I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR 3 years.the relationship has had its ups and downs. i love my babe  alot and very caring but the way she acts makes me feel she takes my love for granted and couple with the fact that she has no respect or fear for me.when i am angry at whatever she does she will never apologize but will give excuse and defends her action without caring for abt my feelings, after we got engaged i thot she will change but all had remained d same.i cant marry a disrespectful non submissive woman. should i break up?

welcome to the 21st century

If you want a completly submissive woman you probably will have to go to your village. Further more you can not expect your relationship to be like your parents because things were different when they were growing up. I wont say break up or dont because for one we are not involved in your relationship and you have to know within yourself if this is a woman you can spend the rest of your life with.

omega25red:

welcome to the 21st century

If you want a completly submissive woman you probably will have to go to your village. Further more you can not expect your relationship to be like your parents because things were different when they were growing up. I wont say break up or dont because for one we are not involved in your relationship and you have to know within yourself if this is a woman you can spend the rest of your life with.

Word. but i am just confused

ok

Has she been like this since the relationship began? If so, why did you expect her to change because you got engaged?

Eiregirl:

Has she been like this since the relationship began? If so, why did you expect her to change because you got engaged?

yes she has been like that but i ignored it because i felt she wasn't sure if i will marry her so she wanted to be on guard incase i disappoint her

Don't break up,break into pieces

born2fuck:

Don't break up,break into pieces

tellwisdom:

OP, go to india and get a better wife

ouch!

Tell her what you told us here, she might start to realize she is overdoing things.

Think well about how peaceful you want your home and how respected you want to be and let her know. See if she understands and complies, or else do not expect her to change after marriage, just as she did not change after your engagement.

Give yourself some time to make your points clear, and decide. Do not be afraid to take tough action, it is about your whole future!

Do the right thing!

A bit surprising you are posing this as a question @ poster. Recall you said ''i cant marry a disrespectful non submissive woman.'' Should we still advise any further? Especially if what you have been experiencing amounts to just that?

@poster
before anyone can fully understand your issue, you should explain to us all:
- how exactly does she act that is so wrong?
- what does she specifically do that makes you feel that she takes your love for granted?
- what does she specifically do that makes you feel that she has no respect for you?
- give us an example of what you want her to apologize about.

Guy break loose before she reck you, I rebuke it IJN.