globexl:

Again @Toba:
Unfortuantely in our clime, It takes strenght of character to accept others without considering the person's religious belief. The responses so far generated in this forum clearly demonstrate that strenght of character is in short supply.
I always ask whether god will judge us based on strenght of our character here on earth, or based on the strenght of our beliefs.

toba:

i ve been trying to educate these my little sisters that its your xter that u exhibit right here on earth is what u would be judged with. its not the number of times u attended church or mosque. pple shouldnt be fooled that one u accept a particular religion its heaven or paradise straight, thats a lie. im trying to tell my sis and i do hope they listen to me. same way your attendance in class wouldnt determine your passing exam except what u right down during exam

hercules07:

@deols

See insult o, you can beg to disagree but no need to resort to insults na, anyway, it is your choice to make on the type of husband and his religion, just thought I could let you see things from a different perspective, a last piece of advice, do not resort to insults readily, it reflects badly on you.

toba:

dont mind them. Allah would touch their heart to marry me one day. im not planning to convert cos im a pastor that sees things with open mind. i told bhusayormi earlier that the will of God will prevail. its not a do or die affair

globexl:

Both in this forum, this thread and in real life when it comes to tolerance. everyone is obsessed with extoling the supremacy of their particular faith or sect, and damns you are different.

tanimz:

Let me get this straight, if she does agree to marry you, do you plan on converting her to christianity?

bhusayor:

^my thoughts exactly wen he first posted about converting, do people convert just like that (except the husband pretended to b hu he wasn't initially, which wouldn't be difficult to know for a believing woman to know anyway).

*smiles at u spoting my 1000th post' never knew d day wud come so soon.

tanimz:

Let me get this straight, if she does agree to marry you, do you plan on converting her to christianity?

hayorbaami:

@Toba! Some muslims don't mind marrying a xtian. It all depends on what you want. The sisters here are just telling you their personal views. Nobody can speak for anyone.so if you want to marry a muslim, go ahead. It is left for d sister to say yes or no.you don't av to take anytin personal.

toba:

well theres something i have learn recently especially when it comes to topics about God. we may never agree on terms. but does that nean we cant exist together? no we must find the leverage and the median to agree. like i said, mutual respect should be the key. i even challenge my fellow xtians that love to criticise prosperity pastors. the bible says we shouldnt judge cos God is the judge. we may be saying the atheists would go to hell fire, what if they dont? thats why God isnt predictable. he does what pleases him which would make us marvel.e, what if they dont? thats why God isnt predictable. he does what pleases him which would make us marvel.

bhusayor:

^my thoughts exactly wen he first posted about converting, do people convert just like that (except the husband pretended to b hu he wasn't initially, which wouldn't be difficult to know for a believing woman to know anyway).

*smiles at u spoting my 1000th post' never knew d day wud come so soon.

toba:

thks sis. i believe in mutual respect. live and lets live. if i truly love her, i would respect her wish and i swear thats what i would do. provided she acts as a good wife.

bhusayor:

^my thoughts exactly wen he first posted about converting, do people convert just like that (except the husband pretended to b hu he wasn't initially, which wouldn't be difficult to know for a believing woman to know anyway).

*smiles at u spoting my 1000th post' never knew d day wud come so soon.

nusdog:

Captivating thread.

deols:

KNow God before u worship him. THere cant be two ways to attaining paradise. Yes God can forgive but not that person who associates partners with him nor the one who says God doesnt exist. If someone dies an atheist, there's no way He is entering paradise. I'd expect that u'r sure of that especially as a pastor nd choir master.   . .wonder what your voice sounds like,  lol. .a man singing nd dancing. .eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww. LOl

tanimz:

Toba, do you know the said girl in person or do you like her based on her NL personalty?

bhusayor:

Lwkmd @deols post 'toba singing and dancing, eeeeeeew', se make man no dance again ni?

What kind of chance do you want her to give u o jare?

Chei see a stoba pull pages for thread sef.

Hello tanimz!

toba:

madam we are going to fight o. cos i hate it when pple dnt listen. two of the nl muslims im very close too outside here knows my anger no get control. . i need to tell u many things about xtianity. can u give me a chance to do so on another platform other than nl?

hayorbaami:

Who is this lucky girl dat has Toba's heart? Lol

deols:

I like pple to learn as I learn. .so tell me all here so odas can learn too

toba:

ok ma. i would oblige u all. im even happy u are guys are here with me alone with less distraction
tanimz
hayobami
deola
sis ayinba.   Married, mummy with M. you know what "ayinba" means? Oo ti e beru!

mukina2
bhusayor

pls i need to go eat rice right now. my mama is around for wkend and just cooked for moi. when i finally pick one from the above list, i will excuse mama. lol

BRB

bhusayor:

Lwkmd @deols post 'toba singing and dancing, eeeeeeew', se make man no dance again ni?

What kind of chance do you want her to give u o jare?

Chei see a stoba pull pages for thread sef.

Hello tanimz!

toba:

brilliant question. u are very intelligent and i pray that u will grow up and make it well in life Amin
the ans lies in the interview. i said if nl personality could be real as whats obtainable from her in the real world, then i wouldnt mind giving everything up for her. God bless u once again

toba:

lol. do u know whta yoruba pple call oda da? i be number one. i wasnt at work for just 2days and the office looked like a burial ground cos they all missed. same thing at home. i am making this section lively once again. i have been trying to pull tanimz away from games and joke section. Now i eventually did that. im feeling like a star. so whos the lucky girl?