Welcome on board.

As the title of this thread implies, its free for all provided we'll not loose our cool.

This child board is named 'Dating And Meet-up Zone' hence we are free to mingle, ask for a date and then meet people on line to establish a relationship on both platonic and beyond platonic levels.

If theres anyone u're eyeing or admiring(male/female) u are free to declare your intent right here in a civilised manner. no holds barred

once again welcome on board

lemme open the floor.

I wanna know baskem. The lady that keeps getting banned whilst trying to copy and paste article to NL. lol

I like her personality and her kind heartedness, after she offered her brother to Mukina2, to express her gratitude to her. on this premise, i became enthused to knowing and meeting the personality behind the handle. So baskem, show your self asap

toba:

The lady that keeps getting banned whilst trying to copy and paste article to NL. lol

lolz!

well am here!

thanks for coming. Now i want u to give me a genuine reason why u think i cant beat him. I'm highly interested in u. I have told u why, cos of your kind gesture.

toba:

relationship on both platonic and beyond platonic levels.

which of the above 

platonic first and then, we allow things to happen naturally to any level beyond platonic if need be.

wow!
am tripping for your determination and courage - it depicts maturity and class.
but,

'but' let it out.

No holds barred u know?

^^^surer dearie

I like my men young and 'controllable'

swty. depends entirely on what u mean by young and controllable.

being young could be in born whilst being controllable could be learnt if not part of the character

lolzzz
my definition is the total package of young in age, looks, thinking, etc 

[s]can we continue this 2morow? dearie![/s]

they say 'the taste of the pudding is in the eating' when we get to that stage u are gonna be shocked by the looks of yours truly. Like i said, i wouldnt want to rush yaa. just keep cool.

Yea my swty is tired already? Alright im gonna pardon u for just this one night as a fresher. Henceforth, we gonna be keeping vigil together. swt dreams angel

Are you trying to step into the shoes of your womanizer jobless friend who decided to stay away from NL?

i wanna see Realielity101,lefoollefool and peckham's puppy(Mr.Cork).i have scores to settle with them.

slimyem Posted on: Today at 11:08:48 AM:

i wanna see Realielity101,lefoollefool and peckham's puppy(Mr.Cork).i have scores to settle with them.

lol at the emphasized handles

But before then, i also like to have a chat with u. I read something in ur post which is making me feel uncomfortable with u, even though i think i like ur person.

uncomfortable with me?
Like seriously?
Tell me!

ok. I'll tell u gradually without rushing . What do u think about NL especially guys that are frequent posters on the Romance section main board and child boards?

Seriously,i think everyone is just catching fun here and a lot of the guys are not really all they write.
Their real lives are offline.
Btw,that's still not what's making you uncomfortable bout me.is it?

Yea i know u are a smart girl thats not the reason.

Let me also ask u. 1)Are u gentle, 2)aggressive or 3)moderately gentle and aggressive?


Do u take these guys serious based on their NL characters?

shior! toba is gradually becoming a womaniser on Nairaland

trustee its not what u think. Im here to know and meet people that are smart, intelligent, young and enterprising.

How can a virgin be a womanizer?

ok. iya would like to know why toba claims is still a virgin at his age. 1. is it that he does not possess laying skills or 2. he is impoten

Thank you for the question. I dont think im impotent even though i havent exercised the potential of my God giving private.

I think the main cos of this is lack of time and the fact that im some how spiritual and religious.

Hope ur question is answered

toba
check out d next topic on dis board

why?

toba:

1)Are u gentle, 2)aggressive or 3)moderately gentle and aggressive?

i hope you aint forgetting this is an open forum.if i answer these questions here,i'd be giving up my anonymity.besides,i dont want anyone to be able to figure me out that easily.

toba:

Do u take these guys serious based on their NL characters?

i am(to a certain extent) able to isolate seriousness and unseriousness from any writing or post.that answer you?

slimyem:

i hope you aint forgetting this is an open forum.if i answer these questions here,i'd be giving up my anonymity.besides,i dont want anyone to be able to figure me out that easily.

Well my dear, it important for u to know that more than 50% of xters we exhibit on NL is to some extent a reflection of who we are in reality. i.e what we do here is what we are being judged with whereas same is to some certain extent up to half way correct about how we perceive things and behave in the real world. i hope u know that. No matter the level of trying to be secretive, the obvious cant be hidden. I can cite numerous examples based on what I've seen here and in reality.

i am(to a certain extent) able to isolate seriousness and unseriousness from any writing or post.that answer you?

