I am in luv with a lady from Tanzania . When I knew her she told me she is not having a good relationship with her boyfriend . And they were at point of leaving each other . She told me to give her time to finish with her but I said we can still be together . After few months of being together , she told me the guy is back from her journey so we have to keep it quiet . But after few days , she called me and asked me to talk to her boyfriend . The guy made me realised that they have been together for many years and the lady confirmed it as well . She later told me that she has been living together with this guy for like 9 years .

We meet sometimes but not in her house but always in hotels . We always hide to meet each other which I bear the cost most of the time . She do tell me sometimes that she is just managing me and that she is still in search for a rich man . After a while she told me she is pregnant for her boyfriend and still want that we should be together which I agreed .

Presently she is living with this guy and gave me alot of conditions . I am not allowed to call her only when want to hear my voice she will call me . Please what can I do .

Dear Delson
Are you really in love with her? first question
Do you think you have a chance with this "relationship"
Have you ever think about seeing another woman?

I'm asking you these questions because that's the kind of questions you have to ask yourself to make a decision, apparently this young lady has a long relationship with another guy and is pregnant from him, what's your place? in this duet, you have the last word to say but trust me don't enter in a complicated relation in which you'll probably suffer, love is about concessions not conditions

LOL Sijo

op
re u a FOOOOL

op, look at yourself.
if u cant get a full view, take a mirror and take a gooooooood look at yourself!!
dont u think you''re bigger and better than being a "by-the-side" boyfriend for someone else's chick. 
if you're still pondering, take a good look at urself again, and if u r still considering taking the girls condition, then u seriously need to see a shrink. and i'm not even kidding here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   

is this what people call blind love or being madly in love or what!
why do people act this way when the danger sign is splashed b4 their eyes?

Hold-on did I just read that she is pregnant? The OP is seriously in trouble. The girl don wash toto put for im food

LMAO@the title.

When flavor nabania sang that song, he did not imply u shud fall in love wiv ashawo ooooo

delson2206:

I am in luv with a lady from Tanzania . When I knew her she told me she is not having a good relationship with her boyfriend . And they were at point of leaving each other . She told me to give her time to finish with her but I said we can still be together . After few months of being together , she told me the guy is back from her journey so we have to keep it quiet . But after few days , she called me and asked me to talk to her boyfriend . The guy made me realised that they have been together for many years and the lady confirmed it as well . She later told me that she has been living together with this guy for like 9 years .

We meet sometimes but not in her house but always in hotels . We always hide to meet each other which I bear the cost most of the time . She do tell me sometimes that she is just managing me and that she is still in search for a rich man . After a while she told me she is pregnant for her boyfriend and still want that we should be together which I agreed .

Presently she is living with this guy and gave me alot of conditions . I am not allowed to call her only when want to hear my voice she will call me . Please what can I do .

Lmao and you think you have a future with this girl, run now and dont look back

^^^
is he going to turn into a pillar of salt if he does?

^^^^ no but he will be heart broken because now he is just insanely blind

The GRIM REAPER

Seriously Delson you need to see a doctor or your pastor or spiritual adviser. You need deliverance from the shackles of this woman If you believe in it.

Let me break it down for you:

You're dating a 'girl' who has been playing wife to another man for 9years (in naija liv ing together for 9years is marriage in layman's term)

She gave you conditions similar to that of a married woman in adulterous relationship;

She's pregnant for her boyfriend (abi na husband self)

You are on NL asking peeps for advice

Oya tell me you don't need to see a doctor?

Goldieluks:

who can cure this sort of blindness? karma?^^

probably but a hot slap in the face will be faster in bringing him back to reality

Anyway , Thanks for all ur advices . And I appreciate u all . The story I wrote here is just a tip of what has happened . I am sure many of u here will shoot me if I write it all . I am in love with this lady which only few people can understand .