what would you do as a woman if you have been married for over 20 years without a child,

and suddenly you where raped by an arm robber and discovered you are pregnant after 2 months

would you abort or keep the pregnancy? matured views pls.

it only means your machine gun is not firing effectively as the woman involved, i would sure keep the pregnancy

Do i really have to imagine myself in such situation?

^^Just do . . .It would definitely answer to poster 's question

OP.
Wouldn't keep it.

^^^^ even if you have been trying for 20yrs

20years of barreness isnt a joke oooo even if na mad man give u belle u'll still be happy. May God not make us barren(AMEN)

I'LL SURE KEEP D BABY!

^^^ crackhead! do men get pregnant whia you come from

iyatrustee:

^^^ crackhead! do men get pregnant whia you come from

This is 2011, anything can happen.

nope! you wanna take me

why would i be on a plane when am always riding your cork

this topic has caused a very funny argument in my end, anyways,i will get the baby aborted

almost all the ladies said d man should even be ashamed that what he could not achieve in 20yrs took an arm robber just a couple of minutes and that the woman may have even been insulted and called names by d mans family members,so d baby should be allowed to leave with d man and his wife keeping d issue as secret forever

No I dont think any child deserves that kind of history. Im 99% sure the husband will abuse the child in some way at some point it will cause problems. But having been barren for 20years if the woman is strong enough she should go it alone move away where people would not know the history of the mother or the child but that also brings about 34098324 problems when the child wants to know where he/she comes from.

May God not bring us this kind of misfortune.

ARM ROBBER KE? 20 years no be childs o.

I really sympathize with the husband in that situation. For 20 years you've been shooting off target while it took a ruthless bandit just a few minutes to pump hot shot into the wife and score a goal. The husband's ego and self-esteem would be permanently shattered if he ever knows. He might even kill the baby with his own hands. God forbid such.

LadyT:

No I dont think any child deserves that kind of history. Im 99% sure the husband will abuse the child in some way at some point it will cause problems. But having been barren for 20years if the woman is strong enough she should go it alone move away where people would not know the history of the mother or the child but that also brings about 34098324 problems when the child wants to know where he/she comes from.

May God not bring us this kind of misfortune.

Lady T,

Forget that 20 years barrenness, it will be difficult for any man to accept that child.

No man want to raise a Bastard with his money.

i would rather adopt a child or possibly accept incest

I prefer to go for an adoption with my wife rather than arm-Robber to impregnate my wife? thats a curse. I'll run away from that house & never comes back lol

I would not abort the pregnancy and I would ask my hubby to accept the baby as his own. The baby would be half robber, but half me as well. The baby would never have to know a thing about how he/she was concieved, since it would probably be damaging to the child to learn the true story.
The husband stayed in the marriage for 20 years with no child so he must truly love his wife enough to not make her go through an abortion.

^^Nekai, If am your husband i'll give you 10 hot slaps across the face for that kind of absurd advice & leave the home for you and your unborn kid to continue with your good life.

Keeping that child will be a stigma to both husband and wife for a very long time. In-fact the husband will suffer the stigma most.

If the woman wants to keep the child, the couple should just  divorce .

If that couple really want their own child they can go for the  In vitro fertilization (IVF) option

Judging from most women's responses here, it seems that the end always justifies the means with women. Just do it first by force or fire, and if they enjoy the process or outcome, then they're fine with it. But if you ask them for permission first before you do, they might never grant the permission. So in essence, with women, don't ask, just do it. Thats very bad. Only a very selfish and irrational person would even contemplate keeping such a baby. If you want a child so badly, you can adopt or something, rather than bear a child for a filthy armed robber. Where is your shame and dignity, oh woman?

rokiatu:

Do i really have to imagine myself in such situation?

what if it happens? God forbid abi ?

what about the person in question?

Super Story plus Nollywood Movie Plot. We have watched them now.

Mr, Cork:

alagha. Bro, are u pregnant for arm robber?

mrs CHIMA , did you hear your big BROS. i laugh

Laugh at these nuts.

iyatrustee:

do men get pregnant whia you come from

Arosa:

This is 2011, anything can happen.

Lol.

Funny that!

why are you quoting me

furotex:

mrs CHIMA , did you hear your big BROS. i laugh

i will cry now for u!

iyatrustee:

why are you quoting me

Kata dey worry u?