than meet the eyes. She needs to dig deeper to unravel the mystery

msnigeria:
A colleague of mine expressed her concern to me some days ago but I didn't know exactly how to respond or what the real truth is. I personally admit that she is a pretty girl; I would rate her beauty on the scale of 8/10. She is also a nice and down to earth person. She's concerned that, most times, only ugly guys approach her and wants to know why. She said a lot of people commend her beauty and is surprised cute guys (or at least average looking ones) don't approach her. So, what do you guys think? Why do ugly guys approach pretty girls (not to say they shouldn't pursue beautiful things too, but this is just based on someone's personal concern), let's leave out "looks don't matter" in this issue please. Thanks!!!

You're lying, it's not your colleague, it's you.