ekt_bear:

A friend of mine met this girl. He wants to take her somewhere relatively inexpensive for a first date. She is expecting a big expensive dinner, and is making a fuss about his previous proposal.

My friend is getting cold feet. . . doesn't know this chick at all and doesn't want to spend tons of cash on a girl he doesn't even know.

Is he being cheap, or is she demanding too much?

Personally I think she is asking for too much. First dates are basically supposed to be low-key affairs where you just get to know each other more, right?

rokiatu:

Please add undecided to the poll.

aloy/emeka:

Where in Odo-Ado do they sell expensive dinner?. For an Ekiti guy, a N250/plate dinner is outrageously expensive.  

rokiatu:

Both of them suck what the fu!ck.

For a starter, the guy is not even supposed to tell the girl where he's taking her. . . . is supposed to be a suprise no?

And the girl should just shut her dirty mouth and go with the flow. Is not as if they are dating even. So why all the fuss?

She can decide after the first date whether she wants to continue or not.

For me I don't look at the venue where I am taken on a first date, but the person personality, how I relate with them, and how we connect.

And who expect the best out of a first date anyway? First dates are like blind dates, expect nothing but the worst. If it turns out good, then good luck to you.

ekt_bear:

A friend of mine met this girl. He wants to take her somewhere relatively inexpensive for a first date. She is expecting a big expensive dinner, and is making a fuss about his previous proposal.

My friend is getting cold feet. . . doesn't know this chick at all and doesn't want to spend tons of cash on a girl he doesn't even know.

Is he being cheap, or is she demanding too much?

Personally I think she is asking for too much. First dates are basically supposed to be low-key affairs where you just get to know each other more, right?

sleekch1c:

Well,I wnt let a man take me to some slummy diner on a first date.at least any place decent.
Once went out with this dude for the first time.since M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ frnds always complained dat a̶̲̥̅♏ too picky with men,I decided to brace myself and go with the 'flow'.the results?he took me to a roadside bukka which reeked of fufu,ordered fufu for himself and asked me if I wanted any.I spent d whole hour fighting nausea, cldnt help it,the way he rolled d fufu,d way he talked with his mouth still containing d fufu,I had to leave d place and as expected,I puked M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ guts out.
@op,†̥ε̲ƪƪ U̶̲̥̅̊ frnd to take her to a decent place or STFU.

seunuk:

[b]Re: What Are The Expectations For A First Date?
« #8 on: Today at 04:37:59 AM »

5 star restaurant won't be a problem since sex at first date is for sure
ROTFLMAO

sleekch1c:

Well,I wnt let a man take me to some slummy diner on a first date.at least any place decent.
Once went out with this dude for the first time.since M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ frnds always complained dat a̶̲̥̅♏ too picky with men,I decided to brace myself and go with the 'flow'.the results?he took me to a roadside bukka which reeked of fufu,ordered fufu for himself and asked me if I wanted any.I spent d whole hour fighting nausea, cldnt help it,the way he rolled d fufu,d way he talked with his mouth still containing d fufu,I had to leave d place and as expected,I puked M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ guts out.
@op,†̥ε̲ƪƪ U̶̲̥̅̊ frnd to take her to a decent place or STFU.

sleekch1c:

Well,I wnt let a man take me to some slummy diner on a first date.at least any place decent.
Once went out with this dude for the first time.since M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥  frnds always complained dat a̶̲̥̅♏ too picky with men,I decided to brace myself and go with the 'flow'.the results?he took me to a roadside bukka which reeked of fufu,ordered fufu for himself and asked me if I wanted any.I spent d whole hour fighting nausea, cldnt help it,the way he rolled d fufu,d way he talked with his mouth still containing d fufu,I had to leave d place and as expected,I puked M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥  guts out.
@op,†̥ε̲ƪƪ U̶̲̥̅̊ frnd to take her to a decent place or STFU.

ROTFLMAOOOOO!!

Sleek! in my Opinion, this guy PLAYED you! He planned it and wanted to see your response! Is he an Ibo boy like meself?

BTW, he's an A[b]S[/b]S! there are better places to eat fufu in! OMG!

sleekch1c:

Well,I wnt let a man take me to some slummy diner on a first date.at least any place decent.
Once went out with this dude for the first time.since M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ frnds always complained dat a̶̲̥̅♏ too picky with men,I decided to brace myself and go with the 'flow'.the results?he took me to a roadside bukka which reeked of fufu,ordered fufu for himself and asked me if I wanted any.I spent d whole hour fighting nausea, cldnt help it,the way he rolled d fufu,d way he talked with his mouth still containing d fufu,I had to leave d place and as expected,I puked M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ guts out.
@op,†̥ε̲ƪƪ U̶̲̥̅̊ frnd to take her to a decent place or STFU.

ekt_bear:

A friend of mine met this girl. He wants to take her somewhere relatively inexpensive for a first date.

She is expecting a big expensive dinner, and is making a fuss about his previous proposal.

My friend is getting cold feet. . . doesn't know this chick at all and doesn't want to spend tons of cash on a girl he doesn't even know.

Is he being cheap, or is she demanding too much?

Personally I think she is asking for too much. First dates are basically supposed to be low-key affairs where you just get to know each other more, right?