A man who truly loves you:

1. Always calls you to find out how you day is going.

2. Will feel terrible when he forgets your birthday or anniversary and will always make it up to you.

3. Surprises you with gifts, even when the occasion is not special.

4. Tells you regularly that he loves you.

5. Knows how to make love to you.

6. Knows how to caress, hug, kiss and fulfill your heart's romantic desires.

7. Feels your pain when you go through hard times.

8. Loves to see you happy and rejoices with you.

9. Always makes quality time to spend with you.

10. Will never physically or emotionally abuse you.

11. Will marry you without waiting too long.

12. Will forgive and forget when you apologize for hurting his feelings.

13. Will not use your weaknesses or secrets against you.

14. Will not air your dirty laundry.

15. Is patient and willing to work on your relationship problems.

16. Knows that it is important for you to spend time with your friends and family members.

17. Will not cheat on you.

18. Will not flirt with your girlfriends to the point of annoying you.

19. Will not go out of his way to make you jealous.

20. Will always respect you in the presence of his friends and family members.

21. Always helps you with chores around the house.

22. Enjoys the company of your family and friends.

23. Supports your dreams and ambitions.

24. Never puts you down when talking to you.

25. Cares a great deal about your thoughts, feelings and opinions.

26. Is always available to help when you need him.

27. Knows that his way is not the only way.

If your man has all these characteristics, then count yourself the luckiest woman on earth.

If he has most of them, you still have a guy that is very special.

If he has just a couple of these characteristics, then you have a bum who you may want to consider kicking to the curb.

r231:

A man who truly loves you:

1. Always calls you to find out how you day is going.

2. Will feel terrible when he forgets your birthday or anniversary and will always make it up to you.

3. Surprises you with gifts, even when the occasion is not special.

4. Tells you regularly that he loves you.

5. Knows how to make love to you.

6. Knows how to caress, hug, kiss and fulfill your heart's romantic desires.

7. Feels your pain when you go through hard times.

8. Loves to see you happy and rejoices with you.

9. Always makes quality time to spend with you.

10. Will never physically or emotionally abuse you.

11. Will marry you without waiting too long.

12. Will forgive and forget when you apologize for hurting his feelings.

13. Will not use your weaknesses or secrets against you.

14. Will not air your dirty laundry.

15. Is patient and willing to work on your relationship problems.

16. Knows that it is important for you to spend time with your friends and family members.

17. Will not cheat on you.

18. Will not flirt with your girlfriends to the point of annoying you.

19. Will not go out of his way to make you jealous.

20. Will always respect you in the presence of his friends and family members.

21. Always helps you with chores around the house.

22. Enjoys the company of your family and friends.

23. Supports your dreams and ambitions.

24. Never puts you down when talking to you.

25. Cares a great deal about your thoughts, feelings and opinions.

26. Is always available to help when you need him.

27. Knows that his way is not the only way.

28. Men that exhibit all of the above characteristics are pitiably NON EXISTENT or Unfortunately EXTINCT!

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r231:

If your man has all these characteristics, then count yourself the luckiest woman on earth.

If he has most of them, you still have a guy that is very special.

If he has just a couple of these characteristics, then you have a bum who you may want to consider kicking to the curb.

If he has NONE of them?!

27 characteristics of Jesus.
Nah, sorry even JC will not always support your dreams and ambitions unless they are in His perfect will.
If a man/woman is too perfect then hes fit for heavenly and not earthly use.
Iron sharpens iron and that is what makes a relationship exciting.
mine views.

Why hasn't som1 ansad claremonts question? It is a very pertinent 1. I can assure u ladies, dat guy u're scopin has none

^^ If a man doesn't posess all those he's still a man on his way to perfection.

claremont:

^^
People seem to forget that human character does not follow a check-box approach,each human being is unique in his/her own way

We are made unique for a reason.
Those attributes listed above are attainable but they don't just fall on a man like manna.
Neither is he born with them.We learn through experiences,so you will never meet a 'ready made man'.
He will fall short in many areas but with time and after a few life's experiences,lil challenges here and there he becomes better/refined and perfected by the day.Most qualities listed up there then start showing.
But since human is flesh,we fail.

Same applies to a women.We are not barbie dolls.Challenges refine us and produce attributes.

Yea!!!! my husband possess all those exteristics jare!!! especially no 2 and 3. it's no joke. Only, he is very stubborn!!!

this one na 27 commandments

These attribues should be for both sides and not the man only but it should be more on d part of the man because a man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Christ showed us love even when we were yet sinners and layed down his life for us. How many men can "lay down his life" for his wife? Well an ordinary man cannot show all these attributes but a man that studies and practices the Word of God. If you practice the Word of God(LOVE himself), you will even show more of these attributes to your wife.

plssssssssssssssss. @omotodunto. some of us are atheists and dont believe in 'god' pls talk something else. though u may be right but ur comment cant be acceptable to all especially the religious perspective u introduced

sexkillz:

28. Men that exhibit all of the above characteristics are pitiably NON EXISTENT or Unfortunately EXTINCT!

. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Dream on Ladies!

I agree that it is actually asking too much of a man to do all 27 or most sef.

The most important thing is : Is he wise enough to guide you and your kids e.g does not buy Jeep while your kids go to bad schools, or is idea of investment is casino sprawling.

The next is : Is he a good provider, does not have to be lavish or luxury but most important is that he does not bring home to you the left over of his paycheck after doing what have not outside the home. Always let the man handle the bills, never collect money from him to pay bills, tell him he is smarter than you and better at it. He will love it and you can go file your nails.

The 3rd is that : he is a protector of you and your kids. he checks that the gates and doors are firmly locked before going to bed. he walks on the outer part of the road when you guys are walking not thaat he will us you as shield against okada or worse walk in front of you and expects you to be dodging cars all by yourself. Your car breaks down he is in a meeting and calls the mechanic to go get his madam thats a real man.

All the op wrote is ok to look forward to at the beginning but once he commits to you, you must cut him a lot of slack to enable him focus on providing , protecting and guiding you , your kids and all others who depend on him.

A man has too much to live up to, to be nagged about not doing all op wrote, If your birthday is coming , to help him remember or else he will forget , begin to sing it and hint loudly about what you would like, Ah those shoes are simply gorgeous , wearing them will simply turn me on is a good one.

@toba Give your life to Christ now. It is only Him that can help you portray these wonderful attributes and even more. If U are ready to give your life to Him, just tell me and I'll show you how.

LMAO@if he loves you he will Bleep YOU RIGHT.

@ r231

I love this that you posted - I sent it to my guy

@ horny4u

I appreciate your thoughts as well too.