Hi nairalanders, I heard sumtin strange ooo, nd it's not funny cos a gud relationship is about to end, your help is really needed, help save a friend's relationship
They both love demselves so much nd r hoping to get married, they are both virgins, handsome nd beautiful nd apperently, d guy is very faithful, never touched d girl nd buys things 4 her, d girl loves him too but according to him, d girl got offended dt d guy went online to browse thru pornographic sites nd d girl got to know nd was really disappointed in him, he sed he pleaded nd promised to stop but d gel wont listen nd sed she saw it as he cheating on her by getting pleasure 4rm oda women's stuffs, d guy was surprised dt ow on earth could dt mean cheating when he hasn't even see hers not evn 4 once, to cut d long story short, he pleaded nd pleaded,d girl sha 4gave him but stated dt she cant trust him again nd she went ahead nd change her facebook password 4 him, Now! D boy felt bad dt, cant she even appreciate d fact dt he told her d truth nd pleaded 4 4giveness, he felt dejected nd dey've been aving litl litl quarrels like dt, dt he would always come bk begging, he felt d girl was taking him 4 granted nd wants to end d relationship, should he end it or chill a litl 4 her maybe she could come back to her senses, d girl has never had a bf b4 nd shez always feeling herself like d best, was d boy really wrong to av sed d truth, could dt really mean cheating
I no understand the two of dem o, abeg enlighten me o people, tnx y'all

Well she does have the right to be offended that he did not ask her for sex. And the girl is also right that it was a form of cheating. I guess the girl felt if he wanted something like that, he should have asked and I also think the girl wants him to be the one the deflower's her but does not know how to say it and when she saw the indecency, she got jealous

m not really sure o, cos dey both talk about premarital sex as being sinful, U're making sense to me, mur replies pls, nairalanders, dnt just check nd leave, leave a reply, tnx

as i usually say, when someone always wants to fite over something so lil. . . . there is someone new

he shud ask her if she is still interested, if not he shud move on

Yes. The Virgin babe is right. The guy is no longer a virgin. Cheating on someone can happen without even physical contact with another person. Like having phone intimacy with another person who is not your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating. The Virgin babe should forgive the guy if he is truly repentant, but the guy may turn nasty after breaking her hymen as most guys always do.

Tell your friend to hold on, she will forgive and forget, relationships always go through one issue or the other, the earlier you learn to handle situations with maturity the better.

Old story. They would have probably sorted out their issues by now or broken up.

On the thread, I don't think the guy's issue is if he cheated with p.orn.orgra.phy or not. I think its his inability to handle his business and be manly about it. Going back to beg like a fool (everytime and for every fight) is what is killing him. The girl doesn't even respect him any more, hence she can't be with him and will keep looking for excuses to break up with him.