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Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by nkybabe: 11:12am On Jan 08, 2008
Dear u are to young 4 wat u r tinking. @15 u should be thinking of ur studies and not dating.
WHAT DO U KNOW ABT LOVE?Even d 20 yrs old boi?Pls dr u have better priorities out there.
There is time 4 evertin.Don't jump in so that u don't jump out.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by deluv(m): 11:35am On Jan 08, 2008
nky_babe:

Dear u are to young 4 what you're tinking. @15 u should be thinking of your studies and not dating.


To answer ur question Yes it is Wrong! Now Listen to me very carefully, angry U ar a young Girl, 15 for that matter Having a relationship shouldn't even be on ur mind at least not now, I know you see others dating maybe ur friends ar doing it , You ar not ur friend or any of ur peers who do such things .
i bey U pls STOP cry now dont make a spoil ur life now , pls, if u really like the guy tell him to wait till u ar 18yr if he love u he will ,
take care my dear, if u need to talk more on how to go about it halla at me ( [color=#006600]pawill4u@hotmail.com
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Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by cooldude62(m): 11:44am On Jan 08, 2008
@ topic,
damn,na wao,you should be in school.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by loffers: 8:13pm On Aug 07, 2008
i tire 4 u girls of nowadays, instead of u to tell her the correct thing to do u are encouraging her, nahwaaaaaaaaaa ooooooooooooooooooo

sweet heart, at 15 i expect you to face ur studies seriously dont give room for anybody to destroy ur future.
guys of today are very desperate, they are now catching them young.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by ssRhino: 8:23pm On Aug 07, 2008
Everything about it is very wrong, cos a man will sing some melody into your ears that you wont be able to think, read or behave well, so why dont wait till you are really of age, cos you dont wanna make a man mess up ur head oh.
Just wait till u can make better decision, cos even the man at 20 dont know too much abt love, what will he do if u mistakenly get belle? can he provide for you and the baby?
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by ula(f): 11:15am On Aug 08, 2008
you are too young to handle that kind of relationship!!! what do you think you both will be discussing, your high school lectures?
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by MrCrackles(m): 11:18am On Aug 08, 2008
@Poster

who logged you into the ROMANCE section on nairaland?dat person should be Dam slapped!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by coopedro(m): 2:48pm On Aug 08, 2008
Brash!:

@Poster

who logged you into the ROMANCE section on nairaland?that person should be Dam slapped!

Her being logged in isn't the issue for the now. you know how many Indecency films she dey watch a day?
Do u know the type of phone she uses, perhaps a worker can't even afford her kind of phone.
Any way i blame your parents more [i][/i]cos dem dey help spoil una. Pls follow ur heart my dear.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by MrCrackles(m): 2:50pm On Aug 08, 2008
coo_pedro:

Her being logged in isn't the issue for the now. you know how many Indecency films she dey watch a day?

Na true sha! grin
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by vemon: 3:00pm On Aug 08, 2008
as long as you both are okay with it, and you are able to generate a clear understanding in your interaction, pls, go ahead.

dreamworks4real@yahoo.com
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Moyola(f): 3:17pm On Aug 08, 2008
@ topic

Moral wize. . . itz wrong!!!

buh itz not a new thing!!!

know of sum1 dat eventually got married 2 her high school sweetheart,
she stil wearz d ring she waz given @14!!! can u beat dat!!

nywyz thingz work out differently for different people!!!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by xJaysonx(m): 3:29pm On Aug 08, 2008
If u'v got height close to him and matured enough to handle yourslef i think it's alright. Some guys like very younger and shorter girls so they could control them easily because of their experience in life, they know far better than young girls they date. They know words and things to say to make u do what u don't. Some uses and jilts. If u discover ur relationship with this guy isn't going perfectly well you most times feel unhappy at the end of the day with him, u'v done something that u think it's negative then it's assumed he's just a gimmick trying to control u. But if u see it's going well with both of u, everything is alright then. Some men find it hard to talk to and control women within their ages so they look for very young controllable ones. This happens majorly in this part of the country due to corrupt minds from understandings.

