Lol, Am i the only one?

What if she can't go her own hair or has lost hair due to health reasons/complications, ie alopecia or chemotherapy treatment?

@ poster

what are we supposed to do with this information.

@ tpiah!

Stimulating discussion or is this the wrong section?

@ ogugua88

I doubt Id be physically attracted to her for it to go to marriage stage.

If of course I marry then we see problem then thats diff.

@Nadanbata


why not?

Nadanbata:

@ tpiah!

Stimulating discussion or is this the wrong section?

well, if you want to call it that.

so what should your potential girlfriends do- have afros, perms or you dont date anybody without non-negro hair.

Tpiah, he only said weaves. He didn't say anything about negro hair lol.

Nadanbata:

@ ogugua88

I doubt Id be physically attracted to her for it to go to marriage stage.

If of course I marry then we see problem then thats diff.

What if you marry this woman with hair and she develops alopecia or cancer, causing her hair to fall out? Would you lose interest? I just dey wonder. I can understand where you're coming from, but there are some women who have lost hair or can't grow it back for health issues. It seems unfair to that group is all.

Poster,

Did a weave chased you when you was a kid and you are still suffering trauma from it?

@ OP,  Eya ,  You can't marry me! pele! You've just missed out on a great opportunity.  

@ toyemz

I want natural babe for marriage. Me Personally them oyinbo people have damaged Africans espicially Women. Why we dey copy them but they dont copy us? God didnt create us to have hair like oyinbo. If your fine geh with weave your fine geh without it.

Maybe babe that wears weave occasionly but 110% not them religous 'weavers'

LOL! Chima go to bed!

lmfbjaao @ scary weave chasing poster as a child.

You do know those weaves have legs! Ask Mr. Ed!

@ tpiah

Yes head wrap etc etc.

Nadanbata:

@ toyemz

I want natural babe for marriage. Me Personally them oyinbo people have damaged Africans espicially Women. Why we dey copy them but they dont copy us? God didnt create us to have hair like oyinbo. If your fine geh with weave your fine geh without it.

Maybe babe that wears weave occasionly but 110% not them religous 'weavers'

I'll give you some stereotypes, all of which are true to an extent. We are naturally tanned and bleach. They are naturally white and tan. We have thick hair and relax it. They have thin hair and add extensions. Kini big deal? It's a backwards world. So many people striving to be what they're not. White, black, Chinese, Mexican, they all copy one another (including weave-wearing).

It is not that serious Poster, just get a woman who can mix it up and do not depend on weave as a cover up.

MzDarkSkin:

@ Poster that right natural girls rule.  

I got love for them Natural Sexy Babe >>> Weave Sexy Babe. Even the oyinbo like it, you stand out from everyone else with their copy catting.

@ Mrs.Chima

Mrs.Chima:

Poster,

Did a weave chased you when you was a kid and you are still suffering trauma from it?

No i pulled someones hair a bit to hard one night

ogugua88:

I'll give you some stereotypes, all of which are true to an extent. We are naturally tanned and bleach. They are naturally white and tan. We have thick hair and relax it. They have thin hair and add extensions. Kini big deal? It's a backwards world. So many people striving to be what they're not. White, black, Chinese, Mexican, THEY ALL DO IT!

Thank you Ogugua! God don bless you finish! Happy Easter darling! lol

I would have kept my mouth shut if the OP doesn't like weaves on girls, because of personal reasons.

But, what kind of reason is "Copying Oyinbo." As if oyinbos don't copy us. **Smh**

Conclusion: OP is clueless. JayBee come lock this thread. Thread over, ! lol

I thought most African women wears weave?   Espeacially those whom could really afford it.

@ ogugua88

I know everyone does it but I want natural babe o. If you dont let me see your real hair u no get ring on your finger.

And there are girls like this [b]"religous weavers". [/b]Half the time it looks stupidly horrible as well, smh.

@Nadanbata

what about wigs?
do you have any hang ups on that too?

Nadanbata:

@ Mrs.Chima
No i pulled someones hair a bit to hard one night  

That wasn't a weave that was a wig.  Weave are WEAVED in the real hair and therefore harder to pull if the chick had someone who KNEW what they were doing and not baby sister playing beautician.

Did the weave have a tag on it?  If so that a wig suga.

Like most of my African gf's wear weave cause they say they like having straight hair.

But to me they are best with their natural hair. But if they wanted to wear a weave why not? Its fashion. Thats a blessing to be a woman cause we get to change clothing style, shoes style, we get to colour our faces, our finger nails, make our hair. Its all so fun! I dont see any problem with it.  

Like why must we be so boring like thos men whom only is limited to weart slacks and jeans (unless if he is scottish, perhaps he get option to wear skirt  ) and their hair is only one type or maybe 3 types. Like say he go to the barber and barber says so what type of hair today? Type A? Type B or Type C? And you guys go answer. . . Sheesh! What choices do I have?           And your shirt na only two types. With Sleeve or no sleev? WIth color or no color? The only thing u get to choose is the colour of the shirt sef but if you choose pink, people go call u gay. . . Its sad really . . .

Ms. Potato:

Like why must we be so boring like thos men whom only is limited to weart slacks and jeans (unless if he is scottish, perhaps he get option to wear skirt  ) and their hair is only one type or maybe 3 types. Like say he go to the barber and barber says so what type of hair today? Type A? Type B or Type C? And you guys go answer. . . Sheesh! What choices do I have?           And your shirt na only two types. With Sleeve or no sleev? WIth color or no color? The only thing u get to choose is the colour of the shirt sef but if you choose pink, people go call u gay. . . Its sad really . . .

ms. potato. take a nap hun

ogugua88:

What if she can't go her own hair or has lost hair due to health reasons/complications, ie alopecia or chemotherapy treatment?

That is a different scenario. I just hate when people try to be fake.

As a matter of fact, I have a soft spot for cancer patients.

Ms. Potato:

Like most of my African gf's wear weave cause they say they like having straight hair.

But to me they are best with their natural hair. But if they wanted to wear a weave why not? Its fashion. Thats a blessing to be a woman cause we get to change clothing style, shoes style, we get to colour our faces, our finger nails, make our hair. Its all so fun! I dont see any problem with it.  

That's why I wear weaves! It's super fun!  I work my natural hair alot too. But, I love weaves. I can do without them though. I'm not addicted. 

toyemz:

@Nadanbata

what about wigs?
do you have any hang ups on that too?

Its all the same thing.

Not being yourself is a huge turn off for conservatives like me and the OP!