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Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by dayokanu(m): 8:50pm On May 13, 2011
Whether you like it or not, Sex is one of the reason for getting married.

If someone os forking around they advise him to go get married,

And intimate compatibility can never be overstressed in this situation,

The last 2 posters if you dont test drive and you end up with a husband who spills within 1 minute, what would you do?

Divorce, cheat or manage the miserable sex life for the rest of your life
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by tiniyata(m): 9:21pm On May 13, 2011
do not do it
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by obowunmi(m): 9:21pm On May 13, 2011
or a man with small joystick.  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 9:28pm On May 13, 2011
35 yr old virgin? U sure say dat ting never expire? cry
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by kokoye(m): 9:30pm On May 13, 2011
Ishilove:

Why cant he wait for you? Is he marrying you for sex? Are u sure this man is God's will for your life? Poster u really need to fast and pray because God's word is very explicit concerning the issue of fornication. Just because society indulges in and glorifies intimate immorality does not make it right. Lady, u are gem amongst women and this is the devil tempting you. Don't mortgage your destiny on the alter of sex. Fast and pray and God will surprise you

She does not need to fast and pray to be able to say No.

Haba, kilagbekilejuhuh

Nawa o
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 9:33pm On May 13, 2011
Ishilove:

Why cant he wait for you? Is he marrying you for sex? Are u sure this man is God's will for your life? Poster u really need to fast and pray because God's word is very explicit concerning the issue of fornication. Just because society indulges in and glorifies intimate immorality does not make it right. Lady, u are gem amongst women and this is the devil tempting you. Don't mortgage your destiny on the alter of sex. Fast and pray and God will surprise you

So why else is he marrying her? to be cleaning his house and washing his clothes? huh
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:03pm On May 13, 2011
Don't do it haba after all he wants  to marry you. what's wrong with him? If he has waited till this minute then what's his problem , You have no guarantee that after sleeping with him he would still marry you, don't do it
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 10:12pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

Don't do it haba after all he wants to marry you. what'\s wrong with him? If he has waited till this minute then what's his problem , You have no guarantee that after sleeping with him he would still marry you, don't do it

^^^you've said everything. maybe, the dude has always wished to sleep with a virgin but never

got the chance. i doubt if he really wants to marry OP. Why not marry her first and sleep with her

as much as he wants to after that?
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:14pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

^^^you've said everything. maybe, the dude has always wished to sleep with a virgin but never

got the chance. i doubt if he really wants to marry OP. Why not marry her first and sleep with her

as much as he wants to after that?

lolz and seriously what's his problem , is he testing her or what, I just can't understand it oh a girl you want to marry undecided
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 10:16pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

lolz and seriously what's his problem , his he [b]testing her or what, I just can't understand it oh a girl you want to marry undecided[/b]

That's a valid point u made. I hadnt thot of that. It's possible.
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:24pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

That's a valid point u made. I hadnt thot of that. It's possible.
anyway i'm confused about that cos like the time to test this girl has far gone, Why I'm I getting the feeling that this guy doesn't want to marry her because I cant see any other reason why he would say such a thing
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:26pm On May 13, 2011
@op have you tried talking to him about what you feel, ask him why all of a sudden he wants to have you in bed , You guys need a long talk undecided
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by dayokanu(m): 10:27pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

^^^you've said everything. maybe, the dude has always wished to sleep with a virgin but never

got the chance. i doubt if he really wants to marry OP. Why not marry her first and sleep with her

as much as he wants to after that?


If they are married and not sexually compatible would he be allowed to divorce, cheat or marry another wife
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by MeGaStReEt: 10:29pm On May 13, 2011
Me, I no blame the guy ooo, these days person need shine him eye well well make one small girl no go catch person mugu. How we go take dey sure say the OP na V V as she talk, the thing fit don wide pass river niger . . . so the guy wan make sure say him no go need rope to take climb come out anytime him fall inside the well. Its better he test-the-microhone now, afterall wether b4 or after marraige, avalanche na avalanche.