Does this mean that u take some serious and dont take others serious judging by your ability to decipher seriousness from unseriousness?

toba:

Well my dear, it important for u to know that more than 50% of xters we exhibit on NL is to some extent a reflection of who we are in reality.

50% is a bit on the high side.dont you think?for a sizeable number of people,NL is a just a place to loosen up.

toba:

Does this mean that u take some serious and dont take others serious judging by your ability to decipher seriousness from unseriousness?

i think there are people who mean everyword they say here esp.in the other serious sections.every sentence has a mood.i can see into the moods.with me,every insult and trash online stays online and every useful stuff goes into my head.
What's uncomfortable about me?

slimyem:

50% is a bit on the high side.dont you think?for a sizeable number of people,NL is a just a place to loosen up.

i think u are contradicting ur self here in comparison to what u wrote and actually meant. Yes i stand by my words that close to or exactly 50% of xters here reflects that of reality for some folks here. take for instance, i dont need to be told that yemi is part of ur name. In addition i have related with some folks i met here and really believe me that its exactly what i saw of them on Nl is what i saw in reality. couple of nlders have been to my house, we ve spoken on phone, chat on IM etc. they are just real.

i think there are people who mean everyword they say here esp.in the other serious sections.every sentence has a mood.i can see into the moods.with me,every insult and trash online stays online and every useful stuff goes into my head.

here lies the contradiction. if pple are here to loosen up, why then get emotional or overeactive when tossed? if u are here to enjoy, then u shouldnt get to emotional with issues. Really i see no reason why anyone should insult and i also see no reason why any one shd repudiate after being insulted. when i toba and u yemi take ourselves to such level, it may mean that in real life, we dont take BS and dont like to over look some issue. Hope u get the gist. if really we are here to loosen up, we should do so without allowing things to get into our head. eg of nlders that are here to loosen up are Nayah and Pendo. Im yet to see those 2 react after being insulted. BTW which section do u consider serious and the ones u consider not serious? cos Romance section is one of the sections i consider to be a serious section even though heres also where we have the highest number of kids and immature male and female.

What's uncomfortable about me?

if u ve followed my post closely on this thread, u should realised why i feel uncomfortable with an aspect of ur post even i said i like u. U didnt answer my question on if u take some guys serious and dont take others serious
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toba:

if pple are here to loosen up, why then get emotional or overeactive when tossed? if u are here to enjoy, then u shouldnt get to emotional with issues. Really i see no reason why anyone should insult and i also see no reason why any one shd repudiate after being insulted. if really we are here to loosen up, we should do so without allowing things to get into our head.

Now,you are gon make me tell all that i dont want to.
we are different in lots of ways.what appeals to you doesnt appeal to me.what makes you tick doesnt makes me tick,what is fun for me isnt fun for you.some people are natural bullies and some(like me) cannot just take it in and let it go.
I word-bully a lot on line and i give it back as much as i get it.that's what makes it fun.that's what makes it 'loosening up' but that's probably all there is to it.

toba:

BTW which section do u consider serious and the ones u consider not serious?

politics,religion,computer,books,health,autos,jobs are the more serious sections.highly important and educative issues are trashed here, i want to believe but here in romance,there are too many jesters who are capable of turning any important thread into joke.i'd pick the family section for intelligent contributions on serious romantic issues anyday anytime.

slimyem:

Now,you are gon make me tell all that i dont want to.
we are different in lots of ways.what appeals to you doesnt appeal to me.what makes you tick doesnt makes me tick,what is fun for me isnt fun for you.

This is an undisputable fact

some people are natural bullies and some(like me) cannot just take it in and let it go.

which means im correct that 50% of NL xters = real word xters?

I word-bully a lot on line and i give it back as much as i get it.that's what makes it fun.that's what makes it 'loosening up' but that's probably all there is to it.

No may be u need to go look up the dic meaning of loosening up. There isnt any fun in it when u use anger for anger. U may choose to retract ur comment about loosening up. If u are here to loosening up, then u must free ur self from the usual usual argument and fight.

Thats by the way. i want us to change gear now since i have established the fact that nl=reality to some extent. does it mean if im dating u, u arent going to be submissive to me?