xynerise:

@poster. someone told me that u take left-over marijuana smoked by hoodlums on the street. Now I am beginning to believe that person

Mr, Cork:

Pweety4me. madam are u looking for husband?

bookface:

A lady who's friend with a sister whose brother's cousin and Aunty are close to his husaband. . .wtf are you saying? Just go straight to the point already

M M M:

op
pls take it easy 4 d 2nd time and come again,
we re confused

deniyor:

you might want to reword the thread.

Bad idea to involve the sister. It wasn't her choice for them to date. There should be a limit to her involvement.
If the two are not mature to date and handle their probs/issues btw them, they should not date.

What happens when things don't work? The poor sister will be forced to take sides esp as the two are immature already as it is.

BABE!:

OP, pls repeat the question.

Pweety4me:

How does the post not related to the thread?afterall i gave a scenario, these people don't see to understand plain english & lack the ability to understand the relationship between the thread title & contents.

Well like i said they r not in a relationship but getting close, the friend had known the sister prior & sister & brother are sort of close.

It's true you can never know with brother & sisters.

Pweety4me:

Is it a good idea to involve siblings in relationship matters?

Even when you knew one before or through the other?

Like a lady who's friends with a sister & through the sister the friend meets the brother, and the brother has a thing for the friend.

_{It's funny how i can't really apply the same thing for guys, there always seems to be an issue with guy friends & their sisters}

So somewhere along the line the sister's friend & brother become close but not so much in a 'relationship' but a growing friendship, the sister's friend tries not to make complaints to the sister but just has to sometimes as she feels there is no other option, and that's the only way she can get her point across to the guy without being aggravated or engaging in an argument.

What do you guys think?been in this situation before?

xynerise:

@poster. someone told me that u take left-over marijuana smoked by hoodlums on the street. Now I am beginning to believe that person

iice:

Never been in that situation. . .i'm usually always closer to the brother than the sister so really can't ask her for help or even talk about anything to do with the brother. Same thing with my brothers. . .i stay outta their bizness unless the womanoid wants to take advantage or starts rubbish. . . Am with deniyor on this. . .they should handle their ish by themselves if they decided to date themselves.

Hmm ok, but still what if that's the only way?or maybe it isn't if you guys are both mature sha

deniyor:

It is related to the thread. I didn't say it wasn't. Don't take this the wrong way but your initial post is quite ambigious. Thats why I advised you to re-word your initial post. Sentences get too long and confusing on who is being referred to sometimes.

Nekai:

I think it's pointless to put the sibling in the middle of the drama, and it will eventually mess up your relationship with both people.

Ifedisky:

Won't be bad to listen to the sister as there's no relationship yet, if there is she should be left alone, however,for her to be the conduit for unsavoury news is not advisable at all

OYINBOGOJU:

I told him?,

She told her

He told her ?

He told who?

Who Tell Who?

Can you just refrain your question again and again?

OYINBOGOJU:

All these young girls in America,only God knows what they are thinking with their brain,

You Say

I say

Yoruba

Yoruba

Something wey no concern you

Pweety4me i don`t expect this kind rubbish from you.

DO YOU HAVE TO INSULT 190 MOTHER BASED ON YOUR INEFFICIENCIES?