daniel-he is handsome and so many girls dying 4 him dt why i decided to break up and i free him to do wat ever he like.while he hurt me so much and i thank god am still myself.

That does not soung well at all

@ cabali you do not sound okay too

4, one of them a Nairalander (I think I got to know about Nairaland through her. . . lol). Now, I think I'm in a state of hybernation. . .

@Setin
You are still yourself? Aha, I understand what you mean exactly. God Bless You.

Pls are there enumerators in d house dt can help count.

do you mean your own alone or for all? cus i know your count will not be easy

How are u expected to remember the count? just asking!!

@ snazzy I dont think I am as well

hmmm. limme see what valuable lesson i've learnt (thinking)

Only one. What i learnt from the relationship? Never compromise your postion. No matter how well intentioned someone is, when the shit hits the fan, you and your family are left to deal with the aftermath. No-one is worth selling yourself short. Besides that, when you're thinking " this is the one, there will never be another one like him/her" and you take continuous shit from that person remember there are so many ppl out there in the world just waiting for you to give them a break without all the drama. If someone doesn't match up to your criteria, don't waste time trying to make " things" work. save yourself the time and tell them to bounce. Time wasted can never be retrieved and time is your life.

Mo money yours is ten times mine.

Hey,I want to realy understand if there is a big difference bw date and relationship

what do u care? cheater

Forget the words; we are saying how many have u had sex with! Right lauryn??

Yes!

so whats ur answer lauryn??

lauryn:

what do u care? cheater

Hey L I do not think that we are exactly on speaking terms(or posting terms)right now!
Anyways,how are u doing girl .And Y R u calling me a cheater

cabali:

Forget the words; we are saying how many have u had sex with! Right lauryn??

Then I guess you have to change the title of the thread cos I do not think that Date and Sex are synonyms

Uche2nna:

Hey L I do not think that we are exactly on speaking terms(or posting terms)right now!
Anyways,how are u doing girl .And Y R u calling me a cheater

Cos U are and U know it. Just remember to WRAP/RAP it up

cabali:

so whats your answer lauryn??

lost count

Well uche call what u want just tell us how many people u have dated/had sex with/had a retionship with so far and stop stalling

@ Lauryn, Thats my girl!!!!!

hehe

lauryn:

Cos U are and U know it. Just remember to WRAP/RAP it up

Hey L I do not think we are on the same wavelenght here.Can you just break it down a little for me.
Anyway,I am fine,thanks for asking!

cabali:

Well uche call what u want just tell us how many people u have dated/had sex with/had a retionship with so far and stop stalling

@ Lauryn, Thats my girl!!!!!

Sex 2 Date 0

Uche2nna:

Hey L I do not think we are on the same wavelenght here.Can you just break it down a little for me.
Anyway,I am fine,thanks for asking!

laugh my friggin lil behind off  
we are not in talking/posting terms, remember?

i'm out y'all
@ uche

Of course! uche

bye then lauryn!! just keep the count as it is dont increase this night

Well, if this is the way it's supposed to go, then for me it's rather:
Date = 4; Sex = 0

Bye L.But I do not know y are mad at me in the first place
Is this some sort of misplaced aggression

The People

1.Naydene(South Africa) - She's really possessive. I only agreed because she was my first. I didn't know any better then.
2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She's a real money freak
3.Zainab - She's a flirt and always wants to have sex every minute of the day
4.Linda - I really like her, but she always thinks I'm cheating on her
5.Amanda - She always goes around having sex at her young age(18) and I tagged her the name LovePeddler!
6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me so I gave her the name BITCH! I had earlier asked the Nairaland Members for help but I was too late when they started replying.
7. Lisa - She tells me she likes me, but I want to take my time

What happened

1. Naydene(South Africa) - She had misplaced jealousies about me and even got angry at me when she saw me talking with my female coursemate at school. She was always comparing me to her ex-boyfriend 'Nosh' (A Bouncer) and this really pissed me off and I had to call it quits with her.

2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She was always bugging me and asking me to buy her stuff that was way beyond my pocket and would stop talking to me whenever I said no. I eventually dumped her when I almost exhausted my bank account.

