l am in love with this really cute guy, but the thing is he has no feelings for me.

I have tried many times to let him know l adore him but what do l get in return?
Nothing, zero, zilch. l have compromised my pride for him but he doesnt even care

l have rejected so many guys for him, because he is the only one who matters to me
when l make an effort to visit him he acts as though l aint there which hurts me so

l can't bring myself to love any other man l think l am going crazy or something
my friends all tell me he is not worth it but l can't bring myself to let him go. Can
someone help me please?

nothing, zero, zilch

@iice - word!!!

@poster, this is ppl become suicidal, mai fried u had better pull urself together & snap out of it!

@topic
if your friends tell you he is not worth it, then they have a lot of truth in that statement, quit wasting your time on someone who does not reciprocate your feelings back to you. you have to let him go, because HE DOES NOT CARE. you should see you as someone who deserves more treatment than he is giving you. move on do not waste the opportunity to meet a guy who could actually give you the love you deserve. some situations are not just meant to be. and pushing  such situations is a big waste of time.

@ basetsana
Eh, I think you know what you need to do . . . . . . You've said yourself that he's not shown any interest. Why would you put yourself through that. You deserve better & you know it!

he he he he he!  Our God is a miracle working God!  singing---He's the alpha and the Omega----He's a miracle working God! he he he he he!  I dey laff! Just keep fastin' and  prayin' like Paul and Silas for Bible!  The Holy Ghost will soon come down for both of you!

Maybe the guy is gay!!!

But seriously i know what u must be going thru, been there, done that, wrote the book. its very painful, because u feel rejected at the end. i'm not going to preach the usual "he's not worth it" speech, all i can say is with time u'll get over him and move on to people who can appreciate u.

but also i mjust add that sadly, u dont always get over all of them.

@ BASETSANA

im a guy, its common 4 us guys 2 have strong feelings 4 a particular girl and still cant get her attention. but when it happens 2 a girl everybody expects her 2 just forget. its really not easy for either guys or girls.

but be sure to know and understand what you feel for him, if its love or an obsession for him. i wish you well

sp basetanna


u are a LOSER, YEP THAT IS WHAT LOSERS DO. GIRLS LIKE U PISS ME OFF, GROW SOME PRIDE ADN GET OVER UR SELF. u will end up chasing a lover who u will never have and end up all alone when those other guys have found other babes. Also how do u know he doesnt have the heart for someone else. Stop being a homewrecker and buy yourself a clue.

@Topic

You must be very ugly!  No man is worth this type of humiliation!  In this day and age when you can pay your own bills single-handedly?  Like I said earlier keep fastin' and prayin'---that is what Najia babe have first class in! Specialists in "night virgils" to catch bobo!   Long Hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

@ Poster.
Please disregard all the discouraging comments. Jusk keep hoping and try harder to impress him. You could try to "fire" him or strip for him. If he's not gay and impotent, he should respond. Lastly, if all that doesn't work, JAZZ HIM!!!!!!!(use juju on him.). That works

For your own information,l am certinly not ugly
l wish l could send my  photos to you  and by the way being rejected is not  based on looks alone,l thought you were more mature than that ,Militia

My dear, my dear, my dear.
two years time, u will look back, wonder what u saw in this guy and laugh at urself. I may nt know how u feel bt i understand ur plight, it hurts.

I have a girl friend who is currently given me serious concern cos of a similar case in fact hers may be worse cos the guy flirts big time but she still says "i cant leave him" even when she's so heartbroken and fainting in my house cos of him. I have been on that case for some months.

Dear, just let things sort themselves out ok? I am sure u are worth some1 better. Take yourself out, get busy always, look good for yourself and fall in love with u. u will be fine with or without him.

I find it hard to understand why you would kill yourself because of a man who your existence means nothing to. If, eventually, you catch his attention, what's the guarantee that he would give you the kind of love and attention you deserve? He might just use you and then dump you like a worn out slippers. Its hard but true. Wake up, baby, its a new day.

I understand that you feel depressed, but you must not act on your current feelings.
You cannot trust your feelings at a time like this, so you must act on logic alone.

MILITIA:

@Topic

You must be very ugly! No man is worth this type of humiliation! In this day and age when you can pay your own bills single-handedly? Like I said earlier keep fastin' and prayin'---that is what Najia babe have first class in! Specialists in "night virgils" to catch bobo! Long Hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

I trust my girl to drop it as it is, Keep it up


@ topic, I hope you are not the girl we have been discussing on the thread "SHE LOVES ME BUT SHE IS SO UGLY", If you are please let us know so i'll know how to arrange my advice,

But in the main time, judging from wat u have told us, You can try fetish means. I know a very good guy who could help you, holla at me if you are interested.

Get real dear.
_{i just think u re seeking for cheap popularity cos u knw wat to do if this ur Lamentation 1v1 isnt fake.}

I have nothing to say, nevertheless, no love is worth dying for! behave marturely to avoid any embarrassment from somebody that does not even care for you.Sky is your limit.

benit:

My dear, my dear, my dear.
two years time, u will look back, wonder what u saw in this guy and laugh at yourself. I may nt know how u feel bt i understand your plight, it hurts.

