@Aduraseyi

my dear, u hav a point. when u use d word drill, e b lyk say na defence academy we dey. but e b lyk say u neva meet sum colo men. dey'r very ready n willin 2 take all d insults, humiliations n wateva u hav 2 offer jus 4 u 2 giv him a chance. afta much persistence, u'll believe he's 4 real n fall in2 his pit of "love". spend a lil tym 2geda n u'll c his uda syd. n GOD help u 2 survive d aftermath of d way he's goin 2 ditch u.

MEN- horrible
WOMEN- terrible

@lioness

oh baby, u kno say seyi gimme 1hr suspension last nyt cos of xcess coded-yans?!?!?! i bow 2 d guy level oooo!!

4 d glasses, wld u mind if i recommend binoculars? u dont hav 2 pretend cos dis is not toastin. jus a kind gesture wit luv 4rm my heart.

@ IBB ,

I will think about your offer  . I aint frontin o   

am a gal n i think that frontin too much aint necessary.
However, these days guys cud b very callous n heartless, so we hav to guard ourselves!
its good to knw a lil bit about him n hs intentions b4 gettn down to bizness
that aint frontin!

We r only being nija gals due the ways n means of nija guys!
we both knw ourselves! "tit 4 tat''

omo for me she waste my time, well the length of time she take me poss na the same length of time i go Bleep her and then when we are even i dump her

O boy 4real, lower your voice!,, which kin talk be that? anyway sha, sometimes the prize money aint worth the wait, ,

O boy 4real, lower your voice!,, which kin talk be that? anyway sha, sometimes the prize money aint worth the wait,

precisely why the girls wait!

@lioness

2mr, dem go complain say omo boys too dey vex. do u kno how many binocular-makers r disturbin my fone jus cos am waitin 4 an answer 4rm u? dis is jus simple "YES or NO". abi beko?

i dnt think they pretend.
i think we r just being careful, observant n reasonable, one doesnt just jump into the lake of love like dat, incase we drown. we take all necessary precautions first n it usually takes time.
oky.

danyp:

i dnt think they pretend.
i think we r just being careful, observant n reasonable, one doesnt just jump into the lake of love like that, incase we drown. we take all necessary precautions first n it usually takes time.
oky.

WORD!

@IAH

so can u gimme a lil insight on how ur last bfs' swept u off ur feet?

n all d beautiful NL ladyz postin on dis topic shld also share their experience(s) if dey dont mind.

i love y'all!!!!!!

everything is a test because no woman ever wants to feel used.

Actually i have no idea y they do this. Even when they really like u & u can tell. This stuff kinda puts me of coz i dont see the sense in a girl checking u out from a distance & then when u come to say hi she starts acting unfriendly or like she doesnt like u. At that point i'l turn back & never come back, girls really need to make clear what they want. As for not seeming cheap!!?? thats total rubbish. I feel more comfortable with girls that make their intentions clear & not those that b blowing hot & cold its ridiculous

my experience?

well i kept a guy on the hold for mo dan 4 years, n its not like im boasting but i really discovered dat the real test of love is time. n time proved rite, today we r together (altho he is outta de ctry) no matter the distance i kno his lov for me is strong n i even trust him betta now.
Shame to guys wo seem in a hurry , if u r really interested in a lady u wld b much mo patient cos u know how serious ur feelings r but if u r in sm hurry go look 4 them girls wo r in de same hurry as u, them fast girls dat say yes n e time ne were to n e 1.
i got deep respect for all them sistahs who take their time, most women fall inlove with all their heart while only few men do so really we r on the stiff side so we will take it cool.
pls comprende.

you ladies don't get if you like wait for 10yrs the patient dog eats the fatest bone, so i would wait and when i get what i want i set

@papermoon

are you in a relationship now?

to me i think when a lady tells you if she likes you and does not waste your time as a sign of maturity, that means she knows what she wants and old enough to go for it, na only does small one's go dey waste man time

4real, I honestly do not think you r real AT ALL , what do you know about a lady's mind ? If you just want an easy fling I'm sure you know where you need to go to, so u wouldn't really need to CHAAAAAAAAAAAAASE !!!

beyonce1,

welcome to nairaland.

Thanx IBB,  I wouldn't agree with the point that a lady pretends, why can't men be honest for once? according to my past experiences, all the guys who did the chasing proper b/4 I finally gave in, r the ones who still respects me till now and wouldn't even mind setttling down with me if I agree to,  Ladies don't minds these BOYSSSSS,  deep in there mind they know the truth !

well B, seems like you've dated too many of them. is/are there any on board now?

Beyonce, that gurl's got some wit about her. she's been attacking all da posts in here, ,.welcome tho, lol

well @beyonce1 you don't seem to understand, what am saying is that every girl has a price or for this thread should i say have a time limit, all you have to do is wait till that time to get what you want, was a player, and got friends who are, so if you think that delay tactics would stop us, think again , the thing that stops us is when we meet a girl who is well brought up, a girl that takes care of her man, an african queen, not oyinbo rubbish that tells me she can't cook, or wash or take care of the house, no one that is an african in the wrod african, that is the only time i let down my guard

Word

@IBB

Yes

[@lioness

2mr, them go complain say omo boys too dey vex. do u kno how many binocular-makers r disturbin my fone jus because am waitin 4 an answer from u? this is jus simple "YES or NO". abi beko?/quote]

it is one of those things
it is very intresting
for a girls to pretend,tease
there so much fun in it

@ DAMMYGLOW, Thats no fun!

Most guys conclude they r cheap if they are agree fast.

Good things come to those who wait the longer we keep them guys waiting the better it gets