What to do when your wife cheats on you with another woman?

[b]OP, [/b]A good woman does not step out on her husband for no reason. I believe my wife would deserve the benefit of the doubt and that I would need to know why she had cheated so that I could work to make things better for her. If anything, I would be angry that she had not told me what she needed from me, but primarily I would blame myself. I would hope that her cheating did not mean a desire to end the marriage but instead a desire for an improved marriage for both of us. Let's not hope for the worse.

@OP
You should demand to have your share of that exra toto, as they say in marriage:"what's hers is yours!"

Or if you catch them in the act, join them for a hot t-h-r-e-e-some.

With Another woman?that isn't cheating
That is collabo


You simply join in the act!

But on a second thot,if my man cheats on me with another man
------I wld pay some guys to rape him

Which one be violation him?
Abeg na r a p e him jor

Mr, Cork:

well if she  dark skin, I send her parking!!  

sister cork keep doing your tang

I would definitely have a party with both of them, afterall nothing spoil

High_Chief:

I would definitely have a triple sin with both of them, afterall nothing spoil

woyo abasi mbok
Pls high chief dnt crack my ribs

OP.
Would marry her girlfriend . . . .I love collabo

I'm suspecting my wife too on this menace.

This thread. . .

Hmmm. . .
A woman never sounded more stupid as when she tries to sound logical about something that makes no logical sense.

It's one thing for a girl to be experimenting & another thing for a woman to be indulging.
The wife might not be a lesbia.n but her lover might be & that totally complicates things.

A cheat is a cheat. Giving what is rightfully Urs to another man, woman or cow is cheating.

If I caught my wife with another woman, I'll thank God she's just unstable upstairs & not heartlessly wicked; cos that's what she'l be if it were with another man.

You simply let the girls have fun, and if allowed to join hey that's a bonus I guess

Join in? No no no no NO!
If I want a three.some so badly I'll go find two chics that long for a schlong more than they do for clams. That way, I'm the prize & not a contender.

3some aint a bad thing, i'll join them immediately.

Onchedu:

Join in? No no no no NO!
If I want a three.some so badly I'll go find two chics that long for a schlong more than they do for clams. That way, I'm the prize & not a contender.

C'mon, if it can help to spice things up in your bedroom why not 

I mean clearly wifey here is sending a strong message i.e. that she is tired of routine sex. she is obviously not tired of you as a hubby otherwise she could be doing it with the boys, dont you think?

If the wife want to do it with the girls it means you not so bad at all, and this is by no means insinuating competition or her need to leave you, she just wants fun that's it.

yeah! this I say with a straight face.

I'd rather hav M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ wife cheat with a woman than a dude. Two d.icks don't make a right!

I would be furious,

Not cos she's with another chick (which by the way isn't as bad as another man if you think about it in a diff direction) but cos she didn't tell me she was into that whole lesbian stuff,

I will tell her to make sure any lesbian partner she brings is willing to swing both ways otherwise its a no no

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[size=18pt]GBAM!! [/size]

endorsed

I'd forgive her instantly, thats for sure. Indeed I might even be silently 'relieved' if I confirm that that is the only kind of 'cheating' she can ever contemplate. What would definitely drive one to murder is finding out that another man's d1ck penetrated any hole in her body. For that, there can be no forgiveness. . .only capital punishment.

Mr Chima:

I'm suspecting my wife too on this menace.

Mr Chima:

I'm suspecting my wife too on this menace.

umm,


@OP send the she goat of a wife packing.

Mr Chima:

I'm suspecting my wife too on this menace.

hehehe

you just wait for Nairaland's Miss Grumpy

lol

The same as if she cheated on him with another man.  Cheating is cheating regardless if it is with the same sex.  If anything, that makes it worse!  I'm trying not to go bible here, but same sex relationship sex IS and abomination.  It's worse than a sin to God.  Then to top it all off, you married too?  I feel, if you not happy or no longer want to be in your marriage then why not just divorce and leave?  Breaking your vows (promises) and betraying your spouse is straight up wrong.  And I feel, that's up to the person betrayed if they want to stay and work it out in their marriage.  Again, cheating is cheating no matter if it's with the same sex or not.

Give her a chance for rehabilitation and change by letting her go through counselling or something. I don't believe in all these "freedom of sexual orientation between men/men and woman/woman", it can be unlearned if learned already, some people take it as a kind of sophistication to acquire and stuff but we humans must watch it. What happens in decades to come and parents begin to arise to say that it's their children they want to bed, should we all smile at that sexual orientation?

Such a wify should be encouraged to unlearn that and if she is not interested in doing so, the final decision is with the husband but if I am in his position and she sticks to that after I tried to help her quit that, then imma divorce she(excuse my slang) and get on straight up!

This thread has made my nite!

This thread has made my nite!

thats true talk