I've never heard my girlfriend say "I love you", even on phone.  Does she love me? she now let me know
that this three world "I LOVE U" is not for Africa because love doest exist in Africa

could be she does could be she dsnt cuz not all gals like 2 say 2 a guy ''i love u''
some prefer not 2 say it other's 2 prefer 2 say it but from da way she behaves towards u do u think she loves u?i mean u can tell when a gal loves u right?

I had a bad experience with a girl like that. used to clain she wasnt used to it, they dont say it to us at home, blah blah. Have you ever told her to say it to your eyes, and she refused or faked it? If so, runaway, yo. If she's sparing with her emotions, guess what she'll be even more sparing with? Yes, u got that right!

*rolls eyes*

*^{joins queenzy in rolling eyes}* maybe she does but she just doesn't like to speak it out,where i live there is a concept that if you tell a guy i love you he'll become to proud and mistreat you,maybe she also has the same concept

I think u are right

She doesn't say it because she wants to know if you're for real. If you really do love her.
People fling words about too much these days anyway.
If she does ever say it, you'll know that she means it.

Thats true

WTF not even once? Why is she ur G/F? she think love is one-sided or what? cheekee, lunafish, queenzy i dont support u on this.

huh

_{Gawd, my body is punishing me i can't see the screen well. I need to sleep. Gnite y'all}

She should say it once in awhile. Why should u be testing if the guy is real? If you can't say it, at leask make him feel it, and not doubt you . I think its unfair to keep mum about how u feel about your boyfriend. Heis your boyfriend not soem a$$h0l3 you just "like", for God's sake!

Point blank, if she cant say it, she probably doesnt love u.

if she loves u, i mean if she really loves u, she'd do anything to prove it, saying 'i love u' is one of the easiest ways so it shouldnt be hard for her to say.

my advise is, take her words and actions with a pinch of salt cos the mind of a woman, u dont wanna know what its like.

Point blank, if she can't say it, she probably doesnt love u.

@whitelexi, trust me he cant judge her by not saying " I love you" what really matters is how she behaves, how caring she is ad all that. I can say I love u to a girl 15 times/second when i dont love her, saying that is the easiest thing that can be faked in a relationship.

i am not against it tho, at least i like to hear that as many times as possible from my partner , cuz it feels good.

Does she show it though , i think that should matter most,

_{Try this put cash in her hand like 20k n see the words roll out lol}

If your girlfriend loves you, I think you'll know irrespective of wether or not she tells you.

I think, if you tell your girl that you love and she is unable to come back with a rejoinder telling you she loves u, then she probably doesn't love you. If the rejoinder "I love you too comes", it still doesn't mean she loves you, but looking at her eyes. The easiest way to find out is to ask her. You'll get your answer from the reply+tone+expression+body language and these four are not mutually exclusive.

Do you tell her "I love you" or you only want her to be saying it and not the other way round. Be open about it and let us know.

Thats true
U saying the truth

Akara, welcome to Nairaland. Soon you'll be visiting here everyday

^{your name makes me hungry}

LMFAO

lunafish:

She doesn't say it because she wants to know if you're for real. If you really do love her.
People fling words about too much these days anyway.
If she does ever say it, you'll know that she means it.

I seriously agree with you on this one. i'm kinda like ur girl in this case cos i don't say it, marra of fact, i ain't never said it to no guy in my 20 years of existence(n hell no! i'm not selfish or wtv), but if i don't feel it for him, i won't lie to him. that's my opinion.

@ Scorpio QUEENZY dont you girls tell your boo or bf that you love him , she as to be able to say it once or she lets you know that she is not ready to tell or she is not sure simple

Do you guys realize that noone's asked him how long he's been with his girl? Do you also realize that he said "not even on the phone", ? That would lead me to the next question: Have you actually 'met' this girlfriend, or is this some sort of 'long-distance', internet kinda love? Let's go from there.

I dont say i dont say the word to my BF but what i am sayingis ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!

My question to cherish is how ofen do you tell her that you love her?Cos am sure if you do tell her quite often ,she will respond and from there BINGO

If her orientation is from the hinterland, then you shouldn't judge her by a verbal expression of her love. So you know, "I love you" is still not the predominant expression of affection in my part of the Nigeria Jungle.

she has to say it oh. and mean it self

@cherish! ur girlfriend doesnt say it cos, trust me, she really doesnt love you! You will remember the game master told u so

Idekeson:

If her orientation is from the hinterland, then you shouldn't judge her by a verbal expression of her love. So you know, "I love you" is still not the predominant expression of affection in my part of the Nigeria Jungle.

true talk but if the guy says i love you,she either replys him and mean it or say it and not mean it but not to say anything at all is going to keep the guy wondering, and if she dont mean it she should let him know that she not yet in love, so he knows were things stand

(to the original poster)

and who told you love occurs at first sight?

Maybe she doesn't feel that way yet.