I am an undergraduate and I have a friend, who could not continue his education but went into business and he is now very successful. This man is six years older than me and happily married to a loving woman. Really, he has helped me financially in and out of my academic career. Lately, he told me of an accident he had which made him infertile and all his family members are pointing fingers at the woman that she could not produce children. Unfortunately, he is an only child of his parents. He said he could not tell his parents and the wife about his infertility. He is now asking that I help him impregnate his wife. How would that be possible? I believe if I should tell his wife, the marriage would crash and my friend doesn't want to lose his loving wife. But how do I tell my friend's wife that I want to help her?


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What are friends for?

If it is so hard, I suggest artificial insemination.

Trying to make a 'Nollywood' drama of this issue is sickening! Science has reached a level where a woman can get pregnant without sleeping with a man. This is called InVitro Fertilization (IVF). Let your friend search for one of the good assisted reproductive clinics in Nigeria and allow his wife have an IVF, at least he is a businessman and can afford a decent way of having babies. Try and educate him on this and also tell him to reveal this 'infertility secret' to his wife and stop looking for whom to impregnate her. There are sperm banks in clinics where IVF takes place and she would not need to be traumatized with the idea of sleeping with another man under her husband's roof just because they wanted children. You need not sleep with her or talk to her about it. Only educate your friend well on this issue and help make the search of the various IVF centres in Nigeria.

if you love your self, better dont sleep with her
Your friend should tell his wife of his infertality

I think the sensible thing to do here is to sit the wife down and tell her the truth.

If as you said, your friend has been of help to you financialy in the past, it's high time you return the favour for him.

Ensure that you don't tell the wife ur self if the hubby did not ask you to, let ur friend tell her himself.and who knows she might bring a solution.

SOmething does not add up here. . . . OP, aren't you the one with a small willie, the one with a frigid wife and a non-existant sex life? How are you going to make another man's wife happy enough to come back for more when yours does not "sound" like she is happy with your performance?

tyson55:

Trying to make a 'Nollywood' drama of this issue is sickening! Science has reached a level where a woman can get pregnant without sleeping with a man. This is called InVitro Fertilization (IVF). Let your friend search for one of the good assisted reproductive clinics in Nigeria and allow his wife have an IVF, at least he is a businessman and can afford a decent way of having babies. Try and educate him on this and also tell him to reveal this 'infertility secret' to his wife and stop looking for whom to impregnate her. There are sperm banks in clinics where IVF takes place and she would not need to be traumatized with the idea of sleeping with another man under her husband's roof just because they wanted children. You need not sleep with her or talk to her about it. Only educate your friend well on this issue and help make the search of the various IVF centres in Nigeria.

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I think this sums it all.
No need to sleep with your friend's wife, except u have been lusting after her before now.

please do not try it or else

Hey Mr. Tyson55, are you not the same person post in the other thread that you can't satisfy your wife, now what is this all about, are you taking us for a ride or what?

@ SA Goddes and Omen100 - If you people wear glasses, you change them, if not, you should get some. I posted the source of the story at the bottom of the story itself. So, common sense will tell you that it was not me who is involve in both postings, that's why i posted the link. You could as well have noticed, that i even commented suggesting a solution to the concern party in both postings. Don't reply to thread in psychotic haste, take your time to read and understand, before posting. No offence intended.

tyson55:

Trying to make a 'Nollywood' drama of this issue is sickening! Science has reached a level where a woman can get pregnant without sleeping with a man. This is called InVitro Fertilization (IVF). Let your friend search for one of the good assisted reproductive clinics in Nigeria and allow his wife have an IVF, at least he is a businessman and can afford a decent way of having babies. Try and educate him on this and also tell him to reveal this 'infertility secret' to his wife and stop looking for whom to impregnate her. There are sperm banks in clinics where IVF takes place and she would not need to be traumatized with the idea of sleeping with another man under her husband's roof just because they wanted children. You need not sleep with her or talk to her about it. Only educate your friend well on this issue and help make the search of the various IVF centres in Nigeria.

+5

nairaland hmm

tyson55:

@ SA Goddes and Omen100 - If you people wear glasses, you change them, if not, you should get some. I posted the source of the story at the bottom of the story itself. So, common sense will tell you that it was not me who is involve in both postings, that's why i posted the link. You could as well have noticed, that i even commented suggesting a solution to the concern party in both postings. Don't reply to thread in psychotic haste, take your time to read and understand, before posting. No offence intended.

Don't get your knickers in a twist dude, what are you talking about "psychotic haste", how was I supposed to know you are not the one with a small penis when you wrote as though you were the one with a problem, in first person? Learn to write better next time. . . . . . . . . .

tyson55:

Trying to make a 'Nollywood' drama of this issue is sickening! Science has reached a level where a woman can get pregnant without sleeping with a man. This is called InVitro Fertilization (IVF). Let your friend search for one of the good assisted reproductive clinics in Nigeria and allow his wife have an IVF, at least he is a businessman and can afford a decent way of having babies. Try and educate him on this and also tell him to reveal this 'infertility secret' to his wife and stop looking for whom to impregnate her. There are sperm banks in clinics where IVF takes place and she would not need to be traumatized with the idea of sleeping with another man under her husband's roof just because they wanted children. You need not sleep with her or talk to her about it. Only educate your friend well on this issue and help make the search of the various IVF centres in Nigeria.

Dude, i think its good to note how you topic your post next time. You're threading a copied story under the guise of an auto-case. This is pure spamming.

This is nollywood sh, it, i have seen the movie, i remember very well.

in the end the guys friend slept with the woman and she had a child,

after some years, his friend came back to claim the child since he could not have any kids again.

and it became a court case.

Really ?

Yes! true its from a nollywood movie.

Clem Ohameze was the husband, but I don't remember the other characters sha

When would our culture embrace adoption as an option?

SA Goddess:

Don't get your knickers in a twist dude, what are you talking about "psychotic haste", how was I supposed to know you are not the one with a small manliness when you wrote as though you were the one with a problem, in first person? Learn to write better next time. . . . . . . . . .

Haha! how far you? its been a while.

I am good nana, are you well?

Happy it's Friday. Where are you hiding?

SA Goddess:

I am good nana, are you well?

Happy it's Friday. Where are you hiding?

The office and trying to close the year. Have a lovely weekend.

Odunnu:

When would our culture embrace adoption as an option?

Sista, not until they embrace it, whoever wishes, should go for it, so long as that person is cool with it!

I don't give a Rat's a$$ to what the society would say!

Please tell your friend and his wife to adopt a child.
There are enough parentless children in the world already for them to remain childless.

dazzle37:

This is nollywood sh, it, i have seen the movie, i remember very well.

in the end the guys friend slept with the woman and she had a child,

after some years, his friend came back to claim the child since he could not have any kids again.

and it became a court case.

You are right.I've watched d movie too.(The title of d move is THE GAME MEN PLAY)

Tales by moonlight, !!!

Nigerian movie!

Better stay away or someone will sleep with your wife when you got married. Even if you are sexualy stronger than solomon in the bible.

Story story.