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Should I Break Up by jarkbauer: 1:19pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR 3 years.the relationship has had its ups and downs. i love my babeĀ alot and very caring but the way she acts makes me feel she takes my love for granted and couple with the fact that she has no respect or fear for me.when i am angry at whatever she does she will never apologize but will give excuse and defends her action without caring for abt my feelings, after we got engaged i thot she will change but all had remained d same.i cant marry a disrespectful non submissive woman. should i break up? |
Re: Should I Break Up by omega25red(m): 1:36pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
welcome to the 21st century If you want a completly submissive woman you probably will have to go to your village. Further more you can not expect your relationship to be like your parents because things were different when they were growing up. I wont say break up or dont because for one we are not involved in your relationship and you have to know within yourself if this is a woman you can spend the rest of your life with. |
Re: Should I Break Up by jarkbauer: 1:39pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
omega25red: Word. but i am just confused |
Re: Should I Break Up by iice(f): 1:53pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Find someone like your mother. |
Re: Should I Break Up by jarkbauer: 2:04pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
ok |
Re: Should I Break Up by Eiregirl(f): 2:19pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Has she been like this since the relationship began? If so, why did you expect her to change because you got engaged? |
Re: Should I Break Up by jarkbauer: 2:28pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Eiregirl: yes she has been like that but i ignored it because i felt she wasn't sure if i will marry her so she wanted to be on guard incase i disappoint her |
Re: Should I Break Up by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Why did you wait till after you engaged her, before you ask this question? And if you answer "after we got engaged i thot she will change", what was the time frame btw, after you got engaged, and when you are asking this question? |
Re: Should I Break Up by born2boink(m): 2:46pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Don't break up,break into pieces |
Re: Should I Break Up by tellwisdom: 3:15pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
OP, go to india and get a better wife |
Re: Should I Break Up by slimyem: 3:29pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
born2fuck: tellwisdom:ouch! |
Re: Should I Break Up by Kanou(f): 3:30pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Tell her what you told us here, she might start to realize she is overdoing things. Think well about how peaceful you want your home and how respected you want to be and let her know. See if she understands and complies, or else do not expect her to change after marriage, just as she did not change after your engagement. Give yourself some time to make your points clear, and decide. Do not be afraid to take tough action, it is about your whole future! Do the right thing! |
Re: Should I Break Up by hardbody: 5:31pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
A bit surprising you are posing this as a question @ poster. Recall you said ''i cant marry a disrespectful non submissive woman.'' Should we still advise any further? Especially if what you have been experiencing amounts to just that? |
Re: Should I Break Up by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
@poster before anyone can fully understand your issue, you should explain to us all: - how exactly does she act that is so wrong? - what does she specifically do that makes you feel that she takes your love for granted? - what does she specifically do that makes you feel that she has no respect for you? - give us an example of what you want her to apologize about. |
Re: Should I Break Up by ijaya1: 8:47pm On Oct 04, 2011 |
Guy break loose before she reck you, I rebuke it IJN. |
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