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We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things
that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said,
because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. It wasn't our
anniversary or any other special day.

Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like
a nightmare, I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and
bruised all over. I know he must be sorry cause he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today, and it wasn't mother's day or any other special day.
Last night, he beat me up again, it was much worse than all the other
times.  If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What
about money? I'm afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry
because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my
funeral. Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I
had gathered enough courage to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers
today . . . . . .

^^ It's really sad my dear . . .

That's why we all have to stand firm against domestic violence. There's nothing like 'it's just a small slap'!

^^^
true that!

If a man hits you once he'll do it again. People should learn to get out of abusive relationships when such things happen, please leave that naija mentality of ''do'' or ''die'' marriage.

Alot of us have never been talked back at rudely let alone  been hit by our partners ,yet we advice other women to stay and work on their marriages even when their partners have made them loose their self esteem, self confidence and above all self worth


Women please be smart, life is too short to be unhappy. Everybody deserves to be happy.