Not all Nigerian men are mean.
My brother is happily married to an Asian woman and they have lovely children. And she is still in love with him.

Family upbringing matters in the character development of people.

People from broken homes have broken personalities.

Any man, no matter the race, will do his best for a woman who also does her best to love him.

When a man treats a woman badly, find out first what she did to provoke him.

Women like crying wolf first when in most cases they started the madness first.

I have quarrelled with an ex before and she burnt my picture, but later we reconciled. So if she could burn my picture in anger, then she would set my home ablaze one day. Eventually we parted ways.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

EuroMeko:

There are African Women also in America and I am sure everywhere that have killed their significant others.

I can post up some liks but it will serve no editorial purpose since I am sure you know this fact.

It seems feminism is rearing her ugly head in Nigeria now which is a shame.

I love my Nigerian Sisters, the way to get the Nigerian Brothers attention is not by ridiculing them, even when one person makes a mistake. Respect begets respect.

You Ladies should ask your Black American Sisters in America why they are complaining that successful Black American Men are not dating them. I've lived in the US for almost 30 years, and I've dated only 1 Black American one Nigerian. I am more comfortable with other races. Now that I am coming around to start dating Nigerians I hope that this draconian and non self serving ideologies that is shown by couple of females on this thread of cutting down the African Men is not rampant.

But then I want to marry someone from a village, say Igbo Ora so that we can have twins. Lol

Uhmm. You said you lived in America for 30 years and you hear Black American women complained about why black men will not date them?

Let's keep it real. The Black American women that are complaining about why Black men PERIOD does not gravitate toward them are WELL TO DO. Black men in America both AFRICAN and Black American have an issue with Black American/African women making more money and holding top executive positions.

Black American/African women are graduating and have graduated from universities in record numbers and those women put EDUCATION before families THAT's why Black men are dating other race of women.

EuroMeko:

You Ladies should ask your Black American Sisters in America why they are complaining that successful Black American Men are not dating them. I've lived in the US for almost 30 years, and I've dated only 1 Black American one Nigerian. I am more comfortable with other races. Now that I am coming around to start dating Nigerians I hope that this draconian and non self serving ideologies that is shown by couple of females on this thread of cutting down the African Men is not rampant.

Why do you want to date Nigerian if you are more comfortable with other races?
I think you should stay with what you are comfortable with.

how old are you by the way? you said you've been in the US for almost 30 yrs. then you must be at least in your 40s or 50s.

Jenifa_:


Why do you want to date Nigerian if you are more comfortable with other races?
I think you should stay with what you are comfortable with.

how old are you by the way? you said you've been in the US for almost 30 yrs. then you must be at least in your 40s or 50s.

I was going to ask the same thing and plus he said he dated ONE BLACK AMERICAN AND ONE AFRICAN WOMAN as if they represent the whole group.

He sound like the man who had a bad experience with a sister and decided the grass is greener on the other side.

Justification is a mofo.

Mrs.Chima:

Uhmm.  You said you lived in America for 30 years and you hear Black American women complained about why black men will not date them?  

Let's keep it real.  The Black American women that are complaining about why Black men PERIOD does not gravitate toward them are WELL TO DO.  Black men in America both AFRICAN and Black American have an issue with Black American/African women making more money and holding top executive positions.  

Black American/African women are graduating and have graduated from universities in record numbers and those women put EDUCATION before families THAT's why Black men are dating other race of women.  

Actually what I typed was (almost 30 years).

None of the people in my social circle are intimidated by a Black Woman of any social or economical standing. The reasons we chose not to date Nigerian or African American Women are diverse. We are all educated and doing well for ourselves so that is a non issue.

But I feel that we're going off on a tangent.

Do we agree that domestic violence is not unique to Nigerian Men and towards Asian Women?

Mrs.Chima:

I was going to ask the same thing and plus he said he dated ONE BLACK AMERICAN AND ONE AFRICAN WOMAN as if they represent the whole group.

