Lord_Reed:

So in other words since we are all in an unpredictable world with no guarantees WTF do you want from a man then?

vislabraye:

When You marry the right guy, you will know .

Close ya legs till you wanna get married. When u find the Mr Right, marry him and stay faithful. Guys are not angels you know.

BABE!:

OP-- your post apply to all of us in general-- By nature, we all are, covetous  and never satisfied- Ultimately,just DO YOU!

Insanity:

@op everything you said here is what i'll say 'bout the ladies too.You buy her gifts,U be mugu,you don't,you are not romantic. A woman can neva be satisfied. So,i'll say its a general issue for both genders. We are all selfish beings,so don't come here n say ;'men this','men that', just live your life,be yourself,don't mind what people say behind your back,'cuz it only means you r one step ahead,U dig ,

Amya:

Guys complain about the ladies all the time on Nl. You can open yet another thread about the ladies and there selfishness, but here, it's about the guys and their woes.

Amya:


don't get what you mean. . .rephrase.

Amya:


nothing.

Mr, Cork:

Mrs.Chima.  seriously, plis when can  I corkynate you? I swaaar ama nice guy. I swaaar!

Amya:


I know this issue's been drummed time and time again, but i guess i still want to know how the male brains work. What do guys really want? Okay, we know guys are visual people and they are attracted to beautiful women ( naturally) But Being all these cannot guarantee you a good guy willing to keep his willy in check.

On the question of Submissive, good, nice and soft women that take their partners as their lords, the men are divided on that. Some say they want strong independent women that's capable of holding her own any day, and some others prefer the soft women that stroke their egos. But neither of these women personalities would a guy see any day and say, I'm home! If possible, they'd want both type woman personality on one person depending on their mood.

Amya:

Men are confused creatures, if you're extremely nice, they'd make jokes about you to their friends on what a suck up you are, and how desperate you must be to take all the poo they dish to you.The girl on the other hand may really love the dude and just want's to do stuff that pleases her boo. If on the other hand, you are cold, bitchy and the exact opposite of nice, you earn many a brunt joke about how your heart must be broken a thousand times, and how it'll be broken a million times. If the lady balances the the two personality in moderate proportion, worse. They'll call you a desperado who's had her hearts broken a million times.

You meet someone who matches your chemistry, you Zap them, you become THE CHEAP LovePeddler!

You resist them, and they'll chase you with everything they've got. They'll lie they love you, they'll even promise you marriage . . .spoil you with money and blackberrys, they'll do every thing they possibly can to mess you, and when they finally succeed, you become THE CHEAP LovePeddler! they'd boast to their friends of how they finally got the 'hard to get b.itch', sometimes even giving graphic description of the 'act'.

If the girl is fortunate to see through the guy and he becomes the unfortunate dude who doesn't get the backside after investing so much time money and energy for the thing beneath her skirt, they become fictitious writers, creating stories about how beloved number three was shagged by them, and how she turned out to be indeed the frigid shrew. which is at par to cheap LovePeddler.

You wear make-up, they say you are fake. . . You go natural, they throw jibes at how it seems make up is afraid of your face.

You are witty. . . they say you are a talkative . . . you don't talk . . . they say you have self esteem issues.

Anyways, there's just no pleasing them!

. . .and of course there are exceptions. . .

omoekoni:

We are predators and women are our prey, what do predators want?, to chase and to conquer. simples.

Besides, instead of expecting anything from a guy, why don't you just be all you can be in life and just have sex when you feel like without any strings or expectations? if you don't expect anything then you'll never be disappointed!

Men and women are totally different, we will never understand women and women will never understand us because we operate on a different frequency. Thats how it is and thats how it will always be until the end of time.

So instead of moaning and complaining, just focus on yourself and your ambitions, plus, remember you came into this world to be all you can be, and if during that process, you get Hot, then, just have sex, wait a minute, i just decribed a guy

Sagamite:

You basically answered your own question. Seems you know the answers since these were clues I would have given you based on the question of the topic.

Now since you are clued up on the foundations that potentially give you a chance of happiness with a man, let me provide you with the next set of clues that will facilitate this.

Here it is, please listen carefully. I want your full concentration.

Are you listening?

Okay!

Hear me:

Stop fcking choosing arseholes. Make good choices in men you go out with or give a chance.

It is most likely your fault you are ending up with men like these since it is the woman that normally complete the signing that starts a relationship as they are the ones being chased.

If you end up with extreme arseholes like you described, it is probably because you chose arseholes or you made good guys like this based on not providing the foundations.

If bad guys turn you on and you go for bad guys stop moaning when they actually are what they are. Bad!

omoekoni:

We are predators and women are our prey, what do predators want?, to chase and to conquer. simples.

Besides, instead of expecting anything from a guy, why don't you just be all you can be in life and just have sex when you feel like without any strings or expectations? if you don't expect anything then you'll never be disappointed!

Men and women are totally different, we will never understand women and women will never understand us because we operate on a different frequency. Thats how it is and thats how it will always be until the end of time.

So instead of moaning and complaining, just focus on yourself and your ambitions, plus, remember you came into this world to be all you can be, and if during that process, you get Hot, then, just have sex, wait a minute, i just decribed a guy

IyaBasira:


That's not necessarily true. First of all , you can never know who turns out to be an backside hole.  There are guys that no matter how nice you were to them while you were going out, when you've had enough of them and break up they start running around telling tales. I've seen situations where the guy was an ok guy with his first gf, and never cheated on her until the first girl dumped him, and when he gets a second girl he basically starts treating her like poo i.e cheats , tell lies about her and so on. In that situation there is no way the second girl could possibly have known that he was going to do all those things. Because even if she does all the research on his character before she met him, there's no way of predicting what the guy can do in the future.

All I'm saying is that yes, some girls do go for bad boys but at other times the boy may just be a bad guy pretending to be good. And we all know that even if a girl was to go around asking all his friends about his character they would never tell her the truth because after all, boys have each other's backs and wouldn't want to spoil their friend's chances of getting laid.

Sagamite:

Stop fcking choosing arseholes. Make good choices in men you go out with or give a chance.

It is most likely your fault you are ending up with men like these since it is the woman that normally complete the signing that starts a relationship as they are the ones being chased.

If you end up with extreme arseholes like you described, it is probably because you chose arseholes or you made good guys like this based on not providing the foundations.

If bad guys turn you on and you go for bad guys stop moaning when they actually are what they are. Bad!

Ms. Potato:

Poster, it depends who u meet. If you meet guys like Mr. Cork and 190m of course they will tell u sex but if you meet guys like Lord Reed and Snowdrops, they would tell u to be yourself and show your true colours than they will be the judge of that.  

Sagamite:

You basically answered your own question. Seems you know the answers since these were clues I would have given you based on the question of the topic.

Now since you are clued up on the foundations that potentially give you a chance of happiness with a man, let me provide you with the next set of clues that will facilitate this.

Here it is, please listen carefully. I want your full concentration.

Are you listening?

Okay!

Hear me:

Stop fcking choosing arseholes. Make good choices in men you go out with or give a chance.

It is most likely your fault you are ending up with men like these since it is the woman that normally complete the signing that starts a relationship as they are the ones being chased.

If you end up with extreme arseholes like you described, it is probably because you chose arseholes or you made good guys like this based on not providing the foundations.

If bad guys turn you on and you go for bad guys stop moaning when they actually are what they are. Bad!

felifeli:

who wrote "manliness ". I said pen.i.s