Blendy77: Olikili congrats, so happy for you. Our love and kisses to your twins. Thank God for this good news. Please feel free to spill the name of the clinic you used as I'm sure a lot of peeps will be interested.

Godiya and Tanidabi, it is well. God is never late so be rest assured you will celebrate soonest.

Beloved, your story is so touching. Don't know much about PGD, do they do the testing in Nig? Kpele Dear, am happy you found someone who understands what you're talking about. It is well.

Merry Christmas and a better 2013 to you all.

Blendy77: Arisolama I don't think its Tanks Very much Blendy,I appreciate but is it true that accupunture helps after ET or its just a waiste of money? And pls does any1 know about Dr Wada of Nissa Premier in ABj?


necessary becos womb setting is actually for the swimmers to have free access to the cervix unhindered whereas with ivf, the egg is already fertilized and deposited in the middle of the womb so its absolutely not necessary but then you can do it if it makes you feel good. As in, if you feel u'll have a better result with it. I know I did some native herbs like sitting on some boiled herbs for days and that helped a lot with discharge I've battled with for years but can't say categorically that it gave me my BFP. So do what makes you feel your chances are increasd without endangering ur life. Always seek a second opinion too with what you decide to do as what works for one person might not work for the other. All da best my Sister.

Godiya, Emeka is good won't deceive you but have it at the back of your mind that its God that gives. I got 2 BFN with him before my BFP this year. Also a lot of people have been getting BFP this year and even those with BFN still insists on returning to him because he is probably different from other Drs but call him and schedule an appointment free of charge to discuss your issue and if your mind tells you to continue with him, then follow your mind.
Why am I saying all this? A friend I met here on NL got a BFN and it was really difficult consoling her. I was almost crying for her becos it was like she went there because of the plenty testimonies she read here. A lot of peeps still got BFP at first attempt this year but have it at the back of your mind that ivf is try ur luck. All the best Dear. His number is 08032011536. His price is between 900-950k. Try and negotiate any price he gives you cos he don dey like money these days cos of the plenty BFP's so let him know someone told you on NL that its negotiable. U don't pay anythg at first vist and u can go with ur recent tests results so u don't spend money repeating them.

Blendy77: Hmmm adoption tins. I used to encourage women to also try adoption after ivf but after a colleague's nasty experience, I'd rather solicit for surrogacy than adoption. Let me quickly share my colleague's story so others too can learn.

This lady in question got married 15years ago (I didn't even know she's been married for that long), and couldn't conceive. I think they tried ivf and what have you and finally decided to adopt a baby. They are very rich as the husband was a big boy in one of the banks while she works in an oil company. She drives the latest prado to the office and they own a house in Lekki so money was not an issue. Just 2 weeks ago, the husband was shot by hired assassins and trust igbos and culture. The bottom line of the story is that the family has refused to accept the baby she and the hubby adopted. The obituary poster pasted on our office notice board does not reflect anythg to show the guy has a child whether fostered or adopted. Mourners listed there were brothers, sisters, uncles, aunties,nieces and nephews. Everyone in the office noticed the deliberate removal of her child all because its not the man's seed. News making the rounds is that the family is eagerly alloting the man's houses and cars to themselves. My colleague has a good job so we definitely know she would be ok with her child. But then, how would anyone feel, after husling with a guy for 15yrs and all of a sudden u loose everythg to relatives just because u don't have a child for him. Its just so sad and we all feel for her. That is why I always pray and encourage women with delay never to fold their arms and expect God to make the move for them. God has already put in place so many techniques and ways to have a baby. Iui and ivf is there surrogacy is another option if ivf doesn't work for you. Its still ur baby, only carried by a rented womb and at the end, you and your family are happy. Gist going round has it that the 2 kids Patience has for Jonathan were born by surrogates in India, no wahala, who cares? Women should wise up especially if the money is there and you can afford it.
Anyone can criticize me but then its my own opinion. There's this pidgin proverb that says, Pikin wey no get Mama, na when other people mama dey advise their children na him from dey listen dey gain wisdom.

NEGOZI: HI EVERYONE MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A WONDERFUL NEW YEAR TO ALL. I hope those who were at home during Christmas enjoyed their Christmas gathering with family, friends and food. To God be the glory. On my last message i wrote about going for surgery it happens to be during Christmas and all was successful. It was a terrible experience on that day i was placed on oxygen throughout the day and 4 hrs operation while A lady close to me who was also working along for ivf has been married for 14 yrs no issue and finally her womb was removed totally or else she has only 5 months to developed into uterus cancer. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm God has been faithful to me even when some doctors were recommending removing my womb due to outrageous size of fibroid inside my uterus but God sent an expert gynecologist who did an artistic performance. God has been faithful to me Brethren .Who am i to deserve this May his name forever be praised! funny enough i did not pay kobo all were (gratis)free including food.By his grace i will continue my Ivf by January ending even when the doctor gave me assurance to conceive naturally. I have made up my mind to go for ivf for there is no time for us especially my hubby age-wise. Thanks all for your prayer and encouragement you all are de-bomba.

wonyi: may God help us. delay is not a good thing. may our heart desires be granted 2013.
can someone conceive naturally after IVF? abeg sabi people help me answer the question

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arisolama: So sad a story but this suRrogacy of a thing must the surrogate know the person she's. Surrogatiing for?