He sound like the man who had a bad experience with a sister and decided the grass is greener on the other side.

Justification is a mofo.

my guess is that he is old, impotent and broke.

Jenifa_:


Why do you want to date Nigerian if you are more comfortable with other races?
I think you should stay with what you are comfortable with.

how old are you by the way? you said you've been in the US for almost 30 yrs. then you must be at least in your 40s or 50s.

Because I want to and I can.

My age is irrelevant to this topic - I fail to see the editorial value, and I have conducted myself in a matured manner on this thread.

Mrs.Chima:

I was going to ask the same thing and plus he said he dated ONE BLACK AMERICAN AND ONE AFRICAN WOMAN as if they represent the whole group.

He sound like the man who had a bad experience with a sister and decided the grass is greener on the other side.

Justification is a mofo.

You should have asked and I would have answer, But as I can see you prefer making wild assumptions.

Very well then.

Jenifa_:

my guess is that he is old, impotent and broke.

Hello Jenifa, I like your style, you made a grand entrance.

Sorry to have gotten my Sisters oars out of the water on this fine weekend day.

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Re: Why Do (some) Nigerians Abroad Despise Black Americans?
« #17 on: August 11, 2011, 12:11 AM »
Prejudice is probably the correct term to describe it. not resentment or hatred. Africans are not resentful of African Americans. We are prejudiced against them. We are also prejudiced against  hispanics, asians, whites or African Americans for totally different reasons.
and like I said, it's also vice versa. all those cultures including AAs have prejudices against us too.

to quote, use the quote button above the text box when you are making a post. if you can see the smiley buttons, you should be able to see it.

Wow, just wow. Hopefully the educated foreigners on this forum will realize that very very few people share your retarded sentiments.

EuroMeko:



Hello Jenifa, I like your style, you made a grand entrance.

thanks I try 

EuroMeko:

Because I want to and I can.

I hope you have a lot of money in your pocket. otherwise, goodluck with that because naija women aren't stup[size=1pt].[/size]id

Jenifa_:


thanks I try 


I hope you have a lot of money in your pocket. otherwise, goodluck with that because naija women aren't stup[size=1pt].[/size]id

Oh wait, I thought I'm supposed to be broke?

What exactly do I need money for?

Sorry but I am not into gold diggers.

that's why I said goodluck with that. you will need a lot of luck if you don't have money.
for a person of your old age.

Jenifa_:

that's why I said goodluck with that. you will need a lot of luck if you don't have money.
for a person of your old age.

So you've managed to establish that I am old - interesting.

So basically what you are saying is that Nigerian Women are gold diggers and will not entertain a Man, assuming he is old, unless he has money.

Nigerian Women are you on board with this description from your Sister Jenifa?

EuroMeko:

You should have asked and I would have answer, But as I can see you prefer making wild assumptions.

Very well then.

Jenifa asked did you answer?

EuroMeko:

Actually what I typed was (almost 30 years).

None of the people in my social circle are intimidated by a Black Woman of any social or economical standing. The reasons we chose not to date Nigerian or African American Women are diverse. We are all educated and doing well for ourselves so that is a non issue.

But I feel that we're going off on a tangent.

Do we agree that domestic violence is not unique to Nigerian Men and towards Asian Women?

None of the culos aren't intimidated by a black woman in your group but have reasons why you guys chose not to date Nigerian and Black American women.  Hmm. 

It's all good. Nothing being missed.

Jenifa_ asked what exactly?

I don't like to assume but I will assume that you meant my age.

If so, I did answer her and here is a quote:

My age is irrelevant to this topic - I fail to see the editorial value, and I have conducted myself in a matured manner on this thread.

I'm not sure the relevance of age to an online debate.

where do u get the term "gold digger" from anyway. and "sister"
i'm starting to believe you are not nigerian at all. but an african american.

Jenifa_:

where do u get the term "gold digger" from anyway. and "sister"
i'm starting to believe you are not nigerian at all. but an african american.