Whenever he tells u to do something and ur nervous, don't. Always do what u know is right. Handle urself the right way.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by ferdiii(m): 10:53am On May 06, 2009
But why the hullabaloo? Women always start early. Naturally,quite earlier than boys.Sometimes the girls don't achieve much in education or otherwise and turn around and  start setting standards for who wants to marry them.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Don4life(m): 8:20pm On Nov 27, 2009
Moyola:

@ topic

Moral wize. . . itz wrong!!!

buh itz not a new thing!!!

know of sum1 dat eventually got married 2 her high school sweetheart,
she stil wearz d ring she waz given @14!!! can u beat dat!!

nywyz thingz work out differently for different people!!!





yes dat is right,but the age diff. is too much if it hard been 15>17 dat would have been okay
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by fulldepth(m): 9:27pm On Nov 27, 2009
i want to ask the guys here, CAN U REMEMBER WHAT YOU DID WHEN U WERE 15??
cause i cant !
what on earth would a girl of 15 be doing with a bf??
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by whatawhat: 5:14am On Jan 02, 2010
l notice your screenname is latina, if you're latina l don't think this is the right forum for you b/c of diff cultures, diff values-but wait till your 18 at least and ask your mother first before advertising yourself on a public forum even though you think is online still it is not that private.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by rockzy(f): 6:23am On Jan 02, 2010
the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Gabry(f): 6:24am On Jan 02, 2010
Its wrong caus eu ar eunderage. Please dont date untill u reach 21.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Siena(m): 7:43am On Jan 02, 2010
The age gap isn't too big, no.

What is not right though, is that you're a minor. At 15, you shouldn't be dating anyone at all!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by teenidol(f): 12:33pm On Jan 02, 2010
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Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by waleski(m): 12:52pm On Jan 02, 2010
PEOPLE sef this topis is 3yrs old who is is the person that brought it up again that person must av been bored out of their mind most of us posting gan whuld not av registered in nl by 2006 the poster herself whuld be old enugh to make her own decisions and wuld av 4gotten this thread abeg nairalanders let this topic die its old there are other sections apart from romance section in niaraland let xplore instead of sitting on the same topic abi
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by rockzy(f): 1:41am On Jan 03, 2010
rockzy:

the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol
waleski:

PEOPLE sef this topis is 3yrs old who is is the person that brought it up again that person must av been bored out of their mind most of us posting gan whuld not av registered in nl by 2006 the poster herself whuld be old enugh to make her own decisions and wuld av 4gotten this thread abeg nairalanders let this topic die its old there are other sections apart from romance section in niaraland let xplore instead of sitting on the same topic abi
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by MissViola(f): 11:51pm On Mar 16, 2010
My dear,
Sincerely speaking, a 5 year gap is very okay between couples.But , in your case,it is NOT OKAY!
Take no offense, but you are still a ''baby'' and you should not be in a relationship ESPECIALLY with an adult.
If you were already an adult,then we won't even be having this conversation.
If you ask me,I will say, it's dangerous.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by daduke2k(m): 12:58am On Mar 17, 2010
Mak una go fain bera job nah. D person wey post dis go dey 19 yrs nw, nawa o abeg mak una no dey cary old topics com here.
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by MissViola(f): 2:08am On Mar 17, 2010
LOL
Na true oh, she don already old well well.
Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by ghettochyk(f): 6:09am On Mar 18, 2010
what's the point? why are folks still giving her advice now? She's probably 19 or 20 now. LMAO!!!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Duniverse(m): 7:29am On Mar 18, 2010
nky_babe:

Dear u are to young 4 wat u r tinking. @15 u should be thinking of your studies and not dating.
WHAT DO U KNOW ABT LOVE?Even d 20 yrs old boi?Pls dr u have better priorities out there.
There is time 4 evertin.Don't jump in so that u don't jump out.

Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Duniverse(m): 7:34am On Mar 18, 2010
rockzy:

the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol

imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Tinksh(f): 7:35am On Mar 18, 2010
Wrong! Dont know about your country but in mine its actually illegal! Under 16 is statutory molest and classed as child abuse and your 20 year old bf would be in jail!
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Duniverse(m): 7:36am On Mar 18, 2010
rockzy:

the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol

imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Duniverse(m): 7:41am On Mar 18, 2010
rockzy:

the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol

imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old
Re: I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong? by Duniverse(m): 7:43am On Mar 18, 2010
rockzy:

the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol

imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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