I'v been wonderin d real meaning of "he used her n dumpd her after spoiling her" my problem is,is there really anytin dat is spoiled in a woman's body dat has been used sexually by a man? Or is it jst abt d repuatation,

I wonder o! when she's not even a virgin when you meet her.

Reminds me of Nigga Raw in that his 'Spiritual Konji' song: How I take use and dump you? "The thing wey you carry come, you still carry am go". Always cracks me up when I hear that use and dump nonsense from girls who didnt invest anything but their 'renewable resource' in an affair. Abi did she lose her breasts and yansh in the process? I would only consider a girl 'used and dumped' if I sliced off her two huge breasts to keep for record purposes after forking her.


But on the other hand, many men get used and dumped regularly. After spending your hard earned money on a chick. . .in some cases even training her in school and all that. . .she suddenly dumps your mumu ass for another man. Now that's proper 'use and dump'.

I believe a girl should only tell her first love who deflower that.