@35, na wetin?? even Mary never even reach that age b4 she born Bros J
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:30pm On May 13, 2011
dayokanu:

If they are married and not sexually compatible would he be allowed to divorce, cheat or marry another wife
duh what exactly are you saying, Please get real
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:32pm On May 13, 2011
MeGaStReEt:

Me, I no blame the guy ooo, these days person need shine him eye well well make one small girl no go catch person mugu. How we go take dey sure say the OP na V V as she talk, the thing fit don wide pass river niger . . . so the guy wan make sure say him no go need rope to take climb come out anytime him fall inside the well. Its better he test-the-microhone now, afterall wether b4 or after marraige, avalanche na avalanche.

@35, na wetin?? even Mary never even reach that age b4 she born Bros J
she is human for crying out loud she's not some kind of meal that you taste and spit out what exactly are you implying huh?
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by dayokanu(m): 10:33pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

duh what exactly are you saying, Please get real

You mean he should marry someone he doesnt know her intimate appetite
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:35pm On May 13, 2011
dayokanu:

You mean he should marry someone he doesnt know her intimate appetite
have people not been getting married without premarital sex and still having happy homes? is she an orange that you will lick and throw away, why the hell will a guy want to sleep with me and his reason will be he wants to see if we are sexually compatible? duh that's so lame
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 10:38pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

have people not been getting married without premarital sex and still having happy homes? is she a orange that you will lick and throw away, why the hell will a guy want to sleep with me and his reason will be he wants to see if we are sexually compatible? duh that's so lame

Very, very lame.

I think the guy doesn't want to marry OP and knowing her to refuse his

request, he wants to use it to break off with her.
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:41pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

Very, very lame.

I think the guy doesn't want to marry OP and knowing her to refuse his

request, he wants to use it to break off with her.

yep I think you are right, though you can never know what truly is going on in someone else's mind lolz
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Beync(f): 10:42pm On May 13, 2011
DONT OOO!! this sex will not save your mariage if he is not your rightful husband, How would you feel if after having you he changes his mind? you'l be devastated right? Are you saying God is not faithfull as to reward you for being faithful thru all these years? Pls dont listen to any negative thought that comes your way now, there is time and place for everything. If this man trully loves you, he'l wait till the DDay. this is a real test of faith and u need to be strong. he need to reason with you and know that you wont deny him sex when you both are legally maried. demanding for sex now as a prerequisite for the mariage would be selfish and unwholesome.
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by MeGaStReEt: 10:45pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

she is human for crying out loud she's not some kind of meal that you taste and spit out what exactly are you [b]implying huh? [/b]

Na english you dey speak, you see were I for imply anything??lmao.

Everything about girls these days na FAKE!

Fake Yaansh

Fake Breeast

Fake Lips

Fake Hair

Fake Face

Fake Eyelashes

Fake V V

you see why I don't blame the dude. mugu don wise
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 10:50pm On May 13, 2011
MeGaStReEt:

Na english you dey speak, you see were I for imply anything??lmao.

Everything about girls these days na FAKE!

Fake Yaansh

Fake Breeast

Fake Lips

Fake Hair

Fake Face

Fake Eyelashes

Fake V V

you see why I don't blame the dude. mugu don wise

what does fixing eye lashes got to do with this undecided what's wrong if a girl decides to enhance her beauty? if she doesn't its trouble, even when she does its still trouble undecided all the Hollywood stars you see what do you think they do? yet you adore them and praise their beauty when will people like you stop deceiving yourselves undecided
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 10:53pm On May 13, 2011
MeGaStReEt:

Na english you dey speak, you see were I for imply anything??lmao.

Everything about girls these days na FAKE!