I have a girl friend who is currently given me serious concern because of a similar case in fact hers may be worse because the guy flirts big time but she still says "i can't leave him" even when she's so heartbroken and fainting in my house because of him. I have been on that case for some months.

Dear, just let things sort themselves out ok? I am sure u are worth someone better. Take yourself out, get busy always, look good for yourself and fall in love with u. u will be fine with or without him.

There is no 'similar case' here. Is it a crime for a guy not to like a girl again? The guy just isn't interested in a relationship with her, that doesn't mean he's gay or terrible or 'not worth it'. if you gals don't gree for every guy that toasts you fervently, why should the reverse not be the case?

@Poster
The problem is you've convinced yourself this guy's the perfect one for you, your Mr. Right. he's not interested and you're rejecting good men because you're chasing perfection. Give urself a break and stop trying for your perception of 'perfect'. find someone else to love (and more important, who loves you back) and turn your back on this destructive obsession.

@Esss!  
You trust now!  How you dey?  Don't mind this yahoo babe!

@BASETSANA
Very mature oh!  Thank you!  I do not care the reason for the rejection!  Please remove your dross and take mirror look your "precious" cargo well well oh!  No man is what humiliating it!  You need to move and move fast before this man spits on your "pussy cat"!  Once a man no want me---he is perfectly justified oh----- for I am not the Queen of Sheba!--- I will check out so fast  because customers full road oh!  In hot competition from other babes sef!  Sharp sharp I don go!  I have never pinned for one man for more than one week!  Please!  Na king Solomon?

@topic


Ogehne bekor  

See this babe Oh

Crazy you said why not mad at him?

Anyway take heart Ok. dont   again plz poster u ?

You are crazy over a guy, good for you!!!!. _{but no allow ur madness enter market o}

girl,i dont think you need to waste your time,there are other guys out there who are better than him.

@ basetsana,

I knw how u feel, nd i ve passed through that. i ll tell you to use the period that you use to go to his house to do something else like if you play games, dance class etc. Just engage urself in some activity that will keep u far from the house and most of all work on your self-image. Dont look dwn on urself cos he dosent appreciate u, u ve a better way of making and doing good things that he will later come to admire.

I will advice you that if u have his cousins or sisters as friends, still keep the friendship with them dont loose contact with them. It will help you to face them once again when you have gotten over liking him(might not be that easy thou) but make sure u do what you love doin most, dont get depressed, if its destined that he will love you he will and if it happens that its a lesson you need to learn from the experience then learn and grow up.

Most of all add value to yourself.You came alone to this earth, and u re leaving alone. Fulfill your purpose and learn from experience and mistakes.

Cheers

l can't bring myself to love any other man l think l am going crazy or something
my friends all tell me he is not worth it but l can't bring myself to let him go. Can
someone help me please?

Am sure this is your first love?You will soon learn as you get matured.

hey there! i think you should just 4get abt the guy. just like someone said earlier,you ve just made yourself believe he is the one for you. look out for another person and pray

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GET A LIFE, GIRL!!!

loser

maybe the guy love babe with big boobs and this one running after him is flat chested
IF NA ME I NO GO EVEN LOOK THE BABE 2 TIMES. UNLESS SHE WAN PAY FOR THE LOVE IN CASH AND KIND

don't mind all those stupid commentz people are leaving, but seriously just grow up and forget all about him, maybe if you do and he sees that you are no longer STALKING hin *sorry, he would prolly want to start being thursty for you, and if he's not just calm down, foget him, hang out wit friends and do what u like doing best and itz only a matter of time u'll definetly find ur own prince charming hon,

@ Topic

First thing first, read and re-read what  DARKBEAUT wrote in this thread and then this one (under) from CUTIEPIE and add this common saying to it:

"Men are like shadow, the closer you gets to them; the more they move away from you. But move away from them, and they come closer"

I think a word should be enough for a wise (if you are one)

cutiepie18:

don't mind all those stupid commentz people are leaving, but seriously just grow up and forget all about him, maybe if you do and he sees that you are no longer STALKING hin *sorry, he would prolly want to start being thursty for you, and if he's not just calm down, foget him, hang out wit friends and do what u like doing best and itz only a matter of time u'll definetly find your own prince charming hon,

Girl, just one advice. Don't force Love. It does not last. Has it occurred to you that when you go after flies you hardly catch them, but when you sit on your own with cream and other irresistible things to the flies they come perching on you. That is what you should do with your self dignity, self respect and great personality just sit  without giving much attention to the fly and wait for it to perch on you. If it does good, if it doesn't,  move on. May be you don't have what he needs and I am sure he doesn't have what you need either.

Also I want you to search your heart, Are you sure this is not lust or infatuation? Cos love doesn't just jump on people like that. There is more to love than what i think is happening to you.