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Where does your mum live now? in a rented apartment or her own house?

What is your relationship with your mum?

Now I am in a fix,What do you guys think

usually a sign of a scammer but let me reply anyway.


build it.

the money will probably dry up after that, but at least you'll know you did a good deed.

At least first build for your mum a house. I believe She needs it more than your dad and his wife.

If I were in your shoes, I think I would consider my Mum first. Settle her, then my Dad. But as you say - you owe your dad a duty, , If God has put this in your heart to do, I think you need to do it because you may find yourself struggling with your consience for a very long time.

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Thank you all for your response,

I have a very good relationship with my mum and she lives in a rented appartment,I already started building for my mum,but it got stuck along the way,you know how slow it is to get a land from Lagos state govt

@chaircover, I already built for myself and my family

It got stuck along the way? You haven't even started building for your mum yet and you are here talking. My friend c'mon go and make that woman comfortable.

What arrant nonsense. Your mum is there in a rented appartment , you claim you have started building, and you are still here talking about getting land from govt. Go and settle that woman.

jennykadry:

It got stuck along the way? You haven't even started building for your mum yet and you are here talking. My friend c'mon go and make that woman comfortable.

What arrant nonsense. Your mum is there in a rented appartment , you claim you have started building, and you are still here talking about getting land from govt. Go and settle that woman.

seconded!

Build for your mom alone,cos it seems your dad is rich enough to take care of himself

After building for your mom, continue building for yourself and your mom,

Cos in the long run, what you build for your mom belongs to you and your maternal siblings while the one for your dad you would start fighting with your half brothers for it and they might even attemot to hurt you over a property you built with your own money

Take care of your mom, All the care she was denied of, You are the husband that she never had and as you do more for her God would continue to bless you.

Did you mom re-marry?

chaircover:

@poster the people that you owe most are your unborn children by making sure that you dont put them through the type of trauma that you went through when you were growing up.

As regards building a property, build one for your own self first if you already dont have one.

Always on point

Please go and take care of your mom. now that she is renting, make sure she lives in a good apartment fully equipped with everything.
then complete that home you are building for her (only if you have the money and more of it and not make your own family starve in the process o). give your dad money when he needs it but don't bug yourself abt a home for him.

your dad ma be looking for way to have a new home to show off to his friends and make them miserable .

Men should read and learn, do not maltreat your children's mother if you must part ways do it in such a way that your kids respect you and aim to emulate you as the main man for being fair.

Poster
Build for your mum and if you can then, build for your dad. It is not a coincidence that he is your dad , as for the step madam, do what you can for her too.

Donot be afraid that she can harm you, the more you do for her the less power she has over you,

Sympathetic understanding says you are a man and you know how he be down in the trouser : not an excuse to throw the mother of your kids into penury sha o but just understand with him , one day he will be gone . the pain will be gone too and you will wish you showed him how much you loved him even though you do not realise you love him now,

Baba ba P lo ni: not his fault women sweet well well.