Fake Yaansh

Fake Breeast

Fake Lips

Fake Hair

Fake Face

Fake Eyelashes

Fake V V

you see why I don't blame the dude. mugu don wise

fu_kk_k. angry [/tt]
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 11:01pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

^^^Why u no add the fake toto wey u still dey fu_kk_k? with all their 'fakeness', u

no dey follow their nyansh dey beg dem cure your conji? Mtscheww.
angry Natasha no mind am abeggy.
lmao grin grin grin grin grin you know sometimes its hard to ignore some people who say trash lolz you need to talk sense into their head that's if they will let it in cheesy
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by MeGaStReEt: 11:08pm On May 13, 2011
sexylogan:

^^^Why u no add the fake toto wey u still dey fu_kk_k? with all their 'fakeness', u

no dey follow their nyansh dey beg dem cure your conji? Mtscheww.
angry Natasha no mind am abeggy.

Me? beg girl? not in this life, I've got more original a$$ to avalanche anytime, anyday. . . na dem dey beg me self.

btw, I didn't say there is fake to to, na fake V V i talk.


sexylogan:

[/tt] angry [tt]Natasha no mind am abeggy.

sexylogan +Natasha he he he. I dey laugh
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 11:14pm On May 13, 2011
MeGaStReEt:

Me? beg girl? not in this life, I've got more original a$$ to avalanche anytime, anyday. . . na dem dey beg me self.

btw, I didn't say there is fake to to, na fake V V i talk.


sexylogan +Natasha he he he. I dey laugh
and so far how has your post helped the poster? undecided continue laughing its good to laugh but remember to laugh responsibly undecided
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Girl846(f): 11:15pm On May 13, 2011
Ishilove:

Why cant he wait for you? Is he marrying you for sex? Are u sure this man is God's will for your life? Poster u really need to fast and pray because God's word is very explicit concerning the issue of fornication. Just because society indulges in and glorifies intimate immorality does not make it right. Lady, u are gem amongst women and this is the devil tempting you. Don't mortgage your destiny on the alter of sex. Fast and pray and God will surprise you

Beync:

DONT OOO!! this sex will not save your mariage if he i
s not your rightful husband, How would you feel if after having you he changes his mind? you'l be devastated right? Are you saying God is not faithfull as to reward you for being faithful thru all these years? Pls dont listen to any negative thought that comes your way now, there is time and place for everything. If this man trully loves you, he'l wait till the DDay. this is a real test of faith and u need to be strong. he need to reason with you and know that you wont deny him sex when you both are legally maried. demanding for sex now as a prerequisite for the mariage would be selfish and unwholesome.

These two have said it all - don't listen to all these people that want to lead you astray - we are in the end times and many are being deceived!
You are a Christian and the bible makes the issue of fornication very clear! So there is no question there o!

Please any two people can be sexually compatible it just takes practice, willingness to learn, consideration for eachother's desires, and LOVE.

The husband-to-be is not young, i am sure he is done with education and financially stable by now,  he should move the wedding date up if he cant wait any longer. If he loves you,  HE WILL WAIT!
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 11:18pm On May 13, 2011
Girl846:

These two have said it all - don't listen to all these people that want to lead you astray - we are in the end times and many are being deceived!
You are a Christian and the bible makes the issue of fornication very clear! So there is no question there o!

Please any two people can be sexually compatible it just takes practice, willingness to learn, consideration for eachother's desires, and LOVE.

The husband-to-be is not young, i am sure he is done with education and financially stable by now,  he should move the wedding date up if he cant wait any longer. If he loves you,  HE WILL WAIT!

Seconded, Thirded ,Fourthed kiss
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by sexylogan(m): 11:19pm On May 13, 2011
MeGaStReEt:

Me? beg girl? not in this life, I've got more original a$$ to avalanche anytime, anyday. . . na dem dey beg me self.

Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by MeGaStReEt: 11:24pm On May 13, 2011
Natasha,,:

and so far how has your [color=#006600]post helped the poster? undecided continue laughing its good to laugh but remember to laugh responsibly  undecided[/color]

The OP will be stuffid to accept/believe every comment she read here on NL
Re: Am A Virgin And My Fiance Wants To Sleep With Me B/4 The Wedding Day Please Help by Natasha,,(f): 11:25pm On May 13, 2011
@sexylogan lolz why did you make it bold  grin lolz lolz lolz

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