He is not Black American. "Educated" Black American men do not speak like that.

Mrs.Chima:

None of the culos aren't intimidated by a black woman in your group but have reasons why you guys chose not to date Nigerian and Black American women.  Hmm. 

It's all good.  Nothing being missed.  

Ah, so my circle of friends are all "culos" because we chose not to date/marry Black American / Nigerian Women. I see.

I would say okay, Puta, but I cannot insult a Woman no matter how lowly she carries herself.

Mrs.Chima:

He is not Black American.  "Educated" Black American men do not speak like that. 

lol.
what a fool he is.

Jenifa_:

where do u get the term "gold digger" from anyway. and "sister"
i'm starting to believe you are not nigerian at all. but an african american.


rotfl.
your agemates are aristos in lagos. those r d folks u will be competing with.
i'm just trying to help you out here.

Are you capable of asking a direct question?

Thanks for the unsolicited help  

EuroMeko:

Ah, so my circle of friends are all "culos" because we chose not to date/marry Black American / Nigerian Women. I see.

I would say okay, Puta, but I cannot insult a Woman no matter how lowly she carries herself.

Your circle of friends are culos because I chose to call them that.  I wouldn't care if you did or didn't and don't take CHAT serious.  I suggest you try it.  

Trust me. Mrs. Chima care less about who you sucking or not Remember that.

As for lowly, you beat me to the punch in that department.  

Jenifa_:

lol.
what a fool he is.

Ah, a fool  

Very uplifting, thanks.

EuroMeko:

Are you capable of asking a direct question?

Thanks for the unsolicited help  

I will ask a question if i deem fit.
you're welcome.

so why did your oyibo ex-wife leave you?

Mrs.Chima:

Your circle of friends are culos because I chose to call them that.  I wouldn't care if you did or didn't and  don't take CHAT serious.  I suggest you try it.  

As for lowly, you beat me to the punch in that department.  

What gave you any hint that I am taking this any serious at all? Come on, don't start getting all self important on me Chica.

Mrs.Chima:

He is not Black American.  "Educated" Black American men do not speak like that.  

Ah, new uplifting word, I am now "uneducated"  

EuroMeko:

What gave you any hint that I am taking this any serious at all? Come on, don't start getting all self important on me Chica.

Ah, new uplifting word, I am now "uneducated"  

You said it.

Don't take chat serious.

Jenifa_:

I will ask a question if i deem fit.
you're welcome.

so why did your oyibo ex-wife leave you?

He has an ex wife? That's not the Nigerian way!

Jenifa_:

I will ask a question if i deem fit.
you're welcome.

so why did your oyibo ex-wife leave you?

Excellent, I'm glad we're finally making some headway here.

I leave in a country where over 50% of marriages ends in divorce. That's just a fact of life and not a shameful thing, if that's your intention  

Mrs.Chima:

He has an ex wife? That's not the Nigerian way!

Of course not, the Nigerian was is to beat them up like Pinata and run away like the OP stated right?

Mrs.Chima:

He has an ex wife?    That's not the Nigerian way!  

it's so obvious. the guy is in his 50s. all of a sudden he is now interested in Nigerian women. after he explicitly said he chose not to date nigerian women.
he is desperate!   his oyinbo left him

he wants to eat his cake and have it.

EuroMeko:

Excellent, I'm glad we're finally making some headway here.

I leave in a country where over 50% of marriages ends in divorce. That's just a fact of life and not a shameful thing, if that's your intention  

So if you wasn't in America and in Nigeria you think you would still be married?  

LMAO@I lived in a country where divorce is promoted so I went along with trend.

EuroMeko:

I leave in a country where over 50% of marriages ends in divorce. That's just a fact of life and not a shameful thing, if that's your intention  

no kidding.  
what a pathetic old fool.

goodluck trying to gain the respect of a nigerian woman.

Mrs.Chima:

LMAO@I lived in a country where divorce is promoted so I went along with trend.

lol. I thought I was the only one who found that comment ridiculous.