I have always wnted to get married whn am 30yrs old and am 28 this june.
I believe I can take care of a family now, no doubt am doing well, but the problem is that
I wnt to marry a Nigerian lady and am not in Nigeria at the moment, have been living abroad due to my schooling and jobs.

So, am wondering if it is posible to get a good lady in Nigerian within a short time like a year and how and where?
cos my Nigerian frnds here keep telling me, not to waste my time that the Nigeria ladies I left years ago r no longer thesame.

I dnt wnt to make wrong choices in life cos marriage to me is 4eva. I must get married b4 i get 30.

Yh sure dere r lotta young beautiful n willin ladies out dere
jst tk ur tym n pray 2 meet er soon

go to Nigeria, and you would find one. if you are looking for Romans, you are more likely to meet them in Rome and not japan.

so take time off work/school, and go spend at least a months hols in naija.

avoid NL babes by the way

snowdrops:

go to Nigeria, and you would find one. if you are looking for Romans, you are more likely to meet them in Rome and not japan.

so take time off work/school, and go spend at least a months hols in naija.

avoid NL babes by the way

lolz

@poster, i know exactly what you mean, kind of think i'm in same predicament too but not despo!

Are there no Nigerian ladies where you at?

Where are you located and why can't you find a naija babe in your area ?

Pray to God to direct your path.

4 sure we have Nigerian ladies here but trust me, most of them are here with their husbands
and the few that are single are here to hustle and others are just too wild for a wife.
I think I just have to come home for some months and see wht I can get.

@ freeman9ja

so true. at same time, remember the naija babes too can be married, wild or hustlers. whether naija or overseas, siddon and carefully look for a good one you are compatible with.

^^^well said.

@poster
to get to know someone FULLY take a lot of time, and therefore, going to 9ja for a few months wont help as you wouldnt know that person fully. LDR is a waste of time and energy and dont really show what you NEED to see in a person. so, the chances of finding ¨a real wife¨in a few months in 9ja are about the same as finding one where you are (with all the time in your hands).

i suggest you try find someone close to you and work on her because you may spend all this time, money and energy on going to 9ja, ONLY TO GET HOOKED UP WITH THE SAME TYPE OF NEGATIVE WOMEN THAT ARE ABOUND WHERE YOU RESIDE. lol