Avanto.

the point remain,stop deceiving yourself.your father forget to tell you that after achieved your set objective regarding life,you must crown it with happy home.But ,have in mind that you cant see 100% perfection in man.you can build a man to suit your taste.pls,rethink

u got a british passport, u have a great house, and a great career . . . and u r broadcasting this on a nigerian forum.

OP, are u into 4 1 9? 

Or don't you know that *Boys are not smiling".

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A 40 years old female Yoruba banker eventually got married.

May I advise older singles not to be desperate, except marriage is your life insurance.

There is a husband in every single man and there is a wife in every single woman. Without being nuanced, I mean There is a man for every woman and there is a woman for every man no matter your age, except you don't want to marry. For those of you who claim to be Christian, remember that Rachel waited for 14 years to marry Jacob.

I do really feel sorry for many humans, because your lack of both foresight and insight have  made you to rush into wrong marriages by your desperation or to impress your peers.

"All my mates are married" or "My mates are getting married" is a childish and foolish reason to marry. Premature marriages are the causes of many dysfunctional families with so many liabilities.

PLEASE, DON'T LET ANY SO CALLED PASTOR OR REVEREND LIE TO YOU.
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE SPIRIT OF LATE MARRIAGE.

It is the false doctrine of opportunists using churches and false doctrines to target and lure single women and men to join their congregations.

Jacob was 47 when he married Leah and waited for another 7 years to marry Rachel when he was 54 and no pastor or prophet said Jacob was possessed or troubled by the Spirit of Late Marriage.

Three things determine or delay marriage, Physical/Social Maturity, Psychological Stability and Financial Security.

Whenever YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE, YOU WILL SURELY FIND SOMEONE YOU CAN MARRY.

But if Sister Janet wants Brother John, he may not want her. And if Sister Yemisi wants Brother Nduka, TRIBALISM may interrupt it. Tribalism, Religion and Economy have delayed marriage for millions of Nigerians. This is the truth. The facts are there.

lindabon, i second u jare, i smell overcooked lie

Oh so sorry about that, she might be right. though it all God guidance when looking out for a wife or a husband,for those that are happily married a big congrate o, it not easy . most especially when you are in you late time in life

Hi,
It is a fake tread, your writting gives you away. You sound like a man in his 30s, definitely not a woman who's been surrounded by white people all her life.
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tpia@:
sounds fishy.

how can someone say they couldnt find a mate in 18 years, when you're surrounded by people.

were you in jail?

I gotta admit, you do have your moments.

tpia@:
sounds fishy.

how can someone say they couldnt find a mate in 18 years, when you're surrounded by people.

were you in jail?

hahahhahahahahahhahahaha. cud nt help lavin @ dat.

toba: Poster in my own case its kinda weird. my cousin thats
older than me with 3 yrs is still single, my elder bro 2yrs old is still
single. here since we are guys no one bloody care. again we are
enjoying the bachelors life

u pipu r guyz so shut up. weneva u'r ready u wil find u wives bt she...she's getin past child bearing age!

This particular thread could be fake,but I have seen several cases like this,some are even more than 40.they are very many in Abuja and in the east where bride price is very high.

Pweety4me: @OP Plse don't mind me ok.


Seriously tho that's a pretty long time, maybe marriage might not be
meant for you, cause the reality of it is that you are OLD and in this
day and age you won't find men who are single that are around your age
who are not married, been married or had kids even kids have kids now.


So you might want to seek elsewhere, or think of alternatives.

I mean is marriage what you really want tho?

she wouldn't be lamenting like she is in this thread of herz if she doesn't desire marriage na.

any updates?

there are many nigerian bachelors, even on nl [still saw one who posted his photo yet again yesterday on a thread he opened], who have so far, refused to marry.

Adebisi33: I really don't know what to do. I've just turned 40 and I'm desperate to settle down and start a family of my own.

I'm attractive, I have a masters degree, my own house, and a great career but I can't find a nice man. I don't go to clubs and bars, and only meet white men at work, and I don't find them attractive at all.

My aunt suggested that I go to Nigeria to find a husband. She says there are a lot of men who would love to get a British Passport (I was born in England). I don't want to do this, because I don't think that's a good basis for starting a relationship.

A lot of friends have suggested that I'm too fussy, but my father says that a woman should marry a man who is equal or better than her.

All I am looking for is a man who is single, intelligent, honest and hardworking. I worry that these kinds of men are already married, or if they are single, they want to settle down with younger women.

In case you're wondering why I didn't get married before, I've been looking for a relationship since I was 22, but no black men that I met who met my criteria (single, intelligent, honest and hardworking) were interested in me. They all seemed to be taken.

What should I do?

Thanks

my name is anees can you contect me anees.azeem22@gmail.com

i am waiting

Adebisi33: I really don't know what to do.  I've just turned 40 and I'm desperate to settle down and start a family of my own.

I'm attractive, I have a masters degree, my own house, and a great career but I can't find a nice man.  I don't go to clubs and bars, and only meet white men at work, and I don't find them attractive at all. 

My aunt suggested that I go to Nigeria to find a husband. She says there are a lot of men who would love to get a British Passport (I was born in England).  I don't want to do this, because I don't think that's a good basis for starting a relationship.

A lot of friends have suggested that I'm too fussy, but my father says that a woman should marry a man who is equal or better than her. 

All I am looking for is a man who is single, intelligent, honest and hardworking.  I worry that these kinds of men are already married, or if they are single, they want to settle down with younger women.

In case you're wondering why I didn't get married before, I've been looking for a relationship since I was 22, but no black men that I met who met my criteria (single, intelligent, honest and hardworking) were interested in me.  They all seemed to be taken.

What should I do?

Thanks

you can still find love