quantumgal:

Yeah i'm sure! Got my own dramaaaaaa

So you give your boyfriend drama too

quantumgal:

Dear Nairalanders,

I am at loss to find the proper piece of advice for this friend of mine who finds herself in a tricky situation, please help! She started dating this guy 9 months ago and 4 months into the relationship the guy moved to another city for work. Since she lived alone and was trying to save some cash, when the guy suggested that she moved into his place in the meantime she said yes! The guy comes back every we so effectively it is like they live together. He has announced to his family and friends that the girl moved in although she had made it clear it was only on temporary basis. He has started acting her for a child while eludibg the question of marriage. She understandably started feeling a little uncomfortable and enforced the idea of mariage importance to which he responded that his parents had never been married themselves kinda implying that we was ok to replicate that model. He treats her nice in all other aspects byt she is now scared thst she should have retained her independence and principles. I must say that she is nit kiving there rent free and participates in the sharing of expenses. She now has to deal with having hidden her new housibg arrangements to her family wjo now wish to visit soon, she is torn bt moving out and getting her own place as before and re establish some sort of balance which would inevitabky break her partners heart and plans it seems or stick to the current arrangements,
I personally beluve that she should move, it is never too late to rectify, the guy will know to do the right thing if he is meant for her, any thoughts?