3.Zainab - She went around sleeping and fucking around with anybody she saw. We never really clicked because I knew
It would have a sad ending. She still stalks me around, but I can handle it.

4. Linda - She thought I was cheating from day one and had sex with one of my "friends" but discovered I wasn't and asked us to come back again but I just thought It was best we quit that relationship.

5. Amanda - She looked trustworthy in the beginning but she turned out to be a faker who had sex at her young age.
We quit the relationship and she got pregnant for either a bus conductor or an egg seller (I can't remember) and ran off to Benin and has never been heard from again. I feel so disgusted I was ever in a relationship with someone like that.

6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me and it looked like she enjoyed them. In all the relationships I've had, that one was too fake and I had dubbed it a "Plastic Relationship". We eventually quit when she crossed the line. Ihad wanted to save that particular relationship because I was too tired of having disastrous relationships.

7.Lisa - She keeps telling me she really likes me, but I don't want us to start this relationship because I want to take my time time to understand girls, What they like and what they hate as to keep my relationship safe.

Lessons Learnt

1. Always feel free to say no to girls when they ask you for a relationship and you don't feel the same way
2. Try as much as you can to understand your partner
3. try harder to save your relationship and if you can't WALK!
4. Be careful who you call your friends because they can become the inverse in the face of something that means a lot to you .

And Most of all,
5.Pray to God to keep you safe from the urges of extra-marital sex. You don't have to join in just because everybody is doing it so try not to be easily influenced or seduced by the forces of darkness who take control of your once stable life and ravage it beyond repair

Thanks!
Love, Spade

Hmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!Any answer in this thread will be used against me in the court of law.

spade:

The People

1.Naydene(South Africa) - She's really possessive. I only agreed because she was my first. I didn't know any better then.
2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She's a real money freak
3.Zainab - She's a flirt and always wants to have sex every minute of the day
4.Linda - I really like her, but she always thinks I'm cheating on her
5.Amanda - She always goes around having sex at her young age(18) and I tagged her the name LovePeddler!
6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me so I gave her the name BITCH! I had earlier asked the Nairaland Members for help but I was too late when they started replying.
7. Lisa - She tells me she likes me, but I want to take my time

What happened

1. Naydene(South Africa) - She had misplaced jealousies about me and even got angry at me when she saw me talking with my female coursemate at school. She was always comparing me to her ex-boyfriend 'Nosh' (A Bouncer) and this really pissed me off and I had to call it quits with her.

2.Naydene(Nigeria) - She was always bugging me and asking me to buy her stuff that was way beyond my pocket and would stop talking to me whenever I said no. I eventually dumped her when I almost exhausted my bank account.

3.Zainab - She went around sleeping and fucking around with anybody she saw. We never really clicked because I knew
It would have a sad ending. She still stalks me around, but I can handle it.

4. Linda - She thought I was cheating from day one and had sex with one of my "friends" but discovered I wasn't and asked us to come back again but I just thought It was best we quit that relationship.

5. Amanda - She looked trustworthy in the beginning but she turned out to be a faker who had sex at her young age.
We quit the relationship and she got pregnant for either a bus conductor or an egg seller (I can't remember) and ran off to Benin and has never been heard from again. I feel so disgusted I was ever in a relationship with someone like that.

6.Sandra - She was always picking up fights with me and it looked like she enjoyed them. In all the relationships I've had, that one was too fake and I had dubbed it a "Plastic Relationship". We eventually quit when she crossed the line. Ihad wanted to save that particular relationship because I was too tired of having disastrous relationships.

7.Lisa - She keeps telling me she really likes me, but I don't want us to start this relationship because I want to take my time time to understand girls, What they like and what they hate as to keep my relationship safe.

Lessons Learnt

1. Always feel free to say no to girls when they ask you for a relationship and you don't feel the same way
2. Try as much as you can to understand your partner
3. try harder to save your relationship and if you can't WALK!
4. Be careful who you call your friends because they can become the inverse in the face of something that means a lot to you .

And Most of all,
5.Pray to God to keep you safe from the urges of extra-marital sex. You don't have to join in just because everybody is doing it so try not to be easily influenced or seduced by the forces of darkness who take control of your once stable life and ravage it beyond repair

Thanks!
Love, Spade

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