D-sense:

OP.

Life goes around and advances but your brain keeps digging the floor like a pig,looking for what to eat.
Be sane and sound and sit yourself down for a consultation before even listen to some of your collegues comments  on this forum.

Why should you be the one to visit the guy?
Why can't he be the one to visit?
Your still not sure of his real identity but what he tells you, right?
You dating a Nigerian guy for God sake who you have not met in person and u still keen on being the first to visit him?
Don't u presume the guy might be into a bad biz and could easily implicate u pending your present?

Thanks to Mrs Chima she had the truth breathed out!!!!!!

corona46:

@ kistehsia

I am in an interracial relationship with an Nigerian Guy, but we both live in Germany. I am 48 and he is 2 years younger.

After I agreed to get that far, I started to get every kind of information about his country. I watched a lot of documentation and I was so surprised about the Nigerian people. It is great. I wish the the Germans would take over some of their great attitudes.
Really appreciating.

But I am also careful and I still make my cross checks (he knows that). On the other hand I have never met a guy who is that sensitive, caring, hard-working and very intelligent. I have never had a dull moment so far.

Good luck for you, but be careful

corona46:

@ kistehsia

I am in an interracial relationship with an Nigerian Guy, but we both live in Germany. I am 48 and he is 2 years younger.

After I agreed to get that far, I started to get every kind of information about his country. I watched a lot of documentation and I was so surprised about the Nigerian people. It is great. I wish the the Germans would take over some of their great attitudes.
Really appreciating.

You said the same thing most people on here have said.   Thanks for being honest and not telling her what she wants to hear but rather needs to hear unlike some chatters on here.

But I am also careful and I still make my cross checks (he knows that). On the other hand I have never met a guy who is that sensitive, caring, hard-working and very intelligent. I have never had a dull moment so far.

Good luck for you, but be careful

Kasmire:

If both of u luv each other,then go ahead of the weding

Mrs.Chima:

Oh Lawd!  They will attack you Dsense!  

I wonder what they will say new.  

How you be suga?  

D-sense:

Been great Sweetie,miss u wella , Let's have some intercontinental sex nau

The truth must be said all the time,regardless of some douchebags around concealing the clue merely bcs they re doing the same Damn and bad act, and who fcking care If Ma comment gets on em azzes?

kistehsia:

@Akan

Please pardon me for this question, but what do you mean by 419? Thank you in advance!

kistehsia

Akan:

kistehsia

As an Akwa Ibomite myself i say u have chosen well. He will treat you with utmost respect and cherish the ground u walk on as we Akwa Ibomites do our women. Y[b]ou wont have to worry about any 419 or odu which is synonymous among other ethnic grps in naija[/b]. good luck

Phrankve1:

dis Mrs chima, na wa oooo, na your type dey dey call akata woman,

Yes you are allowed to say your mind on issues like this when it comes to a communal forum, but to me i think you should be careful of the kind of words you throw out when saying your mind,cos some words can hurt more than a sharp knife in the chest,

@Poster just be careful,i have seen some signs that indicates he might be for real and other signs saying otherwise, all the best

tpia@:

^So you thought its only the yorubas, igbos and hausas that have issues, right.

umechuma:

Mrs Chima is a crackhead-weed smoking woman.After smoking she comes online to say all sort of non-sense about Nigerian Men.Banning her will be better for NL.

Phrankve1:

me i no just understand the lady abi na woman or grandma ,the whole thing tire meee,

shez everywhere trying to make posters look bad, abeg desist from this act , its to much for you mrs.chima

kosoro:

[size=14pt]Who is this Mrs.Chima? Don't you have any positive outlook on life? I tire for una o! I'm expecting your fierce response - plz don't disappoint [/size]

clintwine:

I hardly reply to posts, but most times i read a thread Mrs Chima is always there derailing threads  with her mumbo-jumbo ramblings .
Please Seun can't you just ban her IP, am very sure you would be doing her husband and Nairaland a great service

Always claiming she is an American (American visa she got through the back door) even when we know from her posts that she is a thorough bred market woman.
Sometimes I wonder where she was exported from (For the first time America really did us a great service)
Just a simple advise for you "a wise man/woman is one who keeps quiet when he/she has nothing to say"


Seun if your scared of the freedom of speech rights please create a thread where people vote for users that they need banned (The last i checked we are democratic).
And please ban the IP, there are many Cats with 9 lives on this forum.

For christ sake, we haven't even answered the Ops question.
She is not interested in you deciphering if he is a fraud or not, there are many threads she can learn that from.
she just wants to understand the culture and the way her boyfriend thinks, so that they can have a peaceful/fulfilling relationship

Phrankve1:

me i no just understand the lady abi na woman or grandma ,the whole thing tire meee,

shez everywhere trying to make posters look bad, abeg desist from this act , its to much for you mrs.chima