I really love my wife but some nights when she is really drunk and angry she beats me. Sometimes I want to leave but I dont have a place to go. My kids no longer respect me as a father because she humiliates me in front of them and if I say anything she will beat me later on. I just dont know what to do.
Shes at the supermarket right now and she locked down our house, I cant get out and I dont want the pain.

The thing is I do not want to beat her because where I am it is considered abuse if I do. I also do not want to call the police or tell her people because they will say I am not a man. I do not know what to do please help because she is driving me crazy and I want to beat the sh[i]i[/i]t out of her.

P.S. She denies me sex when I want it but when she wants it it is by force. I feel violated in my own marital home. I am becoming psychotic, I have nightmares/thoughts of strangling her because of her behaviour. I need  advice  on what to do/how to deal with a situation like this before I do something I would regret.

From a man who is been abused by the wife

Guy, are you for real? You should be caned!

I need advice please on what to do not insult me. Thank you.

Oh wow! First of all what's your location?

ThoniaSlim:

Oh wow! First of all what's your location?

london

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Kandiicane since when did u turn male and why are u beating your husband!!  

shush

I dont quite believe your cock and bull!

Please get out of my thread if you cannot give relevant advice

lmao i don't believe this

hmm sounds like the dude is finished in life

Nigerian half igbo/yoruba

i think the guy should make an escape at night like he is a freed slave

OMG if this is true then you have to sit her down talk to her, let her know how you feel make her understand that she is pushing you to the wall and overstepping her boundaries and have you done anything lately that makes her behave this way or has she been like this from the start?

please don't be offended but is she the one feeding the home? i know even if she is it doesn't give her the right to do this, do you have a job?

I have tried talking to her so many times but she just ends up beating me.

She was a nice girl when I met her its like she has a spirit that just clicked in her when we got married,

I was thinking maybe she has a spirit husband who is unhappy about the marriage.

I work, I am the breadwinner all she does is party, eat my money and leave the kids for me to look after.

yeah. I am a friend

ok fine now that has been tackled , you said she beats you, how is her body build is she taller, bigger than you are? are you short, thin or what?

I am about 5"5 she is 5"8.

The thing s it is not like I cannot beat the hell out of her its just that I do not believe in laying my hands on a woman and even if I do and she calls the police they will take her side because I am the man.

And I do not want that because I do not have correct papers.

jeeeez Kandi why the hell are you doing this? last time i met you you were female now male dammit i hate such people its not just funny 

you who was telling me about cheating, leaving in unconditional love blah blah blah shit i hate this

Natasha this is not about me. Its about my friend you understand?

Noone here is cheating.

dammit i'm sure you are having a good laugh I cant believe I replied you *sighs* after you will say you are from Gambia later its Senegal or Sierra leon now you are claimaing Yoruba and Igbo I still don't understand why people do this, why do people change their sex, is so not cool dammit is it low self esteem or what

Natasha I am calm at the moment do not flip me out please. My friend is in this situation and he needs advice please. Just go along with it or get out ok

goodgirl

No nigerian his last name is otukoya

hey kandii, no hard feelings. . .was just catchin my trips.
Your 'friend' should walk out and leave her with her agbero children. Its a free world!

Who married who?