What do you think of me who cry for love? I was having a heat & die discussion with my girl and she went all brute telling me how men who cry for love are real men.

Ladies, I need your opinion of this! Fellas too can participate.

Inked_Nerd:

I don't mind if a guy cries for love but you can't go around boo hooing everytime something doesn't work in your favor. I know a guy who does that and it makes me sick being around him. I was supposed to meet him at his house and told him I couldn't come and the fool bitched about it for almost two weeks!!!

You hit the spot.


Is the effing gay seriously & does his girl accept what he does? 

Quite frankly, I've never "boohooed" but I've dropped a few drops of tears due to the feeling of deep love. The good thing about mine is that it was for real and I wasn't whining over something that went wrong. Love can make a man melt sometimes o.

Inked_Nerd:


He doesn't have a girl--he wanted me to be his girl but I can't take his consrtant complaining and jealous ways. He's just too childish at times. Honestly, I think his mother babied him too much beceause he has a damn hissy fit when he doesn't get his way. Because of him, I don't even look at white men the same way again [kind of]. By the way, can you please not use that word gay? Its very rude

Oh he is white? I see.

Why shouldn't I use the phrase gay. A guy crying/weeping over nothing. What do you want me to label him? A real protagonist, or maybe a real two balled man? You are being a bit naive dear.

Anyways thanks for contributing.

hunkyjohn:

Quite frankly, I've never "boohooed" but I've dropped a few drops of tears due to the feeling of deep love. The good thing about mine is that it was for real and I wasn't whining over something that went wrong. Love can make a man melt sometimes o.

Real men do cry but there is a line that they shouldn't cross. And if they cross that line it is ,

Out of the three years I've known my ex bf he cried in my presence twice and both times it was very awkward. Looking back at it I did like the fact that he was expressing his emotion, but at the moment I was just uncomfortable. He didn't do it all the time so it wasn't a problem. I thougt it was kind of nice though.

Inked_Nerd:


How am I being naive? Because he cries [constantly] doesn't make him a gay. Check ya self sweetie. I may not liek the dude but that doesn't mean you need to be calling his names like that.

That's understandable

You are catching feelings because the dude was once your boyfriend. My bad, my bad. I took my negativity back.

Nekai:

Out of the three years I've known my ex bf he cried in my presence twice and both times it was very awkward. Looking back at it I did like the fact that he was expressing his emotion, but at the moment I was just uncomfortable. He didn't do it all the time so it wasn't a problem. I thougt it was kind of nice though.

Why didN"T you comfort him or something? Your man was crying and you just stood there!

Advocator:

What do you think of me who cry for love? I was having a heat & die discussion with my girl and she went all brute telling me how men who cry for love are real men.

Ladies, I need your opinion of this! Fellas too can participate.  

And that's exactly what happens when men let women define their manhood.

Blood_Shed:

And that's exactly what happens when men let women define their manhood.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, wag1.

Inked_Nerd:


When did I tell you he was my boyfriend? If he was my boyfriend I would have speciifed that.

O.K

* Scratches his head*

Blood_Shed:

And that's exactly what happens when men let women define their manhood.

Hi Blood_Shed. . .

Advocator:

Why didN"T you comfort him or something? Your man was crying and you just stood there!

I pat him on a back a few times.   I don't really do well in those situations, but I made it up to him afterwards. 

Inked_Nerd:


Never mind, let's move on

[Because of him, I don't even look at white men the same way again [kind of].*

This is the statement that made me think that the dude was your bf.  

Contradiction too much.

Yeap lets move on.

Advocator if that's what she wants then go dice some onions and profess your everlasting love.

advocator
i wana sleep now,
i will tell u 2morrow.
But u don't need 2 cry cos u re a man.

Inked_Nerd:


Its not a contradiction. Instead of trying to poke holes in my comment why don't you try to ask actual questions to see what I meant by that rather than jump to conclusions. I would have easily explained what I meant had you asked.

I was taught how to think and break simple sentences into my own thinking. What is the point of me asking you everything you jot? I did take my alagma back now kindly stop excessively forcing me into online rehab.

Nekai:

but I made it up to him afterwards. 

This got my attention. I am thinking you gave him a hot slow sex.

M M M:

advocator
i wana sleep now,
i will tell u 2morrow.
But u don't need 2 cry cos u re a man.

O.K

Puscy-whipped men. .

J12:

Puscy-whipped men. .

So you never cried before?

Inked_Nerd:


lol, sorry o [although I don't know why I'm apologizing]. Ok,seriosly let's move on.

Let's not dwell into the past. let's start fresh, how is the white guy related to you if you don't mind me asking.

Inked_Nerd:


He's just one yeye boy I met when I was in high school

I'm moving on though, I can't stand him [not just because he complains lol]

Was he your boyfriend back then? I am phrasing my statement as a question this time.

Don't wanna poke your mood.  & why does he always complain?

Yeah rings a bell.
There was this lady I really liked years back, wasn't feeling well so she came around.
She wanted to leave at dusk and that got me all sobre.
Innocently knelt down in front of her, wrapped my hands around her and placed my head on her laps. . . .tears streamed down like a 5y/o girl.

Advocator:

So you never cried before?

I have, but not for love.

Advocator:

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, wag1.

, what?

Nekai:

Hi Blood_Shed. . .

S'good?

Blood_Shed:


S'good?

Have u ever shed tears of love?

Nekai:

Have u ever shed tears of love?

LOL nah, I'm too cold-hearted to cry like that.