Waybafool or what do you call yourself

i think you are the real b1tch here, for opening this useless thread.

tpia

oh my you got problems

*grabs a seat*

@OP, are you just realizing this after 7yrs?
nairaland really won't help you un-detatch your husband.


and NO it's not a Nigerian thing. stop spreading racial stereotypes abeg. my parents are each other's best friends. and most nigerian families I know have the same dynamic.

OP

Most African men dont show their emotions openly and you will need to earn their trust to know many of the issues on their mind.

For instance, growing up as a young boy you are told not to cry out like girls and many of us have learnt how to talk less and bottle our emotions while growing up.

I rarely cry and when I do, definitely not in the presence of people. Only once as an I adult I openly wept, and that was when I lost my best friend unexpectedly.

Ask him nicely am sure he would tell you, it's probably not just as a result of a situation but as a result of countless. He maybe irritated or tired of the way you behave to certain situations ( that's why you are two different people). Try to understand where he is coming from, listen and don't draw into conclusions or nag him, that might piss him off! and lastly pray and ask God to help you! Good Luck!