my very good friend always complain to me how her girl cheats on him.but i personally knw how much the girl loves him.pls house can one loves you dearly and stil cheat on you?

how can you cheat on someone repeatedly and still claim u love that person? ur friend shud ask her the reason behind it, maybe its something she cannot control, once or twice is forgiveable, but repeatedly? i wont believe she really loves the guy except its somethng innate that she cant control,

El Guapo:

Yeah one can and love and still cheat!!

Cheating aint a deal of conscience believe me, it comes and Go!

hmm, i heard something today, u must ve a strong heart/conscience that is immune to emotions

[size=13pt]^{Well , it depends on how u build the relationship. . .} [/size]

190smh:

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No.

True love has zero tolerance for cheating.

Only a slut driven by lust cheats.

Two things cause people to cheat. IMMATURITY and INSECURITY.

The cheat is either immature or insecure.

op
sorry every1 cheat >

[size=13pt]^{sorry everyone does not cheat my dear-- didn't expect this kind of comment from u} [/size]

M M M:

op
sorry every1 cheat >

Did she cheat on you through out the relationship? If she is sorry and you are sure she loves you and you have any feelings for her, you should forgive her and be with her.

What was the girl's reasons for her actions?!

No, you can not cheat on one you claim to love,

N0, I can't cheat on d one I claim to love, but then, we all have different definitions of love

*remembers page 1 of mario puzo's fools die* smh

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]^{sorry everyone does not cheat my dear-- didn't expect this kind of comment from u} [/size]

so who does not cheat here?

Very funny thread.

it is very possible and happens quite often. we are but human and our biggest weaknesses all stem from temptation. it may cloud our judgment but it doesnt revoke our ability. in other words we know right from wrong but we dont always do right.

Yes na if. No sabi fuçk wat do u expect

What does love have to do with cheating?

not posible, if she really loved her, there would be nothing like cheatinngg

it is very possible especially with People who can not control their feelings.

Nairalandi, no one knows actually because we're not in the Head of each person, but I think yes some people can love while they cheat, don't ask me where's the logic bt it happens

Most guys can. Don't know how they can sleep with numerous babes while they are only in love with 1. I guess they are good managers of emotions.

I can't cheat on a guy I love. Its only love that can make me enjoy the cuddling anyways. Besides I can't even date or marry a guy that is not sexy enough for me or arouse me. There is no I go manage or "its better than being alone" but the whole package.

No, you cant love and cheat.

Honerico yes you can

Nayah:

Honerico yes you can

No cutie, that's no love, that's LUST!

Nayah:

Honerico yes you can

No cutie, that's no love, that's LUST!

Honerico sometimes you're confuse between love and sex ual attraction  

Since I'm not a lady, I'd only speak from a guy's point of view.

Maybe what we men call love isn't really love. Maybe it is strong-likeness. This is why it is possible to get intimate pleasures from elsewhere while we spend homely and heartily comfort with our so called love. Cheating to a guy is majorly sex. If the possibility of sex is removed from this world, the word cheat would be removed from the dictionary.

So, to him, he's in love with his wife, fiancee or girlfriend while he can get cheap sex from that LASU girl that is always requesting for recharge cards.
They are just two separate things to him. With his wife, he can share his savings, future plans, dreams, kids, prayers, home, business and even his heart unlike the other temporary girl outside.

But then, my belief is; if he is truly in love (according to the actual context of falling in love), it would be impossible for him to cheat. The true love for his woman would be too much/strong on him to be sexually attracted to someone else. By some strange means, you are just satisfied with whatever you get from her.

And yes it is possible and I also pray I find one.

Nayah:

Honerico sometimes you're confuse between love and sex ual attraction  

What are you trying to say?

You can differentiate between love and lust by what and how you think about the person.

If the thinking is always about her azz, lips, eyes, nails, booty e.t.c or his physical appearance, cars, money, arms, dyk e.t.c, then its lust

But if it's mostly about her attitude, behavior, moral values, how she talks, her communication skills, mostly non-visual attributes, then you're likely to say you're in Love.