royalistic: My heart is aching that i need to talk to someone so i can feel a little relieved. i have been married for atleast eight yrs, i have been so loving and caring to my husband and above all VERY FAITHFUL. he knows all these yet he most times shows little or no concern about it for the past 3 or 4yrs now. my most heart breaking problem now is his promiscuity is beyond what i can imagine my own husband to be part of. he flirts with both young girls and old ladies far older that him. He is 33+ n am 31 we have 4kids yes he foots our feeding bills but never worries about our looks nor spends time with us. rather he uses every little time he stays in house to chart with his laptop or pin with his bb. ones i decided to. have a proper check with d bb phone he use to use before he gave it to me 4 a new one my heart bleed with his promiscous charts pons and sms i saw. when i try to questions him concrning it he turn it into fight and later blocked the phone and i can only call. receive or sms. What can i do cause our marriage is gradually sinking cos no more life of relationship or romance in it. pls help with drastic ideas i can use to comfront him .realistically

Step84: Good evening everyone out there! I believe I would get a very reasonable advise to this my mind burgling issue. Am in a relationship with a girl I met while she was in Jss 2, although we started like friend and I used to advice her not follow bad friends that could lure her into immoral acts, but before I knew it she fell in love with me and that was how we started. I asked if she has ever slept with a man and she said no and she used to come to my house and I decided not to do anything with her and rather I encouraged her to keep herself. But last year, 2012 which marked the 10th year of our relationship I discovered she is not a virgin and she sworn with everything including her mothers grave that she has never slept with a man in her life since she grew up and she never knew how she lost her virginity. My concern is that my mind was there that she is a virgin and am getting married to a virgin girl but since I discovered that I made up my mind to leave her, though she loves me so much and she can go to any length to satisfy me but I was so disappointed

Please help me with your advise on this issue because is really affecting me and when I asked her to leave my life, she cried profusely claiming that she never dated a man in her life and she wants only me. Please what should I do? Thank you for your anticipated contribution!

ifyalways: Erhm,whatever happened to the reality show

Tyra101101: Hi! Please does anyone know of any good marriage counsellors in Lagos? I'm trying to get one for my parents. Please help!!!

greatgod2012: @mod, i think you need to consider this thread for FP, its such an enlightening, informative and expository thread that both married and about to marry can learn from. Thanks.

https://www.nairaland.com/1223068/what-make-turn-partners-intimacy

Tgirl4real: Ok. I'll recommend it.