not another low self esteem user

care to explain what's biting your butt about my comment?

when you open your legs everywhere in the name of s.exual freedom, is it your booty call who will carry the pregnancy or have the abortion (whichever one applies to you)?

oversabi i.diot.

quick to type but slow to think.

tpia@:

easy to have s.ex, not easy to raise a kid.

abi o. I rarely get involved with topics like this because my only response to the op is simple - big id[i]i[/i]ot.

Davidlyan God will judge you,why do you talk like you are a fool?you could see people had been advising the girl and not make her feel rejected but in your own case its different,why do you visit the thread when you said you dnt like to post on topics like this.

uplawal:

Davidlyan God will judge you,why do you talk like you are a fool?you could see people had been advising the girl and not make her feel rejected but in your own case its different,why do you visit the thread when you said you dnt like to post on topics like this.

i talk like a fool how? Would you want your own daughter falling into such a blatantly obvious trap? You meet a man next week, open your legs, get pregnant then come here with sob stories? Moral decadence is why our civilization is going down so rapidly . . . making fools who should know better not feel rejected? Was i the one who told her to spread her legs to someone she barely knew?

the girl herself has explained the circumstances of her pregnancy.

i dont think anyone denies the fact that while it takes two to c.opulate, only one person will bear the physical result of the c.opulation?

the scale isnt evenly balanced, sorry.

we'd all like it otherwise but it just doesnt happen that way.

women have the greater burden here, whether anyone wants to accept that or not. Regardless if both parties are irresponsible, its easier for the man to skip away than it is for the woman, even if she aborts the baby.

since a child is involved now, then imo its more important for the woman to face the baby and try to raise him/her well, than to start giving herself extra wahala.

unless she just feels she has to.

Wow what a story but,


Are you sure he is from the UK? I mean how can you be sure he wasn't just trying to trick you in getting into his bed,

Also even if he was in the UK how will you trace him especially if he isn't legal?

I do hope you find him,

tejuoso1:
hi my name is teju oso. it happens that a senior girl  in the hostel sent me outta the hostel to cut all the grass outside till dawn because i was extremely rude, so i sat down and i saw this person, damn he was so fine,  in one cut, i was at his crib,  on and on we go. he said to me dt he's on holiday from london and that his name is olatokunbo fasheyiton. few month later the aftermath of this hideous act  is my baby oladokun oso(my surname). now i'm in the UK does anyone here thinks it's a good idea if i trace the father of my baby? 'cos people says there is much probability that i'll find him or is it going to be a whole lot of trouble. most time when male peolple come over my place, my baby clings to them and you can read expression in his face like, he knows he should have a father or when visitors come with their kids, he gets moody with me by stayin away and doesn't eat. now everything seems mean to me 'cos it's hard raising him.

see what lust has caused you...take heart.

tejuoso1:
hi my name is teju oso. it happens that a senior girl  in the hostel sent me outta the hostel to cut all the grass outside till dawn because i was extremely rude, so i sat down and i saw this person, damn he was so fine,  in one cut, i was at his crib,  on and on we go. he said to me dt he's on holiday from london and that his name is olatokunbo fasheyiton. few month later the aftermath of this hideous act  is my baby oladokun oso(my surname). now i'm in the UK does anyone here thinks it's a good idea if i trace the father of my baby? 'cos people says there is much probability that i'll find him or is it going to be a whole lot of trouble. most time when male peolple come over my place, my baby clings to them and you can read expression in his face like, he knows he should have a father or when visitors come with their kids, he gets moody with me by stayin away and doesn't eat. now everything seems mean to me 'cos it's hard raising him.

Sis you contact him yet?