I HAVE SOME OBSERVATIONS I WILL LIKE TO SHARE WITH WOMEN ESPECIALLY MUSLIM SISTERS AND IT WILL GO A LONG WAY TO MAKING YOU A MUCH HAPPIER AND CONTENDED PERSON AND HELP TO GET THE RIGHT SPOUSE INTO YOUR LIFE GOD WILLING BY AVOIDING WHAT OTHER HAVE FAILED TO AVOID. FIRST LETS EXAMINE THE CURRENT STEROTYPE OF RELATIONSHIP ESPECIALLY IN NIGERIA"A MAN SEES A WOMAN HE GOES TO HER FOR FRIENDSHIP SHE TURNS HIM AWAY EITHER GENTLY OR HARSHLY,TO HER SHE IS PLAYING HARD TO GET,TO HIM HE SAW A FRIEND BUT NOW ANGRY FOR BEING TREATED IN SUCH A WAY,NOW HIS INTENTIONS ARE CHANGED DUE TO THE IMMATURITY OF THE GIRLS THOUGHT PATTERN,NOW HE WANTS TO HURT HER BACK,SO HE TELL LIES,BORROWS EXPENSIVE THINGS,GET TO THE GIRLS FRIENDS BRIBE SOME,TRIES TO GET CLOSE TO THOSE THE GIRL LOVES AND WIN THEIR HEART,GRADUALLY THE GIRL NOW START HAVING FEELINGS FOR THE GUY FORGETING THE FIRST TREATMENT SHE GAVE HIM,THEN HE GETS HER NUMBER STARTS FREQUENT CALLING GIVING HER CARD;RECHARGE CARDS AND START TALKING OF HIS INTENTIONS TO MARRY HER,SHE IS NOW HAPPY THAT SHE HAS PLAYED HARD TO GET ENOUGH AND BEGINS TO EXPECT HIS CALLS AND OTHER GOODIES LIKE A TIME TABLE;THEN WHEN THE GUY SENSES THESE HE STOPS,SHE BECOMES WORRIED AND CALLS THE GUY HE TELLS HER HE IS BUSY SHE STARTS FEELING MAYBE ANOTHER GIRL HAS TAKEN OVER SHE BECOMES JEALOUS AND WANTS THE GUYS ATTENTION AND SHE NOW APPEALS TO HIM WHY HAVE YOU BEEN DODGING ME AND THE GUY NOW APOLOGISES AND STILL CONTINUE DODGING HER TILL WHEN THE GIRL WILL NOW ASK WHAT HAVE I DONE WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO TO MAKE YOU LOVE ME BACK;THE GUY WILL NOW SEDUCE HER TO PROOVE HER LOVE BY Being Intimate WITH HIM SHE FALLS FOR IT,HIS MISSION HAS BEEN ACCOMPLISHED HE STARTS TELLING PEOPLE HOW HE Were Intimate WITH HER SOME WICKED ONES EVEN USE PHONE OR OTHER DEVICE TO RECORD THE SEX WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE OTHERS EVEN DRUG A GIRLS DRINK OR FOOD TAKES PICTURE OF HER Unclad BODY,TO THE GIRL SHE IS NOW HAPPY THAT SHE HAS FOUND HUSBAND AND BELIEVING GOD WILL FORGIVE HER FOR HER DEED,BUT PROBLEM STARTS WHEN SHE NOW REALISES THAT IT WAS A USE AND DUMP SCENARIO THAT HAPPENED TO HER WHEN HE TOTALLY AVOIDS HER AND SHE HEARS OF HIS EXPLOITS WITH OTHER GIRLS",SCENARIO LIKE THESE LEADS SOME GIRLS TO COMMIT SUICIDE BECAUSE SHE FEELS SHE HAS LOST HER CHASTITY;PRIDE;RESPECT AND LOVE TO A MONSTER OF A MAN AND TO HER THESE IS UNBEARABLE AND SHE KILLS HERSELF OR SHE NOW TURNS WILD AND START BREAKING OTHER GUYS HEARTS IN SEARCH OF TRUE LOVE OR IN SOME INSTANCES JUST TURNS TO PROSTITUTION SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE PLAYED HARD TO GET TO A GUY THAT WANTED TO BE JUST FRIENDS LEARN FROM THESE AND RESEARCH AND STUDY A GUY AND IF NECESSARY MAKE THE FIRST MOVE BUT KNOW THAT SEX IS HARAM AND NOT A TEST OF TRUE LOVE;THE ONE THAT TRULLY LOVES YOU AND FEARS ALLAH WILL WAIT TILL AFTER MARRIAGE.KNOW ALSO THAT TO GET THE MAN OR WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS YOU TOO MUST IMPROVE ON YOURSELF CHARACTER WISE AND IN ALL OTHER AREARS AND PRAY AND TRUST IN ALLAH.MAY ALLAH GUIDE US YO THE RIGHT PATH.i am single and still searching to know me better or get any personal questions for me you can chat with me if u are on 2go my ACCOUNT user name is sholaacn.Thanks massalam.

Bros. I was enjoying your post, until you turned it to an advert for yourself (nothing wrong with that though if your intentions are noble). I have seen 3 threads created on virtually the same issue. Why don't we all meet one one thread and sticky it. I propose this one https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-711214.0.html to be the preferred relationship analysis thread.